So you may have read about my Asexual Perspectives book being published, but just what is Asexuality and what does it mean to be asexual? Watch this video to find out more and read my book description below. Asexual Perspectives is currently available to read for free on Amazon for ‘Kindle Unlimited’ readers, so what have you got to lose by finding out more?
In broad terms Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, but what does this actually mean for those who identify with this sexual orientation? And what do asexuals really think of love, life and sex?
Whilst all asexuals have one thing in common – the lack of sexual attraction towards a specific person, we are all different in our likes, needs, wants and dislikes. This can make fitting into the asexual spectrum and finding a suitable relationship difficult.
Right now, there are a number of myths about asexuality and stereotypes – even within the asexual community, about what asexuals do and do not like, should and should not do, and these need to be addressed and broken through!
If you identify as asexual do you –
Struggle to have a voice in this sexualized world?
Have no one to relate to?
Find it difficult to find others like you?
Feel like everyone is speaking a foreign language where sex is concerned?
Or are you unsure of your identity and sometimes get confused and you want to know what asexuals really think of Love, Life and Sex, and what experiences they have had or are having; and how they manage their relationships? If so, then look no further than this book. In this book you will discover asexuals who feel just like you.
In this book I will reveal my own asexual perspective and personal story as well as perspectives from 46 asexuals around the globe; dispelling myths and breaking stereotypes; sharing their own personal journey to help you in yours and with a surprising over-riding message!
In this book you will:
•Learn the asexual perspectives of Aromantics; Heteroromantics; Homoromantics; Panromantics; Grey Aces; Demi-sexual; Biromantic; Agender; Transgender; Polyamorous and many more.
•Uncover Asexuals’ deepest fears, concerns and worries about being asexual.
•Find out possible reasons why, in general, society does not accept asexuality as a sexual orientation in its own right and what we can do about this to change the world!
•Discover what asexuals really believe are the differences between sexual attraction, sexual desire and arousal.
•Find out what asexuals really think of nudity; porn; masturbation; BDSM and kinks.
•Discover what it feels like to have sex as an asexual and how to cope with the sexualized world that we live in.
•Find out what asexuals think about living together, about marriage and about having kids.
•Discover what an ideal asexual relationship would look like and whether asexuals believe a relationship with a sexual would be fair or not.
•Uncover the positives about being asexual.
•Find out what advice asexuals would give to a younger version of themselves regarding asexuality and what advice they would give to others who are just discovering they may be asexual.
I feel truly blessed that all interviewees have been willing to open up and share their most intimate moments, thoughts, feelings and emotions with you. What you are about to read is unique, amazing, interesting, sometimes candidly humorous, fascinating and insightful. This is their story, now it’s their time to tell it.
Heteroromantic Author Sandra Bellamy, is the founder of www.asexualise.com, with products, resources and services for asexuals. She sees herself as an ambassador for asexuality and is on a mission to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. By purchasing this book you will gain a deeper understanding of this often misunderstood sexual orientation and help to spread awareness of asexuality at the same time. We may be small in numbers, but we can still make a huge difference to the world at large and celebrate our diversity.
I love my writing because it doesn’t lie to me, it doesn’t cheat on me.
I love my writing because it gives as much as it takes.
I love my writing because it makes me feel happy, fulfilled, and like I’ve achieved something good, even great, in my life!
I love my writing because it makes fantasy a reality!
I love my writing because it brings me closer to myself.
I love my writing because it brings me joy, peace and happiness.
I love my writing because it brings out the best in me.
I love my writing because it makes fairytales a reality.
I would love to be married to my writing because I 100% love it; I know it is fullly committed to me, it brings out the best in me and insists I pay it lots of attention, more so than the housework I hate. It doesn’t moan or complain if the washing up is not done and doesn’t expect me to do it as it would rather spend quality time with me.
Me and my writing are 100% wrapped up in each other, 100% into each other and 100% love each other. One cannot exist and thrive without the other. We are wrapped up in an eternal bliss together, forever and always.
I love my writing because it’s a reflection of me and it’s a part of my soul forever.
I love my writing because it’s always been there for me and never lets me down. Through sad times, happy times, good times and bad times, it’s always been true to me.
I love my writing because it enables me to change lives and fulfil my dreams.
I love my writing because it loves me!
Always stay true to your quirky self and your writing, because it’s worth it and it values your worth in return!
Confessions of an asexual businesswoman cougar. Quirky Books writer Sandra Bellamy confesses all to the Mirror UK National Press with desires of a teenage romance. Special Edition Video. Read the article here and share it http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/confessions-cougar-repulsed-sex-dreams-9456045
Doing anything for the first time can be scary but as I reflect back on this year to date, I have done a lot of firsts and will do more next year.
Angel had her first bath a couple of weeks ago and the bathing went surprisingly well – the hair drying took a lot longer and she decided to repeatedly try to climb under or over my arm at lightening speed. It must have taken twice as long as it should but because she is so gorgeous and so funny, it didn’t really matter because I love her so much. It will be her first Christmas soon, baby’s first Christmas is always good and a memorable one!!
So my firsts for this year:
- I succeeded in learning how to use Photoshop so now I create all of my own T-Shirt designs and do the artwork for them.
- I got tiered up to the next quantity of T-Shirt designs so I can sell more at one time on Amazon.com
- I wrote and published my ‘How To Get Started With Twitter, Get Going and Get Growing A Step By Step Guide” book.
- My Asexualise My Asexual Life YouTube channel has grown to over 150 subscribers.
- I interviewed over 40 asexuals for my Asexual Perspectives, Love Life And Sex, ACElebration Of Asexual Diversity book and I am trying hard to get the Kindle version published before Christmas.
- I completed a Marketing course (still got to action all the modules now though).
- I learnt how to use IMovie and can now create my own videos.
- I did an’ Inspire With Video Materclass’, so I can create my own inspirational videos.
- I completed a “Your Next Bold Move” course at the beginning of this year and it helped me to plan and be more productive for the rest of the year.
What first have you had this year (2016) and what firsts are coming for you next year?
Wow! 6 years to this day I started Blogging on this blog – Quirky Books. This photo is actually taken from a video I did recently for my other channel.
Thank you for all your support; love, kindness, and friendship you have shown me. This blog is one of the very best things I ever started in my life, it helped me changed my life to be much more positive, and helped in my recovery from depression that I had for years prior to 2012, and I cannot thank you enough for all you have done for me. I love you to bits xx
I want you to be one of the first to know – that I am changing my QuirkyAcademy.com into an online training centre for Entrepreneurs, Start-ups and Creatives. So if you are interested in any of those areas, and as creative writers I expect you are – then watch out in the next few months for courses to empower and accelerate your learning in all aspects of these areas.
Keep writing, keep being quirky, and keep being you xx
Here it is, the moment you have been waiting for all your quirky life. How to embrace your quirky in your life and business to be happy!
Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered who is looking back at you? Have you ever felt depressed? Lacked self-esteem or self-belief? If so, I can help you – listen to my podcast interview now on SoundCloud with New Inceptions!
You do not have to be signed-up to SoundCloud to hear my podcast! Just click on play and click on the ‘AoL 050: How To Embrace Your Quirky To’ image, to see the full article about my interview!
Enjoy, and please leave a comment below and tell me how you Embrace Your Quirky and what difficulties you are currently experiencing that I can help you with?
This is a Writer’s/Author’s Dream come true. Today I am celebrating the fact that Amazon UK is promoting my book for me, not only in its third email to me, but also in the subject line and it’s top of its list. Thank you Amazon UK. http://amzn.to/1U4yP0q
I have learnt a lot about Kindle publishing since publishing my Break through The Barriers Of Redundancy book and had a strategy for what I was doing this time and it is really paying off. I write not just for sales, but because I love writing. I have kept this book low price because I want as many people as possible to benefit from it and get my name out into the world more as a Writer. I couldn’t be more happy. Sure, I barely get anything from this book after Amazon take about 65-70% of it, but this book is not about that for me. This book is the path to my future and proof that you can earn money from Kindle books and doing what you love – it’s now my job to get better and better at it! And you know I will, because it is my destiny to help others through the written and spoken word. Whenever you have a down moment, remember a big up will come along soon. Keep going and keep doing what you love, always.
Stay quirky and write soon