The Best Book Of Its Type – 5 STAR BOOK REVIEW OF MY BOOK

Break Through The Barriers Of Redundancy Book Cover

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Top Customer Reviews

Format: Kindle Edition

I have read a fair number of books about coping with redundancy and thought this was absolutely brilliant. It is packed with great tips and covers a huge range of topics. Editing your CV and cover letter, and dealing with the hidden job market and tough interviews are all necessary evils. However, in my experience, keeping positive, being resilient and using the time to develop personally and professionally are all vital and often overlooked by other books. If you have months of unstructured emptiness ahead of you, keeping mentally and physically fit, coping with changed relationship dynamics, contemplating doing courses and voluntary work etc. will all feature. This book addresses all these issues in an excellent fashion. It will help get you back on track – whilst re-emerging as a happier, more rounded individual at the end of what could otherwise prove to be an endless, tortuous process.
My book is free to read on Kindle Unlimited, until 14th of March.
I think this review is better than my book blurb!
What do you think?
Stay quirky and write soon, Sandra. xx

Dear Diary – I’ve Missed You: A Night Time Poem For Writer’s

Dear Diary – I’ve Missed You: A Night Time Poem For Writer’s

It’s been a while since I really let rip my writing talent in my diary. This night it felt so good to get back into writing and just let it flow throughout my soul. This was a poem that just poured out of me and I wanted to share it with you.

Stay quirky



There is lots of magic and power in being single, please can you watch this video to find out more. I would love to know what you think?? And please tell me how you plan to celebrate February 14th, whether you are single or with a loved one??

Less than 14 days to go to INTERNATIONAL CELEBRATE BEING SINGLE DAY – FEB 14TH (#ICBSDAY), which I launched on social media last year (2015). So that no single person needs to feel lonely ever again, on Valentine’s Day, instead, they can celebrate being single, which is what I have done for the past 4 years. This year, my train ticket is already booked to go to Bristol and I am going back to the zoo again, because I enjoyed it so much last year. Lori will be continuing her filming of me in Bristol, for the asexual documentary I am appearing in – which focuses on ‘living for myself’ – you will so love it when you see it on YouTube after it is finished – because it shows me in my completely quirky home and state of being!! I will link it here when it’s out March/April time.

I love being single, it’s the best feelings in the world, it’s so empowering to be able to have the total freedom of being authentic, quirky you. You don’t have to compromise who you are, or adjust yourself to anyone. And I love living in my World Of Quirky, always. It’s the happiest I have ever been – Living a teenager lifestyle, to the max – is what I love to do! Always. This video is from my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel – but the day is for every ‘single’ person in the world, not just those who are asexual and happen to be single.

I now have Quirky T Shirt as my own brand of T Shirt on and I have created a Quirky T Shirt especially for International Celebrate Being Single Day – Click here to view it I have partnered with, who are individually printing my designs for me and posting them out to customers directly. I pay a professional designer to bring my artwork to life.

Official International Celebrate Being Single Official Quirky T Shirt

Official International Celebrate Being Single Official Quirky T Shirt – Exclusively designed by founder – Sandra Bellamy. (Copyrighted)

Below, is the very short blog post on the day I officially founded and launched International Celebrate Being Single Day! (In this video I said I founded it in 2014 – I had the original idea for it years ago, while waiting at the train station to go home from college on Valentine’s Day, with a pink heart shaped cake I had bought myself! And I gave up eating sugar due to an allergy when I was 19!) Happy International Celebrate Being Single Day day to all of my ‘single’ blogging friends and Happy Valentine’s Day to  those of you who are in a relationship. Love, hugs, and stay quirky xx


New Year, New You – Right? Wrong!!! – Find Out Why?

New Year, New You – Right? Wrong!!! – Find Out Why? 

I hear time and time again people say it’s a new year, so a new me – but what about the life you have already got, and the person you are already??? Forget about reinventing yourself – and let’s start working on you. Let’s make you the best version of you that there can be, right here, right now. Get watching this video and together, let’s gets to work on YOU!!

I would love to know what you think of this video and what other videos I can do to help you?

Stay quirky, write soon.


New Book – Asexual Perspectives, Love, Life and Sex


Exeter Quayside


Exeter Cathedral

I like to count my blessings. I have many, including you, my loyal and loving Follwers, thank you.

I am have Snow and Chestnut, my mum and dad, and my good friends.

I love living in my flat in the big beautiful Victorian house I live in; and I love living in Exeter, 5 minutes walk from the picturesque and historic Quayside. I get to cross the Quayside bridge every day I go to work in my day job.

I just started work on my first non-fiction asexual book. It’s called Asexual Perspectives, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Diversity. I am interviewing both Asexuals and asexual supporters fot it. I have two of each, already ready to be interviewed for it.

I am also being filmed for a short asexual documentary, have an Internet radio interview about my asexuality being recorded this Sunday; am being interviewed for a blog about my asexuality; and arranging another asexual in person meet-up, in my local area next month.

If you want to find out more about asexuality you can join my community on Facebook Find me on Facebook at Twitter Join me on Twitter; or Google Asexualise My Asexual Life, to check out my Asexualise channel and learn more. I go into very intimate and personal details about myself and past relationships on this channel, in order to help others, so if you are pro asexuality, please subscribe. The more awareness I can raise, the better. On Facebook I have sexual people who support my page by liking it and it helps to spread the word. Asexuality is a lack of sexual attraction, however, I am a Heteroromantic Asexual, so still desire a romantic relationship with the right guy.

Have you heard of Asexuality before? I would love to have your comments.

Write soon;
Stay Quirky.