New Asexualise Dating Group Without Sex – Asexual Awareness Week


This is Asexual Awareness Week and as you may or may not know, I am asexual – I am a heteroromantic, hyper-romantic, Grey A, Asexual (younger) Cougar, who does not like sex, just kissing. Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction towards a specific person – so I have never looked at a guy and thought I want sex with him! But in my case, I have thought I would like to snog his face off! Some asexuals are also aromantics and do not experience romantic attraction either – I do!

In plain terms I am only attracted to guys romantically who are younger than me, and I tend to only get attracted to younger foreign guys and would like to have a romantic relationship with an asexual guy, without sex, marriage or kids, as a living apart together forever relationship. I like kissing a lot. I have not found a suitable asexual guy. I am on two asexual dating sites and recently created a new group on Facebook that is strictly for Asexuals only, who want to date other asexuals and have a relationship without sex. If you are asexual and happen to be reading this – here is the link

If you want to know more about asexuality – check out my website for asexuals and join my Facebook page  – Find me on Twitter  and check out my YouTube channel

Asexuality Awareness Week – How to Understand Asexual People in 8 steps!!

In case you did not know, this week is Asexuality Awareness Week and I found this really useful post from explaining what it means to be asexual, please check it out.

Asexuals are basically people who are not sexually attracted to other people (any gender). Some people might think they have a disorder or mental illness, that is not true!  Here is a simple comic f…

Source: How to Understand Asexual People in 8 steps


ACHIEVING THE UNIMAGINED!! This weekend I will be at this event. Tony Robbins, the World’s Leading Coach and Business Strategist – changed my life in 2012, and I could not miss this opportunity to see him again. I will also be spreading awareness of Asexuality at the same time as my other businesses, hence the business cards below. I leave on a sleeper train at 1.06am Saturday morning and the event is a two day seminar of back-to-back entrepreneur speakers and I have a leisure day on Monday before returning home.

I love life and I love living which is a far cry from the depressed girl I used to be before I ’embraced my quirky’. I am far from where I would like to be financially but I am really happy that I am now following my dream of having my own ebook store rather than chasing money. Of course I have more up my sleeve than just that – I will be doing online training courses too. I have changed to focus more on digital products with my writing and upcoming training. If you are looking for a certain non-fiction book or a training course on something you need to know how to do – please let me know as I have a lot of knowledge and experience to give to the world.

Asexualise Business Cards
Asexualise Business Cards

Stay quirky and always be true to who you are.

Sandra xx

How to Improve Your Writing Video 5 of 6 – Embrace Your Quirky!!

How To Improve Your Writing Video 5 of 6 in a mini training series. In this short video I talk about how to use a book to perfect your writing craft.

I also have a new YouTube Header – What do you think of it?

Embrace Your Quirky Header For Quirky Books YouTube Channel
New Embrace Your Quirky Header For Quirky Books YouTube Channel – What do you think?

I would love to know what you think of my new header?

Stay quirky

Sandra xx

I Am Sharing My Angel With You!

Angel Bellamy
Angel and Chestnut in empty laundry basket
Angel and Chestnut in an empty laundry basket while being cleaned out so there is no chance Angel can jump out like she used to try to do all the time with the smaller pink box
Chestnut and Angel
Chestnut and Angel

Baby Angel is growing and starting to get a little tamer, but she has the most loudest and well used squeak you have ever heard! She eats more than Chestnut who is two and a half years and happy to have a companion.

Grammar And Punctuation! How To Improve Your Writing Mini Training Series Video 4 of 6

In this fourth video on how to improve your writing skills, today I talk to you about punctuation and grammar and how best to use it!

Always stay quirky



This is the 3rd short video in my how to improve your writing series!!  Have you always had a burning desire to write a book? Or are you already writing but getting a bit stuck? Watch this week’s video for your top tip on how to improve your writing! Don’t forget to subscribe!!

Generation Cherry Book Review By Sandra Bellamy Quirky Books

Generation Cherry Book Review

Generation Cherry is a cracking book for the 50+ generation. Being an avid reader and Author of self-help, how-to and Personal And professional development books, I can see how much time, effort, knowledge and skill, the writer has put into creating this book.

Essentially, this book is a well-written and crafted system for how to cope with your life after retirement, redundancy, or a change in circumstance, using the 4 autonomies to get your life in balance, keep it that way, and get a second bite of the cherry of life!

What is good about this book is it also covers how to deal with life when you have less money, in a productive and positive way, using Enlightened Thrift. So you have that feel good factor in your life, whatever the circumstances.

The use of quotes and references throughout the book adds to its helpfulness and I particularly enjoyed reading the play on Stephen Covey’s words “Seven Insidious Excuses Forcibly Rejected By Highly Effective people”.

If you are into NLP, A Coach, Entrepreneur, or New Lifer, this book is for you!

I would have given this book 5 Stars because I admire the Author’s work and have respect for him because of it. However, I am not the intended target audience, I am under 40 and did not like the remarks made about young people throughout the first half of the book. I felt they are stereotyped and as not knowing what they want and that they aren’t as successful in business as older people are. The Author managed to redeem himself in the latter half of the book, where he reveals having a young mindset is key to living a long and happy life, and that in his 70s, he adopts a young mindset and is still learning and looking forward to new adventures, while being a second biter of Generation Cherry!

Sandra Bellamy/Quirky Books

Author Of Break Through The Barriers Of Redundancy To Get Back Into Work – An A-Z ‘How To’ Guide and How To Get Started With Twitter, Get Going And Get Growing, A Step-By-Step Guide.

Generation Cherry, is out on Amazon on 17th of January – 2017! And available for pre-order now!!

Generation Cherry
Generation Cherry