Passion to Profit: 3 Action Steps to Build a Successful Business Doing What You Love


Do you dream of starting a business centred around your passions and turning them into a profession?

Many aspiring entrepreneurs find themselves in a cycle of chasing money and overlooking their true interests and passions. Don’t make that mistake!

In this blog post, I’ll be exploring with you, 3 essential action steps, based on the interview I did with Healer and Author Monica Ramirez – Warrior Of Love, in the episode below, that will guide you on your path to building a successful business doing what you love.

Action Step 1: Self-Exploration: Before embarking on your entrepreneurial journey, it’s crucial to engage in self-reflection. Take the time to discover your authentic desires and aspirations. Ask yourself what you genuinely want to achieve with your business. Instead of copying others or pursuing trends, focus on aligning your business with your true passions and values. Embrace your uniqueness and let it shine through your venture. Remember, you have your own path and teachings to offer.

Action Step 2: Continuous Learning: Investing in your personal growth and development is key to building a thriving passion-based business. Seek out relevant training, classes, and educational opportunities that enhance your skills and knowledge. That’s what I’ve been doing, and now I’m going to be speaking at Oxford University in October 2023, for bLU Talks (like Ted Talks) and I am co-authoring a book with the founder of bLU Talks Corey Poirier and Ken Honda from Mindvalley.

Be open to learning from experts and professionals in your field and those fields you wish to pursue and learn more about. Continuous learning not only expands your expertise but also enables you to provide exceptional value to your customers or clients. Embrace the fact that learning is a lifelong journey and choose to be a perpetual student in your chosen field of expertise.

Action Step 3: Authenticity and Uniqueness In a world filled with copycats and imitations, authenticity stands out. Embrace your uniqueness and be true to yourself and your business. Avoid the temptation to copy others’ success or chase trends solely for monetary gains. Your journey, experiences, and teachings are one-of-a-kind. Focus on being original and providing a genuine service to your audience. By embracing your authenticity, you will attract a loyal following that resonates with your unique perspective and offerings.

Conclusion: Building a passion-based business requires a mindful approach and a commitment to your true desires. By engaging in self-exploration, continuous learning, and embracing your authenticity, you can create a thriving venture that aligns with your passions and serves others in a meaningful way. Remember, the journey is as important as the destination, and success comes from doing what you love and making a positive impact. So, take that leap, follow your passion, and turn it into a profession that brings you joy, fulfilment, and financial rewards.

I hope this article has given you some valuable insights and inspiration to follow your heart doing what you love. By implementing these three action steps, you can pave the way for a successful passion-based business. But why stop here? If you’re hungry for more valuable insights and strategies to accelerate your path to financial success, make sure to watch and subscribe to my ‘Make Money Make Cash’ channel below. Don’t miss out on the latest tips, tricks, and insider secrets that can help you unlock your full potential and achieve your financial goals. Join our community of like-minded individuals today, learn from some of the best experts in their fields, and let’s embark on this exciting journey together! Join me here https://youtu.be/BL1H347E7XE

As always, stay your beautiful quirky self and write soon.

Sandra xx

How To Make Money As A Healer And Artist, By Healing And Loving Yourself First.


Have you ever wanted to make money doing what you love?

Ever wanted to be a best selling author?

Do you love art? Is painting your passion?

Do you feel a deep spiritual calling to help others?

If so, this post is for you.

On my Make Money Make Cash channel, I teach people how to make money online and I interview other authors, entrepreneurs, and creatives, how they make money doing what they love, so you can do the same.

In the video below I interview Monica Ramirez Warrior Of Love about how to make money as a healer and artist, by healing and loving yourself first.

Monica is a transformational belief coach. She helps others go from confusion to confidence to design the life of their dreams.

A certified N.L.P, B.Q.H (Hypnotherapy), Life Coach, Reiki Master, Galactic Akashic Record Reader, Multidimensional Energy Healer, Psychic Channeller, Best Selling Author, Artist, Podcaster, and Founder of Path to the Heart – which is a transformational system.

Monica has a wealth of knowledge and experience which she shares in this deeply impactful and insightful interview that is sure to leave you feel inspired, educated, and ready to make a positive change in your own life to take it to another level entirely.

Watch the video below right now, and subscribe for more videos about how to live your passion and make money doing what you love.

But I will warn you, be prepared to learn valuable information that is sure to move you to take action and give you an entirely new perspective of multiple aspects of your life that will take your breath away.

In this video you will learn:

  • What Are Akashic Records And How Do Akashic Records Work.
  • What Is Channelling And How Does Channelling Work.
  • How To Teach Blind People To Paint.
  • What Are Spirit Guides And How Do Spirit Guides Work.
  • What’s The Difference Between Your Guides And Higher Self.
  • How To Get Started Making Money With Art – How To Make Money As An Artist.
  • How To Get Clients For Spiritual Work – Get Paid For Spiritual Work.
  • What Is Reiki – What Does It Mean To Use Reiki And How Does It Work With Vortex And Chakras.
  • The Harsh Truth About Making Money Teaching Spirituality / How Hard Is It To Teach Spirituality.
  • What Does It REALLY Take To Be A Healer Because We’re Not All Golden Coins.
  • What Steps To Take To Make Money As An Artist Or Spiritual Healer.
  • How To Become A Best Selling Author.
  • How To Become A Spiritual Speaker.
  • How To Ask The Universe For Money | How To Get Money For Whatever You Want From The Universe.
  • What’s The Difference Between Spirituality And Intuition.
  • How To Make A Million Using Law Of Attraction – How To Become A Millionaire Using Law Of Attraction.
  • How To Attract The Right Clients For Your Business.
  • SHOCKING TRUTH HOW TO STOP SHAME QUICKLY.
  • How To Eliminate Shadows FAST.
  • How To Create Your New Reality.
  • 3 Action Steps To Build A Passion Based Business – How To Turn Your Passion Into A Profession.
  • How Lower Consciousness Keeps You Stuck.
  • Why Are People Obsessed With Money – Why Are People Fascinated With Money.
  • How To Get Money And How To Keep Money.
  • How To Reprogram Your Money Mindset For Success And Happiness – Reprogram Your Money Mind Now.
  • What Is Synchronicity | How Does Synchronicity Work | Synchronicities Explained.
  • How To Stop Repeating Patterns | How To Stop Repeating Patterns Of Abuse | End Patterns Of Abuse.

So watch this video below now and subscribe and hit the bell icon so you never miss an episode.

You can connect with Monica here https://www.monicaramirezwarrioroflove.com/

As always, stay quirky and write soon.

Sandra xx

How To Make Money As A Therapist And Turn A Passion Into A Profession – With Author/Speaker Dr Alan Simberg


Have you ever struggled to turn your passion into a profession?

Do you stress and worry over money?

Are you an aspiring author or business owner, but you don’t know where to start, what to do, or how to scale?

Or are you an established “business owner” but it feels like you’re chasing your tail trying to find practical solutions to your business challenges, and emotionally you feel wiped out?

Ever considered how a therapist could help you excel both personally and professionally? And how therapy could enhance your life?

Or, are you an aspiring therapist yourself?

Maybe you’re already a therapist but you struggle to get clients?

Do you want to know where to get clients?

How to better your life and business?

Mistakes to avoid in your business, especially if you’re just starting out?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, do not miss this insightful, informative, and at times thought-provoking interview with Dr Alan Simberg on my Make Money Make Cash YouTube channel here https://youtu.be/N5V2_AgMYwc, in which he will answer all of these questions and so much more. He will advise you not just on what you need to do, but exactly how to do it step-by-step, which many others fail to do, or don’t want to reveal to you, for fear of competition wiping them out. But not Dr Simberg, just like his profession of over 50+ years, he is dedicated to helping you to better your life and truly achieve your dreams.

Watch this video below now, or click on this link https://youtu.be/N5V2_AgMYwc and be sure to subscribe and hit the bell icon for more interviews, help, advice and guidance, about how to make money doing what you love, so you can turn your dreams into reality, and live the life you truly desire and deserve.

In this video you’ll discover:

What it takes to start your own business and turn a passion into a profession.

A BIG mistake to avoid if you’re an Author and the BIGGEST mistake you can make in business and what to do about it.

He gives huge insights into how to live your best life both personally and professionally, and has some useful advice on how to master our emotions by looking at things in a more non-personal way, so we can be happier.

How To Make Money As A Therapist

How To Get Clients

How To Better Your Life And Business practically, mentally and spiritually.

Mistakes to avoid if you’re an Author or you run your own business.

How to start up your own business the correct way.

So don’t delay getting the right advice at the right time by watching here https://youtu.be/N5V2_AgMYwc


About Alan Simberg Ph.D.

Dr. Simberg has 50 plus years clinical experience and incorporates a blend of traditional, practical, and results-based strategies into his counseling programs to support each client to create a life they truly enjoy living.

Dr Alan Simberg 

  • Leader in Successful Addiction Recovery Programs
  • Ph.D. Counseling Psychology
  • Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
  • Ed.S. Marriage & Family Therapy
  • Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor
  • Neuro Emotional Technique Practitioner
  • Certified in Applied Clinical Nutrition

He’s been featured in a variety of podcasts and magazine articles.

Dr Alan Simberg has gained a wealth of knowledge and understanding to help you to create the life you love and achieve your dreams, so be sure to not miss out on that, and go watch his interview now. You have nothing to lose and a whole lot to gain. Here https://youtu.be/N5V2_AgMYwc

And at the end of our interview together, Dr Alan Simberg gave me a wonderful testimonial about my interview style. “You have an intuitive way of when to listen and when to speak”

Check out the full interview testimonial in the video below.

Make Money Make Cash is all about giving you practical, down to earth solutions to your money making problems, whether it’s making some quick cash to pay the bills, building a side hustle, or turning your passion into a profession, so you can truly live the live of your dreams. Please don’t miss out on this invaluable ‘how to” advice show, especially if you have been struggling to really know how to turn your life, mind, and business around. Subscribe here to my Make Money Make Cash YouTube channel to not miss out!

You can connect with Dr Alan Simberg through his website here https://www.lifemasterywithalan.com

As always, stay quirky, write soon, and much love to you.

Sandra xx

How To Create Soulgasmic Impact And Moneygasms, And Be Boldly Unapologetically You!


Rosalyn Fung Coaching: Bold Sexy Warrior was an amazing illuminating soul and a transformational speaker on Corey Poirier’s Speaker/Writer/Podcaster Bootcamp, which was the third and final day today.😍

Speak for soul-impact and soul-income – Behind the scenes speaker bootcamp.

At this Bootcamp, Rosalyn Fung (Shooting Star Woman) enlightened us, as to how we can speak for impact and income, but on a soul level. And how to crush it with our heart ignition.

Rosalyn Fung Coaching: Bold Sexy Warrior With Corey Poirier

In a nutshell, she taught us how to create soulgasmic impact and moneygasms, and be boldly unapologetically you!

There are a multiverse of meaningful things which I learned from her, which inspires me to take more courageous action, but in a way which is unapologetically and boldly visible, to scale and grow my soul mission and my life purpose as The Asexual Entrepreneur. And I want to reveal some of those things to you now, to help you on your own soul-centred life journey.

Rosalyn shared how she went from Breakdown to Breakthrough and revealed her secrets of the 8Ps, for more impact, income, from a love and light centred place.

Rosalyn Fung Enlightened Warrior
Rosalyn Fung – Bold Sexy Warrior

I learned 8 Ps from Rosalyn, which were:

1) Purpose, Plan and Prepare – Knowledge isn’t power, taking that knowledge and implementing it is power. She hates it when people say charge your worth, because you’re worth is infinite, so don’t charge your worth, charge the worth of your services. Which I totally agree with. And also, have your signature talk on your laptop, in case you need to host a talk on the fly, or someone goes off sick and you become the centre stage speaker, which is what happened to her. So always show up with soul and strategy.

2) Passion – Talk about what you’re passionate about, speak with your heart and lead with your heart.

Speaking For Soul Impact And Soul Income

3) Positioning – Create Authority and Credibility in your niche. Share photos of your achievements on socials, and put “featured on”, including if you have published a book, got on a podcast, got on a TV or radio show, or landed a Ted Talk. Just do it! Take photos in the lead up to the event to create excitement, and after the event has happened. Share photos of your face, in the moment, so your audience can easily emotionally connect with you.

4) Power Inside-out – Attend networking events. And if you go somewhere and have a booth, always try to be a speaker too, because then you can drive people during your talk to your booth, and afterwards soulfully sell them your VIP 1:1 coaching package if they’re the right fit for you and a F*ck Yeah! Confidence only comes from taking courageous action and by practicing that. As an affirmation, say to yourself, clients love paying me £100,000. Adopt expansive, high power, open body language poses, where you look like a warrior Wonder Woman; powerful, bold and strong, with your hands on your hips, in your essence and glory, as you are more likely to be hired for a position or have people want to work with you.

Rock Your Self-Worth Like A Baddass Through Body And Self Image
Rock Your Self-Worth Like A Badass Through Body And Self-Image.

5) Presence – Be attuned to your audience and notice what’s going on in the room, whether that be a virtual room or a live speaking event. Feel the energy and if it’s low, or you’re losing their attention, do something that involves them, to bring them back to the present moment and get them to pay attention. One of the ways you can do this effectively, is to ask them a question.

6) Play – Everyone has an inner child. So help bring the inner child out in your audience and connect with their younger soul self. You can do this by saying something funny and incorporating humour into what you do. You can also get people using their phones. You can use sound and meditation that involve your audience. Make sure they feel like you are including them, not taking at them. The audience love it when you tell stories and go off script.

The Fung Family
Rosalyn Fung and her two children.

7) Promotion – 3 affirmations to use to help you to feel good about promoting yourself and your products and services are:

A) It’s safe for me to promote myself and my business.

b) When I’m sharing my message, my gifts and offerings with the world, I’m being in service.

c) I deserve to receive the energetic exchange of money, for the soul impact I create in this world.

You can say at the end of your talk, if you resonate with this, you can deep dive with me by… and give them where they can reach you at and a call to action.

Partnerships, joint ventures and referrals
Rosalyn Fung with Corey Poirier and other soul thrivers.

😎 Partnerships – Great relationships are the new currency. In order to reach your soul clients, ask yourself, who are your peers and colleagues that have the same soul clients as you, who compliment your work? Find those people and create great relationships with them and partner with them. Join each other’s affiliate programs, joint venture with them, and refer each other. It’s a win-win-win.

Say yes to sharing your message! Yes to soulgasmic impact, and yes to moneygasms, from monetising your calling.

Bold Sexy Warrior
Attract moneygasms and make a soulgasmic impact.

Thank you Rosalyn for such a beautiful soul-engaging talk.

Love, light and happiness to you always.

Sandra xx

Attention! Authors, Entrepreneurs, Speakers, Podcasters, Creatives – Win FREE VIP Tickets To Corey Poirier Presents: The Speaker / Writing Podcasting Bootcamp – Less Than 33 Hours To Go


Attention! Authors, Entrepreneurs, Speakers, Podcasters, Creatives!

Want to Win VIP Ticket to Corey Poirier Speaker/Author/Podcaster Bootcamp (Worth $145.00)?

Less Than 33 Hours To Go – Don’t miss this FREE to enter competition.

I’m attending this event myself, and the last one was amazing and I got podcast interviews from it. So this isn’t any old competition, this is to win something valuable that will be an asset to you and help you to grow as a person and to grow your business too.

Enter here, now https://rfr.bz/M4od4c9 offer ends Tuesday 11/10/22 23.59 (BST) That’s tomorrow!!!

About this event

On October 14th – 16th (Full Access To Replays with VIP ticket)

From The Comfort Of Your Home,

Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker Corey Poirier presents…

HIS SECOND EVER 3-DAY (VIRTUAL) SPEAKING BOOTCAMP

In This Bootcamp You’ll Learn:

The secrets Corey (and his friends) have used to land TEDx (or branded) talks and to get paid thousands every time they speak.

And the key reason landing your talk and getting paid to speak is only the beginning.

See below for a bigger list of everything we’ll cover during this powerful, first ever virtual event designed to leave you ready to impact lives, increase your income, gain more freedom, and create greater influence.

SPECIAL GUESTS INCLUDE:

James Redfield (Celestine Prophecy Author) discussing how he sold over 30 million copies of his books

Ken Honda (MindValley, Author: Happy Money)

Randy Spelling (90210, Malibu Shores) will be speaking on building a coaching practice

Alinka Rutkowska (Leader’s Press) will discuss landing a Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller list

Woody Woodrow (Our Last Night Band) will be leading 30 minute Yoga / Meditation during the event

Seasoned Speaker Rosalyn Fung will be talking building trust at live events

…More To Come…

More than 15 panelists will join us during the two days

Note: This event will also include multiple break-out sessions with plenty of time for networking

3-DAY Speaking Bootcamp:

Friday, October 14th (10 am – 7 pm EST)

Saturday, October 15th (10 am – 5:30 pm EST)

Sunday, October 16th (10am – 4:15pm EST)

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If you can’t wait to see of you’re a winner, you can purchase a Standard ticket here https://www.thepassioncure.com/a/2147503090/L9uQFcCX

This competition in now over, but you can book a ticket here to the next Speaker Bootcamp https://www.thepassioncure.com/a/2147503090/L9uQFcCX

Learn How To Sell 60 Different Books On Amazon KDP – Even If You’ve Never Sold A Book In Your Life Before


Self-Publishing Mastercless
Get your Masterclass here for a limited time offer of only $97, by the time you read this post, this offer could have ended, so don’t delay, buy now, this is a steal at that price from 6 figure authors https://masterclass.selfpublishingtitans.com/kdp/lsmmj

Does This Sound Familiar?

You’re new to self-publishing on Amazon and you don’t know where to start. You’ve searched the internet but it’s so full of ideas you just don’t know what to do or who to believe. The information is so scattered, your head gets filled with so many ideas and voices that drown out the sound of your own. You feel deflated, frustrated and disappointed, so you never start anything.

Or maybe you start something but you never finish it, and you always have that little voice in the back of your mind constantly saying what if…

Or maybe you’ve already published some books on Amazon, but you’re books aren’t selling as well as you would like them to, and you feel stuck and you just don’t know what to do. You see others succeeding, and you feel like a failure and sad that you aren’t achieving your true potential.

If this sounds like you, I know how you feel.

Even though I’ve been self-publishing books on Amazon since 2015, and I’ve had consistent monthly sales since 2017, I’ve still felt disappointed that I’m not selling more. I’ve seen other people having huge successes, and I thought that could be me… Can you relate?

But… I’m sure you’ve heard of the saying, “If you keep doing the same thing, you will always get the same result”. If that’s a result you don’t want, then you need to change what you are doing, or stay forever stuck in the pain of what might have been.

Enough was enough. I could sit there moaning about it, or I could take action to do something about it.

I decided to do something about it, and get professional help from other book publishers who have more insights, knowledge and know-how than me, so I can shortcut my way to success. Rather than wasting hours of time scrolling the internet and continuing to sit in disappointment.

So when I saw Self-publishing Titans Masterclass at a steal for only $97, I immediately knew I had to buy it.

Take a sneaky-peak behind the scenes, at what’s included, in my dashboard here:

This course is packed so full of value, it’s one of those you will be using for years to come and Corvin has already added more modules to it since I bought it, which was not that long ago.

I Didn’t See This Coming

In this course, you’ll find something I’ve never seen before:

Learn 60 different types of books you can sell on Amazon KDP and the entire process you can use to sell them. Yes, I did say 60. (This is worth the price of the entire course alone.)

  • Learn how to self-publish books like a pro.
  • Learn how to run ads.
  • Increase sales.
  • Expand brand awareness.
  • Get software for free with this course (as of Sept 2022 – not sure when this offer ends), Amazon Market Research tool and a Best Seller Category tool, to enable you to search categories and keywords, so you can niche down more successfully and gain more exposure for your books. (These 2 software tools alone, are worth the price of the course.)
  • Get a super supportive Facebook support group with the course. (Invaluable support when you need it most.)
  • Cleo And Corvin continue to add modules to this course at no extra cost, and once you buy this course, it’s lifetime access.
  • Learn from Corvin and Cleo who truly care about their customers and who treat them like friends.

Corvin and Cleo only allow people they trust to promote this very special offer to others. I am one of those people who they value as an affiliate. So if you purchase their course through my link, it won’t cost you any more, but I will get some pennies for mentioning it, so thanks in advance. I only promote courses I believe in and/or, I’m a student of. This course is one which I love and adore myself and I think it’s incredible value for money. It’s a complete no-brainer. It’s way more valuable than $97 and it will go up in price in the future. They have extended the launch price offer currently, as it’s been so popular, but it won’t be that way forever. So get it now here https://masterclass.selfpublishingtitans.com/kdp/lsmmj and you won’t regret it. They have a money back guarantee, so you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Think of all those extra sales you could make, which should easily pay for the entire course and much more. Get it now https://masterclass.selfpublishingtitans.com/kdp/lsmmj

How I Met And Spoke To Queen Elizabeth II


Monday was a sad day for me, I woke up crying, as it was Queen Elizabeth’s II funeral. May her soul rest in peace.

In 2013, I was fortunate enough to meet and speak with HM Queen Elizabeth ll at St James’s Palace in London. So I felt I had some personal connection to her.

In the early hours of yesterday before I went to sleep, I went live on my Asexualise YouTube channel to tell the full story of how I met Her Majesty The Queen. You can view this episode by watching the video below, or by clicking through the link here https://youtu.be/sto9lXLt_N8

It was January 2013, around 7pm, when I had finished work and was on my way home, that I saw someone walking across the bridge at the end of Fore Street in my city of Exeter, in the UK.

She was looking down over the edge, and looked like she was about to jump.

I walked towards her softly so as not to startle her.

We got into conversation about why she wanted to end her life.

I thought it was because of a particular reason and I was correct. A reason I cannot divulge, to respect her privacy.

She agreed I could phone the police, as I held her up against the rock face by one hand and phoned the police on my mobile with the other hand.

The police called for an ambulance.

But by the time I had got her to change her mind about jumping, she had crept down the rock face too far to get back up and she had drunk too much alcohol for me to pull her back up as she was too heavy, and I would have gone over her head first into the water under the bridge as it was flooded because of the rain.

I was unable to continue to hold her up as she was not able to hold herself against the rock face any longer, and she plummeted into the water head first.

Still with the police on the phone, I rushed across the bridge and down the bank and straight into the water with my coat and work suit on and lifted her head and nose out of the water so she could breathe.

I saw her in the hospital the next day, with a dislocated pelvis and damage to her arm. But she was alive and would recover in 6 months.

But by April, she was walking again using a stick, as we met up.

And some time later she fully recovered.

This article below, was in my local paper for saving her life.

Sandra refused to let bridge jumper die

I was a Health Buddy at the time for community service volunteers (CSV) in association with BBC Radio Devon.

CSV Certificate Of Achivement For Saving Someone's LIfe

They gave me a certificate of achievement for saving her life.

And the person whose life I saved, put me forward for a Good Citizen’s Award, which Devon and Cornwall Police gave me at an awards ceremony.

That year it was CSV’s 50th Anniversary, so I was one of only 4 members of CSV South West region, to be invited to St James’s Palace to meet and speak with HM Queen Elizabeth II. Only 2 out of the 4 got chosen to speak to her, and I was one of those people. The other person had left their position at CSV, so did not go.

Invitation to St James's Palace
Meeting and speaking to Queen Elizabeth
Sandra Met HM Queen Elizabeth

I told Queen Elizabeth that I was a Health Buddy for CSV and I got a Good Citizen’s Award for savings someone’s life.

She said, “That’s Good.”

As her husband was alive but poorly at the time and was meant to be there also, but wasn’t, I asked her how he was, and she said, “He is doing well and at Sandringham.”

That was it.

Short and sweet. Just like her.

I thought she was even more beautiful in real life, that her photos. And down to Earth.

The Palace was huge and had a real throne.

I loved that time with her and the whole experience.

It’s a found memory I will cherish forever, and honour until I die and beyond.

Queen Elizabeth passed away at 96 years old. The same age as my Grandma, when she died in 2014.

Queen Elizabeth was also the same star sign as me, a Taurus, and I love that.

I could not watch the funeral as it was way too upsetting for me, and one of friends arrived back in the UK, in my city, from Hong Kong that day, and she really needed my help to move her stuff into her new student accommodation, so I agreed.

It was good for me to help a friend who was also really happy to see a friendly and familiar face after a 13 hour flight, and delays and cancellations to public transport due to the funeral in London, rather than me sat blubbering in my flat all day.

I also wanted to remember Queen Elizabeth as she was, and I thought Her Majesty would be happy for me to get into service helping someone else, as she dedicated her life to helping and serving others.

As always, stay quirky.

Love

Sandra xxxxxxxx

I Love Kissing But Not Sex – How Asexuality Transformed My Life – With Asexual Author Sandra Bellamy


I was interviewed by Catana @TransformationalArtWithCatana  about how Asexuality completely transformed my life! “I love kissing but not sex.”

It all started in 2014, when I went to see a counsellor, because I was worried that I wanted a relationship and liked kissing and romance, but I didn’t like sex, and she told me, “I’m worried about you, because if you want a good guy, you will need to have sex to keep him.”

I was absolutely horrified!

This was the worst thing I could have been told…

I thought to myself, how can any guy be good for me, if they want me to do something to me, that I don’t want to do?

To me, that’s like giving a guy a license to rape me – and that’s not happening.

It meant she was telling me I can’t get love without sex, and that my only value and worth of being in a relationship with a “good” guy, is based on if I have sex with him or not!

Not only is this sending a very dangerous message to me and anyone who is counselled by her…

… it’s the equivalent of saying that anyone who doesn’t have sex, cannot get a “good” guy, so they can’t have a “good” relationship, and aren’t worthy of love.

So what happens to all the people who are not asexual, but who can’t have sex because their disability or special needs, makes it impossible to do that and too painful???

What happens to all the impotent people in the world who can’t have sex???

Do these people also, not deserved to be loved without sex?

Do the they just end up with “bad” guys, because having sex, somehow changes a bad guy into a good guy???

I don’t think so. If they are a bad guy, having sex with them is not going to make them good.

What a load of bullshit.

And if people measure how much they are loved in a relationship by the amount of sex they are or are not having, they are valuing their own worth on how much contact they have with another person’s genitals, which they can’t control, – so there’s no wonder there are high divorced rates, broken relationships, and people feeling unloved and worthless.

So I went back home and Googled “I love kissing but not sex” and this is what happened next…

I love kissing but not sex podcast interview.

Becoming An Asexual Entrepreneur On Dreams ARE Real Podcast Interview


As asexuality is a sexual orientation largely based on a lack of sexual attraction, it can be hard to make our own voice heard.

Especially as sexual stereotypes and societal conditioning tell everyone that it’s natural to like, want, and need sex, and that anyone who says otherwise must be lying or have something wrong with them.

People tend to discard what they don’t understand.

They tend to disregard what is considered as “not” normal.

And they tend to feel extremely uncomfortable when something doesn’t fit in with their ideology. 

But I encourage you to always stand proud of who you are, and to stop listening to what other people say, that drowns out the sound of your own voice. 😍

Asexuals have as much right to speak out about how they think and feel, including if they don’t like, want, or need sex, and have the right to be taken seriously. 😍

Just because asexuality is a minority sexuality, it doesn’t mean it’s wrong and not normal. 

It’s normal for SOME people to not like, want, need, or get the urge for, partnered sexual intercourse, ever. 😍

Don’t let anyone blind you into believing we are all the same – because we are not. 

There ARE people who never want sex, and that’s okay. 😍

The only reason most people don’t speak out, is because other’s ridicule them and tell you, you can’t be who you are born to be. 

I am here to show you, you can. 

That your life is your own and that speaking up, in your own voice, is essential to live your own life dreams and no one else’s. Regardless of your sexuality.

That’s why I’m thrilled to be able to give a voice to the voiceless, and share my own asexual life journey of how I became known as The Asexual Entrepreneur and explain what it feels like to be asexual in this highly sexualised world, and how to live your asexual dreams and be your true authentic self, no matter what, on the Dreams ARE Real podcast.

Don’t miss this ACE episode by listening through either of the links below, now, and tell me what you think…

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-182-becoming-an-asexual-entrepreneur-with/id1480067188?i=1000558237426

How To Create And Sell Inspirational Quote Posters On eBay – Step By Step Guide


Ever wanted to learn how to design and sell something on eBay to make some extra cash, or start your own online business? But you don’t know where to start and you want to some ideas? Well, in this article, I am going to be sharing with you, how you can do just that.

You are going to learn step by step, how you can create inspirational quote posters to sell on eBay – or elsewhere, so be sure to pay attention and subscribe to this blog and my Make Money Make Cash channel here https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClqfa3MRuPE28r6zu3M84OA if you find this content helpful, informative, or valuable in some way, and you want to discover more ways to make money online. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon under my YouTube subscribe button, to make sure you never miss an episode.

Watch the video above for the full step by step tutorial on how to create and sell your own inspirational quote posters to sell on eBay or Amazon. And don’t forget to subscribe to learn how to make more money and make more cash.
Step 1 – Research what “inspirational quote posters” are selling on Amazon and eBay. Try to find designs that sell well but with low competition and read the reviews to see what people liked about them and what people didn’t like.
Step 2 – Use a software like Stencil here https://getstencil.com?tap_a=9103-1801f8&tap_s=97718-f161af to create a similar design, but not the same, as the designs you noticed from your research sell well but have low competition. But make improvements to the design, based on the review feedback you read.
Step 3 – Buy a suitable printer that allows you to print on thick paper/card and gloss/photo paper, such at the Epsom ET-4750 here https://amzn.to/3upiEqB This printer is the one I have myself to print quotes, and it’s very economical, because it uses inexpensive bottles of ink rather than cartridges, and you usually get a set of these ink bottles with the printer. You can buy more ink bottles here https://amzn.to/3KtxQs6
Step 4 – Choose suitable paper to print on. Make sure it’s the right GSM thickness and type, such as 160 or 180 GSM or higher photo paper. Here https://amzn.to/3jkqUSv
Step 5 – You will need to buy hard backed envelopes to post your quote posters in, to your customers. Here https://amzn.to/3rfVnoZ
Step 6 – Create an eBay store and upload photos/file of your poster design to it.
Step 7 – Taking into account all of your eBay fees and your expenses, adverting your poster on there could get extra sales.
Step 8 – Promote your inspirational quote poster/s to your friends, family, and across your social media, with the features and benefits of why they should buy it. And voila – you are ready to sell and make money make cash.

Things you will need to start your own Inspirational Poster Quotes business, mentioned in the video and this post:

1) Stencil software – Get it here https://getstencil.com?tap_a=9103-1801f8&tap_s=97718-f161af

2) Epsom Eco Tank Printer ET-4750 – https://amzn.to/3xf76rH

OR ORDER EPSOM ECO TANK FROM AMAZON. COM HERE https://amzn.to/3upiEqB

  • Up to 2 years of ink in the box. 
  • Print up to 14,000 pgs bk/11,200 clr. 
  • Equivalent to about 30 cartridge sets . 
  • Save up to 80% on ink with replacement bottles. 
  • Uniquely keyed auto-stop ink bottles. 
  • 250-sheet paper tray. 
  • 2.4″ color touchscreen. 
  • 30-sheet Auto Doc Feeder.

Comes with printer ink bottles – please note you need number 102 Epsom Ink bottles for the model I have ET-4750 which I recommend, if you buy from UK, but 502 if you buy from the .com store. (The 104 bottles showed in this video seems to be for a different Eco Tank Model, but you can check with the seller to be sure.)

3) Here is the 102 ink bottles multipack of 4 bottles – https://amzn.to/3Kso3mk

HERE IS THE 502 INK BOTTLES IF YOU BUY FROM AMAZON. COM HERE https://amzn.to/3KtxQs6 and here for the black https://amzn.to/3JowHB2

4) Epsom Glossy Paper – https://amzn.to/3jnnRsI OR alternative paper – https://amzn.to/35ZcNPm

OR GET SUITABLE PAPER FROM AMAZON. COM HERE https://amzn.to/3jkqUSv

5) Hard Backed Envelopes – https://amzn.to/3DYZPgR

OR GET HARD BACKED (DO NOT BEND) ENVELOPES FROM AMAZON. COM HERE https://amzn.to/3rfVnoZ

Entrepreneurship isn’t easy, so do it for the journey – because it’s the journey that truly changes your life! 😍 #forthejourney

(Please note these are affiliate links, so I may get some pennies if you click through them and make a purchase, which I will greatly appreciate, thank you.)

As always, stay quirky – and write your inspirational quote posters soon!

Sandra xx