Attention! Course Creators, Coaches, Trainers, Writers, Content Creators! Don’t Miss This Amazing Lifetime Deal! That Will Save You Hundreds Or Thousands Of Dollars And Time!


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Do you struggle to know where to host your courses and membership sites, for a fraction of the cost that other’s are shouting about?

Perhaps you are just starting out and secretly not in profit yet, and you can’t afford monthly fees as you build your empire?

Or maybe you are money savvy and have a rich mindset, where you realise the poor mindset people are those going around in flash cars with gold jewellery, instead of putting money into assets that will get them a good return. This is how the rich get rich, and the poor, get poorer!

You’re smart. You know investing in the right software and hosting, can make and save you hundreds or thousands of dollars, while you sleep. Whereas those $400 trainers are still wrapped up in your friend’s wardrobe, and saved for that special occasion. 

But… investing in software or hosting for your online courses or membership sites, is no easy task!

I have been stung before and I get it! Proceeding with caution has become ingrained into me through these bad experiences.

But as you and I both know, festering on past mistakes, doesn’t solve the problem. You still need somewhere to host your courses and memberships sites, and the sooner you get the right software and hosting, the sooner those mistakes become your greatest gains, as you get a better deal by going with a more reputable company. Saving yourself hundreds or thousands of hours and dollars, trying to go it alone.

We both know what a headache trying to go it alone, is:

  • You have to pay for website hosting
  • Buy a domain name/s
  • Buy WordPress themes that break, or never work in the first place
  • Use plugins that conflict with others and result in the white screen of death
  • Integrate a shopping cart and take payments
  • You have to pay an email company just to send out a thank you email
  • Pay hundreds or even thousands of dollars to hire a web developer
  • Hire someone who specialises in maintaining your e-commerce store – WooCommerce!
  • You website gets constantly hacked and you have to pay at least $300 per hack to fix it!
  • Or you waste hundreds and thousands of hours of your precious time, learning these skills for yourself
  • You lose opportunities as a result
  • You lose money
  • You feel stressed

Does this sound familiar? You want to host your courses, but you find yourself tearing your hair out with all the ‘helpful advice’ out there, claiming to be the best hosting company there is.

You’ve done your research. You’ve tried to host courses directly on WordPress, probably using a theme with a plugin like LearnPress, only to realise the theme usually breaks, the plugin conflicts with others, resulting in the dreaded white screen of death, and your WordPress site keeps getting hacked. To be honest, you don’t have any confidence in what you are using to host your courses or membership sites, and that’s why you’re not promoting them like you know you should be…

You have done your research: Thinkific. Teachable. ClickFunnels. But they are either super expensive. You have to pay monthly for them. They take fees out of your hard earned cash. They have limits on the number of users you can have before you have to pay more. Or they just don’t feel right.

And you have to host your courses on one platform, and your membership sites on another which gets even more costly.

Sooner or later, you realise that entrepreneur dream and freedom lifestyle, is just that, a dream! It’s going to cost you more in time and money, than you get in return. So you give up!

But… There’s A Cost To Giving Up!

You come to the end of your life, and you look back at your life, full of regrets… And what’s worse, is your best other best friend is now a multi-millionaire and you feel so sad, that’s not you! If you even made a fraction of that you would have been happy! But alas… it’s too late.

And you remember that girl who wrote a blog post, and gave you access to your future wealth lifeline that you never took…

This is what I don’t want for you!

Even if you have got no courses and nothing to sell right now. I am begging you for your own sake, to get this. Your future self will thank you for it! And in years to come you will so happy you came across this post!

It Was The Best Decision I Ever Made!

In October 2017, I was made redundant (laid-off you call it in the USA), from my full-time ‘day job’ after 5 years. I was working in a large retail store and was the one and only fitted bedroom specialist there. I wanted to leave. But not that soon. As I wasn’t in profit with my side businesses. In fact, far from it.

Since 2012, I had used my employed money, to invest hundreds and thousands of pounds in personal and professional development of me! I knew the smart thing was always to invest in yourself first. So you up your worth! Then you have more value to offer others. And consequently can charge more money for others to access your knowledge and skills. You are your best asset.

So I was given redundancy pay! As I was paid 5 years redundancy. It was a good payout in one lump sum, but I still had to go on benefits to keep a roof over my head and food in my belly long-term, and that money ran out fast!

My parents were horrified. Not because of my redundancy… well, they were surprised by that. But not so much, since I had predicted it the year before it happened! But… because I spent at least a third of my money on my businesses, that I will remind you, were not in profit! They honestly thought I had lost the plot… I bought lots of email marketing and chat bubble lifetime deals, with addons. I bought 15 licenses of Thrive Architect (with an extra lifetime deal at the time) – which I spent 3 years researching for use as an alternative funnel builder, and that sadly doesn’t work to this day! Yes, you heard right, it doesn’t work! And support didn’t sort it out for me within the first year. After that you lose support and have to pay for it! But paying for support you didn’t get in the first place, leaves a bad taste in my mouth! So I moved on. If I ever get it to work, I will let you know what I think! But right now, my opinion is nope! Don’t bother!

But… in November 2017, I bought a lifetime deal of Invanto. Which hosts both online courses and memberships sites, and even more now… It was the best decision I ever made!

Now I can:

  • Easily build online schools at the click of a button
  • Easily build membership sites at the click of button
  • Build sales funnels with upsells and downsells, and bonuses
  • Build my own deals sites
  • Sell a membership to access my whole school or just a proportion of it
  • Drip-feed content
  • Offer coupons
  • Upload and host videos FREE of charge
  • Have FREE SSL certificates
  • Offer my customers complete peace of mind with hosting on secure Amazon servers
  • Do away completely with a website and domain, at any time, if I want…
  • And so much more

No more:

  • Wasting hundreds of pounds on software that doesn’t work
  • Wasting hundreds of hours trying to learn everything myself
  • Having to hire an expensive designer – I tried to go it alone…
  • Worrying about being hacked (I was hacked a lot)
  • Having to piece things together from various sources and ending up with nothing to show for it
  • Buying themes that never work or break my site
  • Plugins that slowed my site down so it was crawling like a snail
  • Worrying about shopping cart management
  • Worry about taking payments in an insecure environment
  • Having to pay money per month for course or membership hosting

I felt so relieved…

Invanto has completely change my life. Because now I can focus on creating great content and products, without worrying about the techy side of things.

Invanto is an all-in-one platform, that has a suite of apps designed to meet all of your course and membership hosting needs and has evolved to be a market leader, and so has the owner, who I am friends with!

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Offer ends on Tuesday August 11th. Click the order button now!

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This deal is even sweeter

I have done all the research for you, so you don’t have to. This is hands-down, the best deal of a lifetime, and sweeter than all the other deals I have come across for hosting courses, builder membership sites, schools and deal sites. Best of all. It’s now a one-time only price, for all of this and more! Don’t miss out and regret it.

The Invanto lifetime deal I bought in 2017, allowed me to create up to 10 schools with Coach Rack and 10 membership sites with Membership Factory. I had to buy another lifetime deal, which was triple the price, to be able to use their funnel builder app, called CartFog. I didn’t mind paying extra, for a lifetime deal that others were paying a minimum of $97 a month for elsewhere. I also found that full email integration, through their Integration Engine, wasn’t included, and neither was Consent Up, their bullet-proof GDPR app.

They had a deal running for some time, which enabled you to have unlimited sites but you still had to pay monthly for Integration Engine, which is a premium feature. If you know the value of a email list, you will know this is a feature you can’t live without as a business owner.

With this current SCALE deal you get everything included in the one price. And the ability to build unlimited schools, membership sites, and deal sites. That’s why I bought this deal myself. It was an absolute no-brainer for me. And the deal of a lifetime I had been waiting for, with a company I already trust to host my courses and membership sites.

They have a 30 day money-back guarantee. So you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!

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Just in case you want proof that I use Invanto, here is my dashboard inside it!

This was the checkout I used to enter my details to buy the SCALE deal, which I highly recommend. It has no fees and all premium features are includes too. Nothing extra to buy. The $49 deal is a good start, but if you need premium features – such as full email integration  – with Integration Engine, and Zapier integration, you need the SCALE deal. See everything you get in the SCALE Plan Features…

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P.S. The order link is an affiliate link, and so if you do purchase through it, it won’t cost you any more, but I may earn some pennies as result, and it would really help me out! A girl has to keep investing in herself, so I can bringing you more awesome draw-dropping deals, and insightful information, taking the headache out of soloprenership and entrepreneurship, and taking you and your business to the next level!

Write soon

Sandra xx

A Happy Life Without Sex – Sexuality Misconceptions Busted! Asexuality Interview With Asexual Coach Sandra Bellamy


 

A Happy Life Without Sex – Sexuality Misconceptions Busted! Asexuality Interview With Asexual Coach and Asexual Author Sandra Bellamy.

A writer’s dream is to have people contact you, and ask to interview you and share your book to the world. This is what happened when Diane Délina, ADHD/Relationship & Sex Coach approached me, to ask to interview me on her sexuality misconceptions show. I jumped at the chance. Any opportunity to raise awareness for my very specialist topic – asexuality, is a dream come true. Watch the video now, to find out what was discussed! I think you will be surprised!

If you want to know more about asexuality, subscribe to my channel www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife and shop for Asexual Perspectives, 47 Asexual Stories, now! Here is the link https://amzn.to/33la1QO

If you are a writer struggling to know if you are doing the right thing by writing books, you are. They completely change people’s lives! Never give up. To my mind, the written word is one of the most powerful ways to change lives. I know it’s my lasting legacy, for generations to come. And there is no reason why it can’t be yours too.

As always, stay positive and write soon

Sandra xx

I’m Cringing Writing This Because I Have A Shit Hot Embrassing Confession To Make!


I’m cringing writing this because I have a shit hot embarrassing confession to make. I am sharing something so personal with you and a few thousand other followers too, that I never thought I would talk about publicly, ever. But if it helps just one person, like you, it’s worth sharing, even on my blogs!
 
When you are sick, it sucks. There is no doubt about that. Extra pain on top of pain, can hurt like hell!
 
(If you didn’t know I have been having a lot of pelvic pain due to an infection, I had to have antibiotics for this, which ended yesterday. I also went to the Doctor’s yesterday and have two creams, 1 for inflammation and another for ringworm on my arm!!!
Hence why I haven’t been streaming on my Asexualise channel for almost a week .)
 
But… when you are right about something and something is working, you shouldn’t try to fix something that isn’t broken.
 
However, sometimes you want to test the waters, and you break things, in order to improve other things, in theory!
 
But… sometimes the reality is, you were succeeding and doing so well. You changed something and then you see a decline in your health in more ways than 1.
 
I recently removed 2 food items, one that I eat almost daily and one that I eat at least 3 times a week, but haven’t done so for the last week. Result is poor skin, poor bowel movements… to add to my infection problem. I instantly added 1 back when I thought about what I changed, result, literally back to normal bowel movement, instead of straining on the toilet for 20 minutes, feeling like you are about to give birth! Only what pops out, or doesn’t and you have to help it, is pretty yucky to the eye!
 
The other 1 key ingredient to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and providing less pain and more body flexibility, I go back to eating this tonight… If you have read my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, you will know what this key ingredients is. Here is the link. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain like I was last night https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn 
 
And yes, I recommend to eat this every day, or at least every other day, 4th day without this, and your health is a goner! This hasn’t happened before as far as I can remember, unless I am on holiday and can’t get this ingredient! I have never actively chosen to not eat this, since 2014. It wasn’t that I intended to not ever eat it again, I just wanted to have a change! Sometimes change can be a good thing, in this case, not… it’s what can happen if you don’t take this…
 
I admit I give great advice in my books, which sometimes even I don’t always take every bit of, for myself, consistently. My friends who buy my books end up quoting my own wise words back to me. I need to re-read them to give myself a refresher! Which I do! I am not perfect and I cock-up every now and then. This has been a major cock-up for my health, but I have learned so much from this experience… and a good lesson to learn. Remove one variable at a time and you get shit, or not – as was the case with the first food, before I added it back.
 
I never planned to do a health experiment. But what I have learned once again, is to always, always, trust your own judgement, and when something is right, even though it may not be doing what the majority do, keep it! And if others want to be helped too by it, then that’s great! At least you know that you are 100% right, and it works crazily well and can help others if they want it to.
 
By now I guess you are wondering what luscious food I eat to maintain regular bowel movement and stop yourself from blocking up. So the big reveal… Hazelnut+Cacao Paleo Bars, which you can get here https://amzn.to/3erQksx  They are made of fruits and nuts only, cold pressed, no crap, just good food to feed your body! And better than eating chocolate. Also suitable for vegetarians and gluten free.
 
If you want to know the other food ingredient, to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and provide less pain and more body flexibility, get a copy of my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook. Why get the book? Because it also has a whole holistic plan, for managing Fibromyalgia, so if you have a chronic pain condition although you need this essential food, you also need it as part of a holistic health regime I go through in each chapter of the book, to have less pain, more energy, feel happier, and not just eat this and do nothing else. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain with no remedy to get your life back on track. Here is the link https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn 
 
I know you are probably thinking why can’t I just tell you the ingredient. But I made the mistake of telling one person about the ingredient without them getting the overall holistic plan which is provided by each chapter of the book, which includes foods not to eat that are killing your energy. So they don’t improve their life and can’t live it to the full, and still have a lack of energy because of what they eat, and now I feel bad. So I won’t share it again out of context. Amazon usually refund you as per their policy, if you don’t feel you learn anything from the book and aren’t happy for any reason with it, so you have nothing to lose anyway.
 
Even if you don’t have Fibro, it can still help to reduce your pain and give you more energy, so you feel happier, https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn 
Until next time, stay positive, healthy and happy.
Sandra xx

I Have To Admit This Is Embarrassing!


Embarrassing event

I have to admit this is embarrassing to write, because I am sharing something so personal with you, which I never thought I would ever talk about publicly. But if it helps just one person, like you, it’s worth sharing!

When you are sick, it sucks. There is no doubt about that. Extra pain on top of pain, can hurt like hell!

(If you didn’t know I have been having a lot of pelvic pain due to an infection, I had to have antibiotics for this, which ended yesterday. I also went to the Doctor’s yesterday and have two creams, 1 for inflammation and another for ringworm on my arm!!!)

But… when you are right about something and something is working, you shouldn’t try to fix something that isn’t broken.

However, sometimes you want to test the waters, and you break things, in order to improve other things, in theory!

But… sometimes the reality is, you were succeeding and doing so well. You changed something and then you see a decline in your health in more ways than 1.

I recently removed 2 food items, one that I eat almost daily and one that I eat at least 3 times a week, but haven’t done so for the last week. Result is poor skin, poor bowel movements… to add to my infection problem. I instantly added 1 back when I thought about what I changed, result, literally back to normal bowel movement, instead of straining on the toilet for 20 minutes, feeling like you are about to give birth! Only what pops out, or doesn’t and you have to help it, is pretty yucky to the eye!

The other 1 key ingredient to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and providing less pain and more body flexibility, I go back to eating this tonight… If you have read my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, you will know what this key ingredients is. Here is the link. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain like I was last night https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn

And yes, I recommend to eat this every day, or at least every other day, 4th day without this, and your health is a goner! This hasn’t happened before as far as I can remember, unless I am on holiday and can’t get this ingredient! I have never actively chosen to not eat this, since 2014. It wasn’t that I intended to not ever eat it again, I just wanted to have a change! Sometimes change can be a good thing, in this case, not… it’s what can happen if you don’t take this…

I admit I give great advice in my books, which sometimes even I don’t always take every bit of, for myself, consistently. My friends who buy my books end up quoting my own wise words back to me. I need to re-read them to give myself a refresher! Which I do! I am not perfect and I cock-up every now and then. This has been a major cock-up for my health, but I have learned so much from this experience… and a good lesson to learn. Remove one variable at a time and you get shit, or not – as was the case with the first food, before I added it back.

I never planned to do a health experiment. But what I have learned once again, is to always, always, trust your own judgement, and when something is right, even though it may not be doing what the majority do, keep it! And if others want to be helped too by it, then that’s great! At least you know that you are 100% right, and it works crazily well and can help others if they want it to.

By now I guess you are wondering what luscious food I eat to maintain regular bowel movement and stop yourself from blocking up. So the big reveal… Hazelnut+Cacao Paleo Bars, which you can get here https://amzn.to/3erQksx They are made of fruits and nuts only, cold pressed, no crap, just good food to feed your body! And better than eating chocolate. Also suitable for vegetarians and gluten free.

If you want to know the other food ingredient, to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and provide less pain and more body flexibility, get a copy of my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook. Why get the book? Because it also has a whole holistic plan, for managing Fibromyalgia, so if you have a chronic pain condition although you need this essential food, you also need it as part of a holistic health regime I go through in each chapter of the book, to have less pain, more energy, feel happier, and not just eat this and do nothing else. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain with no remedy to get your life back on track. Here is the link https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn

Even if you don’t have Fibro, it can still help to reduce your pain and give you more energy, so you feel happier, https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn

Until next time, stay quirky and write soon.

Sandra xx

Want To Get 125,000 View On Your YouTube Channel? FREE? Attention Vloggers And YouTubers


Get 125,000 Tube Views With This

Are you a YouTuber or Vlogger? Every wondered how you can increase your video views?

Are you fed up with struggling to know how the Pro YouTubers get so many views on their videos?

Do you think they have some magic formula?

Or, do you think they have some magic tool?

Well they do have a magic tool, and you can get it here for FREE https://www.tubebuddy.com/SpreadTheTubeLove

You don’t know what you don’t know. It’s not your fault.

It took me years to discover this FREE tool, which is how so many other YouTubers know how to create eye-popping titles, jaw-dropping thumbnails in minutes, and how you can ethically spy on your competition at the click of a button so you can get ahead of the game!

This amazing tool quickly reveals other channels’ title tags.

It suggests hot keywords to use in your titles and tags.

It helps boost your views and increase your subs.

And it’s FREE. Did I mention it’s FREE https://www.tubebuddy.com/SpreadTheTubeLove

Asexualise My Asexual Life is my second channel, it’s the one I started after my Quirky Books TV channel, and it’s the one I focus on the most as that is where most of my niche followers and customers are. It’s the channel where I am consistent, persistent, and determined to make a difference the most. It’s the channel that helps saves lives. So if you want to grow your channel, be persistent, consistent, and take action. Focus on the one that gives you the most passion and you can make the greatest difference and contribution with. You can see a huge difference in subs, just because I focus on one channel far more than the other. https://www.tubebuddy.com/SpreadTheTubeLove

Don’t waste another moment of playing the YouTube guessing game, get this free tool right now, and you too can work towards getting 125,000+ views; increasing your subs, and giving your subscribers and viewers more of the content they adore, and making more money from those!

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Stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

 

Wake Me Up When Up When It’s Over! – Ever felt like this? – 7 Ways How To Stay Positive In Dark And Difficult Times!


With the current pandemic situation, it’s easy to feel like you just want to go to sleep, throw the bed covers over your head and tell the world to “wake me up when it’s over!” But when you realise it’s not going away any time soon, how do you stay positive in dark and difficult times?

Here are 7 ways how to stay positive in dark and difficult times. 

  1. Realise tomorrow is done, it’s already gone and in the past, you can’t change it, but you can have control over how you live your life daily, and you can start over each new day.
  2. Worrying won’t help. It won’t solve the problem, but may make it worse. Take control of your life and own your day. So it doesn’t own you. As my Grandma used to say, “You die if you worry, you die you don’t, so why worry?” She had, and still has, a point. Her wise words live on in my soul, even if she is no longer on planet Earth.
  3. Practice gratitude. Write down 5 things you are grateful each day, and/or, say them out loud, when you wake up each morning. It’s hard to feel down when you have so much to be grateful and thankful for.
  4. You have already been through shit in your life, and you know it. So, you can get through this.
  5. This time shall pass and won’t last forever, always remember that.
  6. Focus on what you can do, not what you can’t do. Do things that you are passionate about, they make you feel great and awesome. This will keep your spirits high.
  7. Change your state through, music, movement – dancing around your home, comedy. Find things in each and every single day to make you smile. It’s hard to feel sad if you are smiling.

Share this post with someone who needs to hear this right now.

As always

Stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

When You Love With All Your Heart – Your Journey Has Just Begun! | Quirky Poetry From The Heart With Quirky Books Author Sandra Bellamy


Quirky Books Author Sandra Bellamy

When you love with all your heart,
When you dream with all your soul,
When you find happiness in the smallest of things,
When you decide to let go,
And trust, that things will be okay,
That we will see sunshine,
And happier days.

That this time may be dark,
But it’s never dull,
So we must reach inside,
And refuse to sulk.

We must begin with the end in mind,
To live in the glory and the shine,
For when we look at everything we have achieved,
Normality might have once seemed normal and a breeze,
But we all know normal is a fallacy.

So maybe this is our new normal.
And maybe it’s not,
Life is what you make it,
But this truth you forgot.

So don’t buried your head,
For you are alive,
Wake up in awe,
That you are alive,
Sit back and enjoy,
The small dreams that come to life,
The here and the now,
For time is precious and waits for no one,
In the blink of an eye,
It can be gone,
So take joy to heart,
Let misery go,
For what you reap,
You shall sow.

Reach deep in your heart,
Let love light the way,
Because my dear friend,
If you are reading this,
You have been blessed with another day.

The day is long,
The night is too,
But please keep singing,
The happy song, of YOU!

For darkness may come,
But light will always prevail,
Where there is happiness and joy,
It never fails.

So use what ever tools you can,
Make a wish and seal the plan,
To get your life, heart and joy, back on track,
Believe in yourself,
And make a pact.

For the art of self love,
Of self belief,
Doesn’t come easy,
It’s not like some freebie.

Self love,
Self belief,
It takes work,
To live for you,
To live with joy,
To find your truth,
And not be coy,
It all takes an incredible amount of time,
But what if right here and now, you decide,
To leave the biggest crime,
The crime that tells you to quit, on yourself,
It doesn’t care about your, or your self health.

The person inside who jeopardises you,
Is this biggest enemy of all to you,
So refuse to quit,
Refuse to settle,
Say thank you for sharing,
But I can do better,
I can fight for joy,
For speaking my own truth,
I can fight for self love,
Self worth, and growth.

I can fight for the kid in me,
The parent, the mother, the daddy,
The zing, zing.
I can nourish my soul,
And bring it to life,
I can be my own kid,
My own husband and wife,
Or I can choose to live a life of quirky,
I can choose to be different and throw away the key,
For at the end of the day,
There is no other,
That this beautiful, unique being, I see in the mirror, daily.

I want to tell you to rise,
To lay you soul bare,
To strip back the garbage,
To become self-aware,
I want to tell you to reach inside,
To find the courage not to hide,
Because in the end,
The only price you pay,
Is your heart, soul, and mind, each day.

Self love is amazing,
Self love is kind,
It’s the key to leaving depression behind.
It’s the key to rising more and more,
For taking your dreams and making them soar,
For being your own light amoung the grey,
For living your life, the crazy way,
For being the light in the night,
For being the calm, in your own internal fight,
It’s the thing you need most now in this world,
Now is a time of reflection,
To become that light,
To listen to your inner intuition and let it take flight.

So here’s to the kid in you,
Here’s to the unique blend, that’s called YOU!
Here’s to your goals, ambitions and dreams,
Here’s to your own stars and moonbeams,
Here’s to the things the naysayers said can’t be done,
Here’s to shining your light, your journey has just begun!

 

I hope you enjoyed this poem, if you did, please comment and give it a like and be sure to come back for more.

As always, stay quirky you and write soon.

Sandra xx

Dear Writing I’ve Missed You – A Letter To My Love Of My Life – A Writing Poem From My Soul


 

Asexual Perspectives print book
Author Sandra Bellamy With Her Asexual Perspectives Paperback Book

Happy to say that I have an extra Asexual Sex Story for my Asexual Guide To Sex book and all next month my main focus is finishing writing this book. Which will be my second for asexuals.

Writing will always, always, always be the love of my life. I want to write a letter here to my love of my life.

Dear writing I’ve missed you.
I’ve missed you so much, I want to kiss you.
Without you in my life, I feel like I am dying,
And right now I am crying.

I am trying to do the ‘right thing’,
I am trying to do what should bring,
Well you know, the big M thing,
But dear writing you are the only thing,
Academic wise,
That makes me come alive,
You are the one thing,
That never tires,
And the one thing I never, ever despise.

Writing is like setting your soul free,
It’s the ONLY way in my opinion,
You can ever leave a true, lasting legacy,

It’s the only way you can truly change the world,
You can light up another’s life,
And make them see,
That all the truth and power,
Lies within thee.

Dear writing I have missed you,
I truly want to kiss you,
You are my heart and soul,
And without you I am dying inside,
If truth be told.

So what happens when we are not doing what we are suppose to be,
Is our body reacts, involuntary,
It shakes us up and makes us see,
We aren’t fulfilling our true destiny,

God, the universe, the powers that be,
Show you the dangers of not living your destiny,
They give you pain, they induce the worst,
To say what the heck do you think you are doing, Why are you not giving your body what it wants and needs,
And denying it’s thirst.

See you may think writing is just that,
But when you truly listen to your soul,
You know it’s far more than that,
When you deny yourself to use the gift you were born with,
Or you denying it, in favour of another it,
It’s like losing a best friend over and over again,
It’s like agony and then some again.

Your body will go crazy,
Your spirit will feel more lazy,
You heart will pine for something you are denying it,
And all for what?
To conform and fit in?

Maybe this was never your intention,
But maybe subconsciously, that’s what you forgot to mention,
Maybe you need to stop denying your body, heart and mind the truth,
And that is, your writing is living proof,
Of exactly why you were put on this earth,
So please go back to it, and live your full worth.

Go back to the joy that you once new,
And connect with that disconnect,
Your soul and body will thank you.

See you never really left it and me and you know this,
But when you think about it, you body is in a mess,
But it’s nothing you can’t fix.

Because within your body, soul, and mind,
You need to have the courage to know this is my time,
Other things can wait,
But this can’t.

Because you need help,
Others need your help,
And the only way to fix this,
Isn’t by doing what others do,
It’s to look after precious you.

It’s about standing up for what you truly believe in,
For taking a stand and not trying to fit in,
It’s about working hard at what you truly love to do,
It’s about reaching for the stars, the light and the moon,
It’s about getting your best friend back and healing you,
It’s about reaching out to your writing and taking it by the hand and singing Grease Lightening,
It’s about remembering the heart and soul of you,
And that writing is you and at the heart of what you do.

It’s about living your life, fulfilling your own purpose and destiny,
It’s about taking charge of your life and living your truth with passion and vigour,
It’s about being you, Sandra Bellamy the writer,
And loving what you do.

It’s about knowing no other occupation will do,
Because writing is your life, it’s your heart, its about you.

When I say it’s about you, you know it’s designed to help others too.

You went through shit,
And you got through it,
You needed that to happen,
To write about it.

You needed to have lived life,
The rough with the smooth,
Now go ahead again,
And prove them wrong.

Be who you are truly born to be,
Don’t hold back,
Don’t come from a place of want and need,
Don’t come from a place of lack.

For when I think about writing,
There is a joy within my heart,
Like nothing I ever feel again,
Nothing ever comes close to this piece of me,
That’s why I have to fulfil my writing destiny.

I want to thank you God and the powers that be,
For manifesting chaos and pain within me,
Because I know you want me to see the truth,
No one and nothing can heal me, but my own self.

So I am going back to writing more,
To blogging,
And opening up my writing door,
And if I have to leave other plans behind I will,
But I think that maybe, just maybe, it’s been about writing all along,
Because I don’t do a business in which I can’t sell books,
I don’t just do a business and this I overlook,
It’s always in the back of my mind,
How can I help more people, using my writing shine!

But right now more than ever, I need to help me,
Because by helping myself, I will always help others you see,
They will always go hand-in-hand for me,
And that’s why I need to fulfil my writing destiny.

I noticed I just used the word need,
But when I use that word in the context of writing,
It’s a need within my soul,
It’s a thirst within my heart,
And I have been denying it more of late,
To focus on other things and make this wait.

No more will writing wait for me, it’s fighting back in my mind,
And telling me to fulfil my destiny,
It’s longing and it’s missing me,
When all is lost and gone,
Writing will still be with me.

So close the doors and shut your eyes,
Getting back to what you love and come fully back alive.
Go back to living and being beautiful you. Loving truly what you love to do.

Get your writing best friend back,
No longer have this lack,
Go grab it now and end it’s sorrow,
Dance with it in the moonlight,
And no longer will you need to borrow,
Short term happiness,
But you will get that writing friend back and put an end to this madness.

For one perfect month, I want you to focus at least,
On your writing joy,
And having a writing feast,
On getting back to the true love of your life,
Who has always been by your side.

Instead of leaving your writing best friend,
To fend for itself,
And be behind you,
Waiting from afar,
I want you to join hands once again, and live in writing bliss and harmony,
Focusing on your destiny.

Because when all is said and done,
And you look back at your life, and you are almost gone,
You will go with a happiness inside of you,
That you lived your true authentic life,
You did what YOU do,
And your legacy will live on.

 

It’s great to be back with you. Missed blogging and writing so much xx

Stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx