So you may have read about my Asexual Perspectives book being published, but just what is Asexuality and what does it mean to be asexual? Watch this video to find out more and read my book description below. Asexual Perspectives is currently available to read for free on Amazon for ‘Kindle Unlimited’ readers, so what have you got to lose by finding out more?
In broad terms Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, but what does this actually mean for those who identify with this sexual orientation? And what do asexuals really think of love, life and sex?
Whilst all asexuals have one thing in common – the lack of sexual attraction towards a specific person, we are all different in our likes, needs, wants and dislikes. This can make fitting into the asexual spectrum and finding a suitable relationship difficult.
Right now, there are a number of myths about asexuality and stereotypes – even within the asexual community, about what asexuals do and do not like, should and should not do, and these need to be addressed and broken through!
If you identify as asexual do you –
Struggle to have a voice in this sexualized world?
Have no one to relate to?
Find it difficult to find others like you?
Feel like everyone is speaking a foreign language where sex is concerned?
Or are you unsure of your identity and sometimes get confused and you want to know what asexuals really think of Love, Life and Sex, and what experiences they have had or are having; and how they manage their relationships? If so, then look no further than this book. In this book you will discover asexuals who feel just like you.
In this book I will reveal my own asexual perspective and personal story as well as perspectives from 46 asexuals around the globe; dispelling myths and breaking stereotypes; sharing their own personal journey to help you in yours and with a surprising over-riding message!
In this book you will:
•Learn the asexual perspectives of Aromantics; Heteroromantics; Homoromantics; Panromantics; Grey Aces; Demi-sexual; Biromantic; Agender; Transgender; Polyamorous and many more.
•Uncover Asexuals’ deepest fears, concerns and worries about being asexual.
•Find out possible reasons why, in general, society does not accept asexuality as a sexual orientation in its own right and what we can do about this to change the world!
•Discover what asexuals really believe are the differences between sexual attraction, sexual desire and arousal.
•Find out what asexuals really think of nudity; porn; masturbation; BDSM and kinks.
•Discover what it feels like to have sex as an asexual and how to cope with the sexualized world that we live in.
•Find out what asexuals think about living together, about marriage and about having kids.
•Discover what an ideal asexual relationship would look like and whether asexuals believe a relationship with a sexual would be fair or not.
•Uncover the positives about being asexual.
•Find out what advice asexuals would give to a younger version of themselves regarding asexuality and what advice they would give to others who are just discovering they may be asexual.
I feel truly blessed that all interviewees have been willing to open up and share their most intimate moments, thoughts, feelings and emotions with you. What you are about to read is unique, amazing, interesting, sometimes candidly humorous, fascinating and insightful. This is their story, now it’s their time to tell it.
Heteroromantic Author Sandra Bellamy, is the founder of www.asexualise.com, with products, resources and services for asexuals. She sees herself as an ambassador for asexuality and is on a mission to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. By purchasing this book you will gain a deeper understanding of this often misunderstood sexual orientation and help to spread awareness of asexuality at the same time. We may be small in numbers, but we can still make a huge difference to the world at large and celebrate our diversity.
ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES BOOK: What is the hardest part of writing a book? BEHIND THE SCENES PART ONE. What is the hardest part of writing a book? Special Edition Video Series. In this video series I give you a behind the scenes look at what it is really like to be a writer and author. Part Two shows more of the making of the book and my daily routine.
I have been working tons of hours on my Asexual Perspectives book since New Year’s Day!! (Home, day job, book, home, day joy, book!)
I have finally uploaded my Asexual Perspectives book and waiting for Kindle to approve it and then I will be a self-published Author x 3 – but this book will be in print also asap!!
Stay quirky and look out for part two soon!!
Love xx Sandra
My new Asexual Perspectives, Love Life and Sex, ACElebration of Diversity book is mega proof that we exist (30+ Asexual interviews going in the book) and so too, does love without sex!
This will be my third book that I have written – but my first about asexuality, and it will be available on Amazon Kindle and free for 5 days only. If you want to find out more about asexuality check out my new www.asexualise.com site
My new Twitter book is selling well, and as it is still only 99p – $1.40; it’s an absolute bargain.
How To GET STARTED WITH TWITTER For Absolute Beginners GET GOING AND GET GROWING A Step-By-Step Guide Kindle Edition
This is the Ultimate Guide for Absolute Beginners Who Have No Clue About How To Get Started With Twitter!
You have heard of Twitter and how it is one of the most powerful communication tools on the internet. You have seen people on TV saying Tweet us. You have heard of businesses getting ahead of their competition because they are using it daily, and you would love to join in. But you are a bit of a techno phobe, and you just don’t know where to start or how to get going; and most guides around seem to blow your mind and confuse you all the more! You want something very easy that you can just follow along with, that will take you from A-B, and decipher what steps you are actually taking, so you can easily remember how to use Twitter and have a basic understanding of what is going on, long after you have put the book down!
This book will guide you through every step to get started, get going and get growing with Twitter. In an easy to understand step-by-step format, Social Media Expert Sandra Bellamy teaches you:
How to create your first ever Twitter account
What Twitter is and what it is used for
What a Tweet is and how to send one
How to add a profile and header photo
How to add a short bio with the option to link it to another site
What direct messages are and how to send and reply to one
How to Like, Retweet and Reply to Tweets
How to follow other Tweeters and search for more Followers
What @mentions are and how to use them
What Hashtags (#) are and how to use them
How to unfollow someone or block them
How To Gain More Followers, Likes and Retweets
12 Golden Rules for Getting the Most Out of Twitter
This is the essential guide every Twitter novice won’t want to be without.
If you are already on Twitter, but figure there must be something you are missing, because you are not sure what your @ and your # is, and you keep thinking there must be more to it, there is, and the information in this book will help you. At 99p – $1.40, you can’t go wrong!
Until next time, embracing your quirky, and write soon
So I launched my new Asexualise.com site which I had been shouting about on this ‘Asexualise My Asexual Life’ channel that this video is taken from. It is a website with products, resources and services, for asexuals, and also features a blog – my first ever blog about asexuality! It also features my ‘Asexualise’ brand of T Shirts – yes, I design my own T Shirts on Amazon.com and Redbubble (although I paid a designer to do the artwork on some of them). Here is one of my Top Sellers that has a 5 Star Review …..
I am going to be creating T Shirts for Writer’s in the future and will post about them on here at a later date so watch this space. I also have two other brand of T Shirts too – Including Quirky T Shirt – www.quirkytshirt.com I have some site changes in the future so it’s all very exciting stuff.
I have been to Devon Business Expo this week and watched webinars, videos, and been reading for training for my businesses. Please remember how much I love you and that I don’t forget you, just sorry I have been slow to blog on here and the fact I am not stopping by much. As I write this, it is before I go to work in my day job on a Bank Holiday Monday, and I have to jump in the shower in a minute!
My Twitter book is doing really well – if you are a beginner to Twitter or have started and have no clue what you are doing, please check it out, it is still only $1.40 or 99p and has a 5 Star review, you won’t be disappointed.
I am working hard interviewing Asexuals from around the globe for my new Asexual Perspectives, Love Life and Sex, ACElebration of Diversity book – It is a huge deal to many asexuals, including me. It is going to show just how awesome we are, and hopefully help those with a sexual orientation to understand us better – as I have had sex in the past and have highly sexual friends, I think I can help to bridge the understanding gap, between both. This book should help with this, and will be an interesting read for asexuals and asexuals too, I have an interesting www.facebook.com/acexualise page for more info about what is going on with all of the asexual stuff I do . Love is love and I love you – remember that! xx And stay quirky!
Woohooooooo!!! So excited!!! New Asexualise.com website coming very soon!! I am on a very tight deadline for this and it has to be finished by Saturday because an asexual guy bought my Asexualise Asexual Ace Superman Style T Shirt and is going to use it as a talking point to come out to people about his asexuality and has asked if I mind him doing an unboxing video and wants to link to my new site. This video is going to go live Sunday at the latest. I feel very honoured that one of my own T Shirt designs, is going to change someone’s life in a major way. It’s amazing and I feel so blessed and thankful.
Find out what else has been going on in my Asexualise My Asexual Life video.
Love you all. Keep smiling and keep being quirky YOU!! You are gorgeous. xxxxxxxx
Exeter Christmas Light Switch On!
I love robots and was really happy to see this one before the Exeter Christmas Light Switch On Thursday 19th of November at 6.30pm. It was a low key event this year, due to the recent attacks in Paris.
I had two hours sleep from 19th/20th night/morning as I was working hard to finish creating and publishing my first ever Asexualise Your Life – What’s happening? Newsletter. If you know anyone who is asexual or who wants to know more, they can sign-up to my monthly newsletter by clicking on this link http://eepurl.com/bGNW2P This newsletter is fabulous for taking my writing skills to yet another level.
I also have an asexualise Facebook page www.facebook.com/acexualise and I am on Twitter www.twitter.com/asexualise My Facebook page is on 77 Likes and 281 post reach, since creating it during the evening of the 17th. I am having a bit of time off work on Monday 23rd of November, because I am at a small asexual meet-up that day, which I organised. It’s my third that I have arranged and been to this year. I have been getting messages from asexuals to say that I am inspiring, helping them to stop being so confused, bold and brave and awesome. This is the reason I must keep doing what I am doing, because I really want to help others.
As you have probably guessed, it’s hard for me to find time to blog, especially as I have an even higher workload now, but I will not stop blogging on here for the world.
Today I posted this LinkedIn Blog article below, on LinkedIn. I wanted to share it with you to give you a better understanding of why I am committed to helping other asexuals. On Tuesday, I braved telling the world, my very personal asexual coming out story. It was hard to do, but I really want to help others. I ummed and arrrr -ed about whether to put it on this blog, because you have never seen this side of my life, or known some of these details about my past, but I share everything else with you, so here I am in this video, stripped bare in the asexual sense.
For far too long many Asexuals have been living in fear of coming out about their sexuality, due to society’s pressures to conform to a majority sexual population. That’s all about to change!
This week is Asexual Awareness Week; and the official launch of my brand new Asexualise My Asexual Life YouTube channel; to Empower and Enhance Your Asexual Life – with a brand new Asexualise.com website in the pipeline. Once created, Asexualise.com will have products, services and resources for Asexuals. The main product line will be Asexual T-Shirts, that will be exclusive Asexual designs created by me and sold on Amazon, with links directly from Asexualise.com to my Amazon store. My designer has already got to work on the first two designs, so I am super excited about that.
I run the Asexual Business, Gurus and Entrepreneurs group on Facebook; putting Asexuality and business firmly together on the map together. As a Heteroromantic Asexual myself, I know the difficulties Asexuals face in a world where sex seems like everything, and they feel like they don’t fit in. But they don’t need to fit in, they were born to stand out for all the right reasons, and I am here to give them a voice in the world.
If you are Asexual and interested in finding out more, check out my new YouTube channel to find out why I created this channel, and hear my very personal story.
And sign up to my Asexualise My Asexual Life – What’s happening monthly newsletter by clicking this link and entering your name and email – http://eepurl.com/bC7su5
What you will get; a combination of any or all:
- Inspiration to Asexualise Your Life
- Resources to Asexualise Your Life.
- Asexual products
- Any special announcements
- Any special events
Click the link below, and enter your name and email to sign-up : http://eepurl.com/bC7su5
This is an excerpt from the back matter of my Break Through The Barriers Of Redundancy To Get Back Into Work – An A-Z ‘How To’ guide; talking about my Quirky Coaching service:
Being a confident heteroromantic asexual, Sandra has found that others who are asexual sometimes prefer to be mentored and coached by someone who understands their orientation and how it impacts their life or business. She is part of many online asexual groups and runs the Asexual Business, Gurus and Entrepreneurs group on Facebook. This group gives those who are asexual and have an interest in business, creativity and the arts; a place to express themselves, to make new friends, share like-minded ideas, share their work and interests, get feedback and support, and help each other’s businesses to grow.
I line with my Break Through Barriers attitude and Embrace Your Quirky philosophy; my aim is to have asexuals and sexuals live along side each other in harmony. Even though I am asexual, personally don’t like sex, and have asexual friends, there will always be place in my life and business for sexual people and I have many sexual and highly sexual friends. I have organised local asexual meet-ups and plan to meet more asexuals in the future.
If you are asexual, check out my Asexual Business, Gurus and Entrepreneurs group on Facebook, and tell me how do you asexualise your life? If you are not asexual, thank you for taking the time to read this article, I look forward to working with you in one of my other World Of Quirky Capacities …. and before you go, there will be inspirational T-Shirts exclusively designed by me, to purchase on Amazon soon, so don’t feel left out, there is something for everyone at world Of Quirky.
I would love to read your comments. Until next time, write soon, and embrace your quirky.
Welcome to my third video in the series of Quirky Love videos, in the lead up to Valentine’s Day. Today’s video is titled on YouTube as Sex, Sexuality and being Asexual. It is about how we treat our own sexuality, compared to that of others, and we should Love others as if we would love ourselves. Enjoy, subscribe if you haven’t already, and tell me what you think.
Thanks for watching, and a gigantic Shout Out of thanks to those of you who have subscribed. I am covering some very controversial topics and feeling loved and supported by you, so THANK YOU!
Until next time, keep embracing your quirky and each others.