When Doing What the “Experts” Tell You To Do, Makes You Sick, Do This!


For the last 4 months of last year I was going through very difficult times with what seemed like constantly being sick, I felt worn out, burnt out, overwhelmed, and like my mind needed a rest! This year I am super pumped! More productive than ever before, with tons of goals I am working through one-by-one. This is the year I will, and am, achieve many dreams, because I am doing things my way, not how society and every other ‘expert’ keeps telling me I should do them. For example, when they say to get up at 4am and do work, I am working through the night and going to bed at that time or later! When they say to put everything on a planner in advance and mark everything on your calendar so it’s full, instead I am putting stuff on my calendar such as appointments, interviews, time with my family and friends, and things I have scheduled in advance, but the rest I am setting goals every day in my diary and ticking them off as I go along and this has catapulted my productivity levels to a whole new level entirely. I feel really motivated when I see myself getting my tasks for that day done. Last year, when I put everything on my calendar before, and planned way in advance, I was getting left behind with my own schedule, and two weeks later I felt deflated, unproductive, down about myself and my life, and last year I had no clear direction with goals, I just kept doing the same thing. This year I have clearly defined goals and am hell-bent on achieving all of them to the best of my ability as soon as I can. I am excited about what is coming up and the amount of new opportunities and challenges coming my way, so if you are going through hell or shit right now, just remember, this …

And don’t listen to the experts, do this instead!

Until next time, keep embracing your quirky, keep being you, and write soon.

Lots of love

Sandra xx

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Happy New Year 2019! What is the one new skill YOU want to learn this new year 2019?


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Happy New Year 2019! From me and Angel (furry kid guinea pig daughter). xxxxxx

So now we are at the first day of the new year 2019 and I would love to know what is the one new skill you would like to learn this year? Please comment below with your answer!

Also let know what you are up to for New Year’s Day 2019 today?

Have a quirky new year 2019! Wishing 2019 to be the very best year for you ever!

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Lots of quirky love and hugs from me, Sandra, and Angel xxxxxxxx

 

QUEEN UK QUEEN TRIBUTE BAND WITH ALEXANDER KORONKA: #lifehacks Bring in the new!


Back in May I went to show called the Devon County Show and I really got out of my comfort zone by watching Queen UK (https://ukqueen.co.uk) who are a Queen tribute band with Alexander Corona and dancing with people I had never met before. This is footage from that show!

When was the last time you got out of your comfort zone and experienced something new or different? Comment below!

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

You are the miracle!


So many people spend their whole life looking for external gratification, looking for things to happen to them to make their life better, looking for that miracle, all the while not realising, that they are the miracle and they are the only one who has the power to change their life!

This video was filmed live on my channel www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV  and was also published on my inspirational blog www.beatredundancyblues.wordpress.com please subscribe to my channel for a mixture of motivational and inspirational life hacks and poetry to live your best life and life your purpose! And if you LOVE inspiration, be sure to subscribe to www.beatredundancyblues.wordpress.com , as you would not want to miss a post!

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

UK ASEXUALITY CONFERENCE 2018 SPEAKER SANDRA BELLAMY TALKS ABOUT HOW TO ARRANGE AN ASEXUAL MEETUP!


If you weren’t at the UK Asexuality Conference, here is the video my friend took of me speaking about what an asexual meetup is and how to arrange one if you are an absolute beginner.  One of my Asexual BFF’s has a guest speaking spot during my talk and he did incredibly well, considering it was a delicate issue. I arrange Asexual meetups and hold them in my City of Exeter in the UK, but people come from all over the UK to my main meets and my next one of those I am arranging for September and we will be doing VR gaming for it! Really looking forward to that!

I hope you enjoy the video and let me know what you think?

TO LIFE HACK OR NOT LIFE HACK? THAT IS THE QUESTION!


This is my newest www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV channel trailer for my new Life Hacks videos!

I was doing inspirational/motivational ad-libbed poems on my Quirky Books TV channel that compliments this blog, but made the switch in April to doing Life Hacks videos. The reason for the switch is because I want to help more people to live their best life and to live their purpose and I thought these short how-to videos would prove more popular in that respect. Although I know a couple of my subscribers who like and miss my poems and one was interactive on my channel before the switch, so what is your take on it, do you prefer these life-hack videos or my previous poetry videos? Please let me know.

I have many more subscribers on my Asexual Channel and now with my new Quirky Academy channel that I need to put a lot of my focus, time and energy into, as it goes with my new Quirky Academy site, it’s harder to keep this one going with less subscribers. I feel I need to get a theme and stick to it, as viewers will know more about what to expect and I might get more subscribers. So what types of videos would you like to see? If you are not already a subscriber, what types of videos would make you want to subscribe and what types of videos would make you want to interact by leaving a comment?

Looking forward to reading you!

Thanks in advance for being so helpful!

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xxxx

 

BE THE FLOWER IN YOUR OWN LIFE THAT IS ALWAYS IN BLOOM! Quote By Chief Quirky At Quirky Academy!


Well now my all new Quirky Academy is officially launched at last, the moment I have been waiting for, for years of my life, has finally come to fruition! It is a new online training centre for Entrepreneurs, Start-ups, and Creatives, with courses for both personal and professional development! I am starting small and building big and will have other tutors, besides me on there, in their specialist fields. If you want more details on how to become a tutor and what would be involved, please email me at quirkyacademy@gmail.com And I would also like to know your ideas for what types of courses you would want to see on there, so please fill out the poll below, it would be very helpful to me! Thanks in advance xx

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