International Bestseller #1 Hot New Releases – Diary Confessions of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life

#1 Hot New Releases And International Bestseller

Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual: 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life (Special Limited Time Offer in Kindle, only 99c / 99p) Get Your Copy Here – https://amzn.to/3We9uLE

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A writer’s and publisher’s dream come true, is when you see your Quirky Books book at the #1 slot both on Amazon.com and Amazon.co.uk in Hot New Releases and a bestseller in multiple categories on both Amazon.com and Amazon.co.uk, so I’m now an International Bestseller with this Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life book.

#1 New Release in Counseling & Psychology eBooks on Human Sexuality

Have you ever had a vision that came true but not in the way you thought it would? Well, that’s what happened to me…

If this were fiction, it would be unbelievable, but as it’s non-fiction, it’s truly unmissable!

Sandra Bellamy, a self-confessed hyper-romantic asexual, believes she has psychic abilities. Frustrated by her own belief in past lives and convinced she has an Indian soulmate from a past life who she’s been trying to find in this one since 2014, Sandra prays to God for him to show her, her soulmate… But all, is not as it seems… He loves tragic love stories and unhappy endings, to go with his bad boy persona. She just wanted the guy of her dreams. Little did she know the horror of her vision becoming a reality, when a chance encounter changes the trajectory of her life forever. However far their worlds seem apart, fate has drawn them together, but why?

Join Sandra, for some incredible real-life asexual adventures, with many twists and turns of fate, where asexy attraction becomes climatic kissing passion, sensuality turns into personal power, and self-love takes on a whole new meaning, as she embarks on a journey of self-discovery, uncovering some deep truths, in the form of life lessons that will ACE your life and set you free, to be your authentic self in all your naked soul glory. Where your personal pain is transformed into your personal power, as you shed societal conditioning and literally stop giving a fuck about what people think of you! If you’ve ever wanted to make your own dreams and fantasies a reality, and get your asexual needs met, Sandra shows you the way, giving a whole new meaning to love, affection, and human connection.

♥️ “This book dives deep into my mind – THE mind – of a hyper-romantic asexual, unlocking the secrets of what truly goes on in my life behind the scenes. Sharing my raw thoughts, feelings, and emotions, during some super tough moments, sad moments, funny moments, OMG moments, but never any dull moments. And all of the fantastic 78 life lessons I learn along the way, I share with you in this book, to help you in your own asexual life. My life is so far out sometimes, that even I think it sounds like fiction – when it’s actual non-fiction fact, with all the drama, the emotional ups and downs, the pains of living a hyper-romantic life, and the joys of being daring enough to make my own dreams a reality, and do things in my life that others could only dream of doing, but never have the courage to try.“ ♥️

Delve into this personal diary book, to be inspired, feel empowered, educated and entertained, in how to overcome asexual struggles, challenges and adversities, and develop a new found resilience and confidence you never knew you’re capable of, to truly ACE your life!

By the time you’ve finished reading my personal diary book, you’ll be equipped with the knowledge and know-how to:

1. Transform your pain into personal power and insights which you can learn from.

2. Overcome difficult and painful situations a lot quicker.

3. Recognise heterosexual and dating red flags.

4. Understand what heterosexual guys say, but actually mean, when what they really want is sex.

5. Understand the effects of childhood trauma, and how to recognise patterns and trauma abuse cycles, so you can stop them.

6. Have sexual pleasure in an asexual way.

7. Recognise, when it’s sensual, romantic, and aesthetic attraction, vs sexual attraction.

8. Be confident in your own body and get your own intimacy and pleasure needs met, in a way that’s right for you.

9. Get your asexual needs met without caring what others think.

10. Help you to see dating, communication, and romance blind spots. So you can sharpen your bullshit detector.

11. Dissect text messages to expose lies.

12. Change your mindset and perceptions to live your best asexual life.

Get #1 Hot New Release And International Best Seller Asexuality Book – Diary Confessions of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life before the price goes up.

Shop now – and get your copy on Kindle for a Limited Time at just 99p https://amzn.to/49Nh1E or 99c  here https://amzn.to/3We9uLE

Wherever you live, it’s currently at a special low launch price from your nearest Amazon.

Amazon.com best seller in 3 categories – Means I’m and International Bestselling Author and Publisher as I publish books under my own book publishing imprint called Quirky Books.

Amazon.co.uk bestseller in 3 categories.

With 5 Star Rating.

Shop now – and get your copy on Kindle for a Limited Time at just 99p https://amzn.to/49Nh1E or 99c  here https://amzn.to/3We9uLE

Wherever you live, it’s currently at a special low launch price from your nearest Amazon.

As always, stay quirky and write soon,

Sandra xx

P.S. If you like this book, please leave an honest written review on Amazon and share some words about what you thought of the book in order for others to make an informed purchasing decision.

How Entrepreneurship Took Me From Self-loathing To Self-loving – Sandra Bellamy Empowerography Interview

So happy to be featured on Empowerography Podcast telling my personal story of how I went from self-loathing to self-loving through entrepreneurship and what inspires me most about the work I do.

If you’ve ever lacked  purpose, felt like you don’t belong, or you don’t like yourself or your life – I want you to know I’ve been in that position myself for many, many years, since childhood, and it wasn’t until 2012… that everything changed for me and I went from self-loathing to self-loving.

See what I mean by watching this video below – or clicking through this link https://youtu.be/byZgpAY5L88?si=evHmdPpnlyThSm9r

After watching the video, you may have noticed that in order to self-love, you need to:

• Take notice of all the special qualities you have.
• How much life experience you have.
• How much knowledge you have gained, through work and your life.
• How many skills you have gained, through work and your life.

• All of which you can use to help others.
• Which means you are useful, not useless.
• You are worthy of being in life.
• You matter.

So think about all of these.

Helping others gives you purpose, meaning, and helps you to heal also. Even if that’s doing some sort of volunteer work – online or offline.

Helping yourself, by seeing your own value and worth, even when you’re not helping others, is important to your own health and wellbeing. 

The more you see yourself as you truly are, not what love ones, family, so called friends and society have conditioned you to believe and think you are, the more you can be your true authentic self and love yourself. You can’t love yourself if others have manipulated and brainwashed you into believing you are this, that, and the other… and you can never change and there is something inherently wrong with you – what’s wrong with you, is the lies of unworthiness other people have fed you, and you believe, if you lack self-love. I hope you can begin to see, if you lack self-love, that you are worth loving and being in life.

Which leads me on to my next point and video clip, just because someone gives you feedback, doesn’t mean you have to take it onboard and accept it, it’s more important for you to be your authentic self, especially in business as that’s when you be become the brand and you’re no longer a commodity. Watch it here https://youtu.be/ygU6BECJOiM or click play on the video below.

There will be people who don’t understand you, who don’t agree with what you do, and will try to give you advice on how to do something in the way they would do it, but they’re not you, and if your audience has known you for a long time, they will know if you are faking things, if you’re not being your true authentic self, and they will feel it. People pleasing someone else to keep the peace when you’re own self-worth, self-esteem and self-brand is at stake, is not a wise move. It take guts to stick up to these people if they are directly in your life on a regular basis, but you have a duty of care to yourself, to do the right thing by you as well as your audience and brand. Never give up being you, because of the tight pigeon hole, someone else wants to put you in, as that suppresses and represses, who you truly are.

I also got asked during this in-depth, empowering interview, what lights me up and inspires me most about the work I do, to which I replied this… watch the video below to find out, or by clicking this link https://youtu.be/wNS3JIUFB9c

When you’re doing work you love and your mission (your why) is so BIG, you will continue to stay motivated to achieve your goals. So always go after what you love, not what other people love and want you to love. Always stay true to you.


Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts here https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/entrepreneurship-took-me-from-self-loathing-to-self/id1471709447?i=1000644155585

Or Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/4dR9miVPX519uTEbVXScc1?si=ZGvMr-aGQ_eUC_AxcJaWUw

Let me know what you think 🤔

Follow Brad Walsh – Empowerography podcast on Instagram here  https://www.instagram.com/empowerographypodcast/

As always, stay quirky and write soon.

Sandra xx

AMPLIFY YOU – ASK THE EXPERT Interview with Sandra Bellamy – How To Be Vulnerable And Brave With Your Message To Grow Your Podcast

I’m so happy and proud to be featured on the podcast – AMPLIFY YOU With Podcasting: Ask The Expert: Be Vulnerable And Brave With Your Message An Asexual Journey With Sandra Bellamy. 

AMPLIFY YOU With Podcasting is a top rated podcast all about how to podcast, grow your audience with podcasting and techniques, tips, advice and guidance on how to build your audience and grow a successful podcast. Although I don’t currently have a “traditional” podcast. I do have a successful YouTube show called Asexualise My Asexual Life which sees consistent growth, with some episodes now featured as a podcast and on YouTube Music as a podcast also. I felt honoured to talk about both my YouTubing expertise and how to grow a successful YouTube channel, by getting out of your comfort zone and share my knowledge of how I do that, so you can do the same, as well as share my personal story and YouTube community growing journey.

If you have ever thought about starting a podcast or YouTube channel – or you have one but are stuck for ideas on how to grow it and do things differently, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

Please listen to the full podcast episode on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/amplify-you-with-podcasting/id1457094134?i=1000642435797

On Google Podcasts here https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5jYXB0aXZhdGUuZm0vYW1wbGlmeW91Lw/episode/YjYwZjI4NjctZjAyMS00YjQ1LTljYWUtMGVkZjFjOTlmYzE1?

On Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/6tAjNVGQxWctBjPpITi1Fz?si=a3de7bc54e6e4b4d

An extraordinary story with a powerful message of fostering understanding and breaking down barriers.

Michelle is diving into a conversation with the remarkable Sandra Bellamy, an inspiring figure wearing multiple hats – advisor, author, speaker, coach – Sandra is best known for her YouTube channel, “Asexualise My Asexual Life.”

Sandra shares her journey as a romantic asexual, emphasising the importance of self-love and creating a safe space for her asexual community.

Get ready for an authentic and empowering conversation that transcends labels, as Sandra takes us on a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the creation of a safe haven for the asexual community.

Join us in celebrating Sandra Bellamy’s impact and commitment to creating a world where no asexual has to live in fear.

Don’t miss:

> The importance of asexual representation and visibility

> Overcoming fear of judgement

> Creating a safe space for asexual community

> Behind the scene with Sandra Bellamy in their content creation

> Sandra’s mission mission is to help asexuals recognise their orientation globally

About Sandra Bellamy:

Sandra Bellamy, aka: The Asexual Entrepreneur, Asexualise, and ACE Fibro Girl, is the Bestselling Author of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex ACElebration of Asexual Diversity; and Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, available from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Blackwell’s, Walmart and more. Asexual Perspectives is also available from Waterstones. Published under her own publishing imprint; Quirky Books. Changing lives from pain to gain, one book at a time.

She’s also contributed to #1 Best Seller the BOOK of WHY (AND HOW) featuring James Redfield: New York Times Bestselling Author, The Celestine Prophecy. Sandra has co-authored bLU Talks Vol 11 book featuring James and Ken Honda which is a #1 International Bestseller. She is a member of bLU Talks ExPeRts Bureau, and a Speaker for bLU Talks – she spoke at Oxford University for them in October 2023.

Sandra’s most famous for her reality-TV-style chat show and vlog, Asexualise My Asexual Life, which has had over half a million views. Educating people about the sexual orientation that is asexuality and inspiring and empowering asexuals to be comfortable and confident as their authentic self, using her own asexual life journey to help others with advice and guidance on love, life, dating, relationships, self-care.

She was a Speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference in London and has been featured in the Daily Mirror, Daily Star and on the Jeremy Vine Show, BBC Radio with Graham Torrington, Apple, Spotify, Channel 4, BBC TV, Femedic, bLU Talks Amplify Your Message and on a variety of podcasts including Lifeology Radio which has over 3 million listeners per episode.

Learn more about Sandra and what she does:

YouTube channel with over 708,000 views: https://www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife

New Asexualise Dating channel: https://www.youtube.com/@asexualisedating

Asexual blog and website with resources: https://www.asexualise.com

Asexual Courses at Asexualise Academy https://www.asexualiseacademy.com

Asexualise Dating https://www.asexualisedating.com

Follow on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/asexualise

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asexualiseofficial/

LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandrabellamy/

Follow Sandra on her 3 Asexual Facebook Pages:

https://www.facebook.com/acexualise

https://www.facebook.com/AcexualiseAcademy

https://www.facebook.com/acexualisedating

ABOUT AMPLIFY YOU WITH PODCASTING

Amplify You with Podcasting is a Podcast for the Podcasting Entrepreneur with a Big Vision and a Big Message to make a Big Impact with Podcasting.

Behind the Mic episodes share stories of success from Podcasters who are making a difference in their listeners lives and an impact in their business.

To Grow Market, Manage or Monetise your podcast listen in to the Ask the Expert Interviews to give you the tools to make your podcast journey a success.

Host of Amplifyou, Michelle Abraham is an international speaker,  Podcast Producer and voted #14 of the top 50 Moms in Podcasting  in 2020 and 2021 and Entrepreneur of the Year 2021.

Michelle is the Category Director for Kids and Family for Podcast Magazine and is also the host of Blissful Parenting Podcast.

Michelle is the Founder of Amplifyou. Kevin Harrington, the original shark on the hit TV Show Shark tank says Amplifyou is North Americas top Podcast Management Company.

Michelle and her team have launched well over 300 podcasts in the last few years and her team manages about 70 shows on a weekly basis.

Michelle began her work in the Podcast Industry in 2012 after becoming a new mom and falling in love with Podcasting as a loyal listener!

Something unique about Michelle is that she doesn’t just speak about a freedom lifestyle she lives it! Her and her family live off the grid on the boat access side of a lake you’ll find Michelle driving her kids to the school bus by boat or jet ski all while running a 100% online multi 6 figure business!

From Self-Loathing To Empowering A Global Community – Humans Of Fuzia Interview With Sandra Bellamy

Thrilled to be featured on Humans of Fuzia, who approached me for an interview, sharing my very personal life story from self-loathing to empowering a global (asexual) community. Check out the article here https://www.humansoffuzia.com/asexuality-unveiled-a-journey-from-self-loathing-to-empowering-a-global-community/

Humans of Fuzia are on a mission with a particular focus of inspiring and empowering their community of over 5 Million+ Women.

Fuzia began with a dream of empowering women and valuing art which goes unvalued. Striving for a better world and hopes of empowering creativity since November 2015, it today is a global and independent online space for every individual who believes in the idea of equal opportunities, women’s rights and women’s empowerment.

What makes Fuzia unique is its belief in the ability of women who are yet to be successful and the idea that the staircase to their success is their happiness in what they like to do. We have over the years, built a solid global community that nurtures the creative abilities of young women- leaders of tomorrow, through the Fu-zion of culture and ideas.

The ‘Superpower’ of Fuzia is the unshakable vow to achieve empowered representations of women, with the possible innovation of providing them with a platform to evolve from wherever they are, whatever their talent is and how ever they wish to pursue it.

I’m so proud to be featured in an article on Humans Of Fuzia website: Asexuality Unveiled: From self-loathing to empowering a global community, and to be able to inspire millions of women, that they can triumph over personal hardships and regain control over their lives to be a leader, and pave the way for a better future, not just for themselves but for others too.

In this article interview, I had to answer questions that were both personal and professional.

Which included:

What was my life like growing up?

What is my initiative and how is it helpful for people?

What was my experience of the Covid-19 pandemic?

What has been the response to my venture? 

How has my life changed since I started my venture?

Who is my support system.

And what change I would like to see in the world, this was my answer:

“I would like the world to accept asexuality and that there are some people who genuinely don’t like, want, or need sex. So we can help prevent sexual abuse situations and make dating and relationships a better experience for all.“

And my motivational message:

“Always remember, that both personally and professionally, you can achieve great things, be determined, never give up, and always know that your current circumstances don’t dictate your future.“

Please give this article a 5 minute read, here https://www.humansoffuzia.com/asexuality-unveiled-a-journey-from-self-loathing-to-empowering-a-global-community/

Stay quirky and write soon,

Sandra xx

Asexuality Unveiled: A Journey from Self-Loathing to Empowering a Global Community

How #1 International Bestselling Author Sandra Bellamy Made A CRAZY Amount Of Global Impacts In 2023

There is a saying, “The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.” — Steve Jobs

Call me CRAZY, but I might just have made a CRAZY amount of global impacts in 2023, especially for someone who has 2 hidden disabilities – one being GAD – Generalised Anxiety Disorder – so it’s quite a mental workout to be able to push through my own fears and personal boundaries, to be able to accomplish all the things I did last year – especially to help fulfil my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

Last year I said yes to me:

Yes, to investing in myself with bLU Talks speaker training programs – one has author training too.

Yes, to being more productive and procrastinating less.

Yes, to taking more bold and courageous action – in spite of what others may think.

Yes, to being more of my true authentic self.

Yes, to sticking up for myself

Yes, to believing in myself more.

Yes, to being way out of my comfort zone.

Yes, to new opportunities.

Yes, to doing things I had never tried before.

And how my life has changed as a result, has been phenomenal.

So now I want to share with you those ultra big achievements I’ve made, that created a global impact in 2023.

Biggest achievement in 2023 – I was on James Miller Lifeology Radio show with over 3 million listeners per episode – That’s 3 million people hearing about my life as an asexual person!

I didn’t pay to be on James’s show, I won the opportunity to pitch to him in front of a live virtual audience at one of bLU Talks Expert’s Bootcamps, and I took advantage of that opportunity and got on his show after going through an official longer-than-expected application process. It was well worth all of the time and effort I spent doing that.

The Life of an Asexual Person | Sandra Bellamy By James Miller Lifeology Interview ORIGINAL VERSION watch here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=hfNPbWNu-bzW51ahc

Listen to it on Apple Podcasts here:

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/james-miller-lifeology-radio/id1190946242?i=1000627920736

James Miller, is the CEO of James Miller | LIFEOLOGY®, LLC and The Executive Producer and Host of LIFEOLOGY® Radio Nationally Broadcast and Syndicated Radio Show www.JamesMillerLifeology.com

(See my show page on James’s site here https://www.jamesmillerlifeology.com/the-life-of-an-asexual-person/)

This was broadcast on/across:

National Radio Stations

• 18 AM/FM terrestrial radio stations: Tuesday at 1:30 pm, Friday at 9:30 am, and Saturday at 12:30 pm
  • Washington, DC: FM – 96.7
  • Tampa, FL: AM – 1630, FM – 92.1
  • Las Vegas, NV: AM – 1520, FM – 99.5
  • Macon, GA: AM – 810, FM – 87.9
  • Lancaster, PA: AM – 1640, FM – 102.1
  • Boulder, CO: FM – 96.3
  • Milwaukee, WI: FM – 90.3
  • Pittsburgh, PA: FM – 94.7
  • Long Beach, CA: FM – 101.5
  • New Port Richey, FL: FM – 88.3
  • The Villages, FL: FM – 97.7
  • Colorado Springs, CO: FM – 87.9
  • Jacksonville, FL: FM – 90.3
  • Rocky Hill, NC: FM – 89.5

Streaming Radio

• RadioPublic
• PodParadise.com
• Player.FM
• Overcast FM
• Radio Vybe
• AM/FM247
• Amazon Alexa/Echo

Archived on Podcasting Platforms

• iTunes
• Spotify
• Pandora
• iHeart Radio
• Google Play
• Blubrry
• TuneIn
• Spreaker
• Pocket Casts
• Podbean
• Mixcloud
• Deezer
• Audible
• JioSaavn
• Podcast Index
• Gaana
• Amazon Music
• on all other podcasting platforms

Digitally (Under AMFM247 Channel)

• Roku
• WorldTV
• Dish TV
• Youtube
• Google TV
• Other Network Stations Inclusion

Check it out on my own channel here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=KjA4tdA-wNKxvpuH and be sure to give it a thumbs up if you like it.

You can also see my reaction video here https://www.youtube.com/live/0GP791VeTeA?si=smftPk6kZ_ly9w5m or by watching the video below:

The Life And Perspectives Of An Asexual 

Listen to it on my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel here https://youtu.be/5XMtAwHT4aI?si=8JRkVr0XJ4jPOfSL

I was so happy to be featured on Shanna Vavra’s Sense of Soul Podcast, which is a spirituality podcast, talking about asexuality and my spiritual life mission regarding that. She’s had over a million downloads of her show episodes, so it’s in the top % of listened to podcasts – which is great coverage for asexuality.

Shanna Vavra is a very attentive and inclusive interviewer, interviewing me about The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual – on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sense-of-soul/id1468725665?i=1000630467751

It’s also on Shanna’s own Sense of Soul Podcast YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/s1X6oN-q2J4?si=AEe1Vr2PRfFv6GkR

I spoke about asexuality and self-reinvention at Oxford University for bLU Talks

ASEXUAL SANDRA BELLAMY QUIRKY BOOKS BESTSELLING AUTHOR AND PUBLISHER SPEAKS AT OXFORD UNIVERSITY FOR BLU TALKS – BEHIND THE SCENES HIGHLIGHTS

Watch the playlist of clips from my talk in the video below – or click this link https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6sdIToxIi4eaCyEfXpEj-s0dBqcJ4aaA&si=ojSONXiI7sqYBRMg

My self-reinvention talk included my personal transformational life journey:

From being a shy, lonely, deeply unhappy, introverted girl,

Who was a suicidal depressed mess,

With no purpose…

Averse to touch by strangers…

With huge social anxiety,

And I could only see people on a one-to-one basis…

To being extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative –

Discovering my life purpose… (and living it.)

Being all over social media…

….organising and hosting asexual meetups…

Being able to hug strangers… 

Being able to talk about sex and masturbation, as easily as drinking water… to help asexuals.

Want to know how I achieved all of these transformations and more?

.. And learn the 9 steps to reinventing yourself, to whatever best future version of yourself you want to become?

#1 International Bestselling Author Sandra Bellamy

My talk was based on my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, of Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier is That Speaker Guy, Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder, Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS…

Which became a number 1 international bestseller. See screenshots below:

See my name, Sandra Bellamy, in the list below of co-authors:

So now I can say I’m a #1 International Best Selling Author.  Get the blueprint to changing your self and your life and become who you truly want to be by buying this book here https://amzn.to/4aO9OWk

Best-Selling Asexual Perspectives Book – Best-Selling Publisher Quirky Books – Speciality Asexuality

Before that, on 08/08/2023, I also became a bestselling author with Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book. And because I publish my own books under my own book publishing imprint of Quirky Books, I became a bestselling publisher too – double WOW! Get your copy here https://amzn.to/48nOe9w

And I wrote Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life – book, which I am currently proofreading again along with my best friend, who fortunately for me, works in editorial as a job, so he is highly skilled and knowledgable to help me. Although with a diary-style book, it’s meant to have minimal editing done to it, be a casual conversational tone and use colloquial language, so I have to be careful not to overdo the editing, and to keep it very conversational, but I still want to make some final corrections.

This book is very different to any other book I’ve written before as it’s a diary-style book of my inner most thoughts, feelings and emotions, during a difficult hyper-romantic time and all the life lessons I learnt along the way. It’s written very informally. It’s like a behind-the-scenes of my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel – which is also a behind-the-scenes of my life, where I share my own asexual life journey, in order to help you in yours. Talking about things such as dating, relationships, self-love and self-care – which this book also focuses on helping you with. So it’s like an extension of my channel content to help you in your own asexual life – more details on this to follow and it will be at a low launch price when it’s first released, so keep your eyes on my next blog posts for updates about that, so you don’t miss out.

I was also interviewed by bLU Talks about asexuality on an episode of bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show which was recorded live – and co-hosted that show once too.

Watch Asexuality Interview with Sandra Bellamy ON Blu Talks Amplify your message show, by watching the video below or click this link https://youtu.be/KCdM9jLUbhU?si=I7q_ARrb8ija1U5v

If you want to see the episode I co-hosted, you can see it here https://www.youtube.com/live/yI-PKfV0Rw8?si=GYpmgczR6MI_G_QL

And I was the first keynote speaker at the Be And Become Summit on 14th Of December.

Here is my full talk in case you missed it:

And here is the full playlist with some of the highlights of that talk:

on 31st of December 2023, I was notified that I’ve been recognised among the 2023 – Iconic 100 Impact Ignitors Worldwide ICONS for making a difference. (Thanks to all you who voted for me into this 100 list of icons.)

Join me in celebrating positive change asexualiseofficial with International Icon Inc. ( @YouAreTheIconOrg ) and the Iconic Speakers Network ( @IconicSpeakersNetwork), led by the founder Antoinette Logan ( @AskMsLogan ).

See the full list of IMPACT IGNITORS here: https://bit.ly/Iconic100ImpactIgnitorOf2023List (I’m included in the special mentions – People who have made special contributions to positive change.)

In the video below, I show you my name as a special mention on this list.

And this list has just been featured in The Chicago Journal, here https://thechicagojournal.com/iconic-100-impact-igniters-of-2023-cheers-to-global-changemakers/

And last year I was interviewed by Shilpi Gupta Shah, PR & Digital Marketing Associate at Fuzia | Fuzia Talent, and she gave me a mention in one of her recent new year 2024 LinkedIn posts, as one of the remarkable women leaders she interviewed, which felt fabulous.

And the article from that interview has now just gone live on Humans Of Fuzia website, here https://www.humansoffuzia.com/asexuality-unveiled-a-journey-from-self-loathing-to-empowering-a-global-community/ notice that Fuzia have a community of over 5 Million women worldwide – so my global impact continues in 2024.

So please, do yourself a favour, never, ever, give up on your dreams and keep taking action to achieve each one of those. Your future self will thank you for it.

And make sure 2024, is the year you say, “I do” to you:

With much love 

As always, stay quirky and write soon.

Sandra xx

The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual – With Asexual Perspectives Best Selling Author

I’m so happy to be featured on Shanna Vavra’s Sense of Soul Podcast, which is a spirituality podcast, talking about asexuality and my spiritual life mission regarding that @senseofsoulpodcast

Shanna Vavra is a very attentive and inclusive interviewer, interviewing me about The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual – on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sense-of-soul/id1468725665?i=1000630467751

It’s also on Shanna’s own Sense of Soul Podcast YouTube channel here: 

And my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel here: 

In this interview me and Shanna:

* Discuss my personal journey from thinking I’m heterosexual for years and having sex, to discovering I’m asexual and I’ve now been sex free for years.
* Clarify what it means to be asexual; including different types of asexuals – grey asexual and pure asexual, and different types of relationships people might have if you’re asexual.
* Explore topics covered in my up and coming book: Asexual Guide To Sex and why I chose to write this.
* Why it’s so important to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe.
* Bust through myths of asexuality.
* And so much more….

Listen and download the episode here: on ITunes here https://lnkd.in/eRTtJ_iK

Watch a clip here:

GET ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES 47 ASEXUAL STORIES BOOK HERE https://amzn.to/3PFIrUO

Find Shanna’s website here: https://www.mysenseofsoul.com/

And connect with her on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/senseofsoulsos/

Find her on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/SenseofSoulSOS

As always, write soon.

Sandra xx

I Wasn’t Who I Thought I Was – Lifeology Radio Asexual Life Interview With Sandra Bellamy

“Have you ever woke up thinking you’re a certain thing, only to realise you’re not? That’s what happened to today’s guest Sandra Bellamy. In 2014, Sandra discovered she wasn’t heterosexual, she’s asexual, and that societal conditioning had sold her a lie. During her transformational journey, Sandra’s overcome a lot of fears to face the world as her fearless asexual self and now she offers help and hope to thousands of asexuals around the globe.”

On Tuesday 12th Sept 2023, James Miller Interviewed me on his Lifeology Radio show. This is a dream come true for me, to reach such a huge global audience.

Listen to The Life of an Asexual Person on YouTube in this video below:

Listen to it on Apple Podcasts here:

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/james-miller-lifeology-radio/id1190946242?i=1000627920736

James Miller, is the CEO of James Miller | LIFEOLOGY®, LLC and The Executive Producer and Host of LIFEOLOGY® Radio Nationally Broadcast and Syndicated Radio Show www.JamesMillerLifeology.com

(See my show page on James’s site here https://www.jamesmillerlifeology.com/the-life-of-an-asexual-person/)

Which is broadcast on/across:

National Radio Stations

• 18 AM/FM terrestrial radio stations: Tuesday at 1:30 pm, Friday at 9:30 am, and Saturday at 12:30 pm
  • Washington, DC: FM – 96.7
  • Tampa, FL: AM – 1630, FM – 92.1
  • Las Vegas, NV: AM – 1520, FM – 99.5
  • Macon, GA: AM – 810, FM – 87.9
  • Lancaster, PA: AM – 1640, FM – 102.1
  • Boulder, CO: FM – 96.3
  • Milwaukee, WI: FM – 90.3
  • Pittsburgh, PA: FM – 94.7
  • Long Beach, CA: FM – 101.5
  • New Port Richey, FL: FM – 88.3
  • The Villages, FL: FM – 97.7
  • Colorado Springs, CO: FM – 87.9
  • Jacksonville, FL: FM – 90.3
  • Rocky Hill, NC: FM – 89.5

Streaming Radio

• RadioPublic
• PodParadise.com
• Player.FM
• Overcast FM
• Radio Vybe
• AM/FM247
• Amazon Alexa/Echo

Archived on Podcasting Platforms

• iTunes
• Spotify
• Pandora
• iHeart Radio
• Google Play
• Blubrry
• TuneIn
• Spreaker
• Pocket Casts
• Podbean
• Mixcloud
• Deezer
• Audible
• JioSaavn
• Podcast Index
• Gaana
• Amazon Music
• on all other podcasting platforms

Digitally (Under AMFM247 Channel)

• Roku
• WorldTV
• Dish TV
• Youtube
• Google TV
• Other Network Stations Inclusion

So far James estimates that the day my interview episode aired, it had an average of 3 million people who heard it on the radio, 200k streaming listeners and podcast/video about 20k – Final numbers will be available at the end of the month. This really helps me to fulfil my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

Check it out on my own channel here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=KjA4tdA-wNKxvpuH and be sure to give it a thumbs up if you like it.

You can also see my reaction video here https://www.youtube.com/live/0GP791VeTeA?si=smftPk6kZ_ly9w5m or by watching the video below:

As always, write soon, and keep going for your dreams.

Sandra xx

Amplify Your Message bLU Talks Co-host Quirky Books Author Sandra Bellamy

On August 10th 2023, I was honoured to be a co-presenter on bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show, with Laura Lake and some amazing guests, including:

Ilona Seddik
Katherine Loranger
Debora Hollick

IIona is an Instagram marketing specialist, whose training I have attended before – so if you’re stuck on what to do with Instagram to amplify your message, be sure to watch the video below or here https://lnkd.in/eW5dNKTA

I got to speak a bit about asexuality when Laura introduced me as a co-host at the start of our live streamed interviews.

Watch the video below to hear what I had to say to amplify what it means to be asexual in this highly sexualised world.

On Friday 23rd June 2023, I had the pleasure of being a guest on bLU Talks Amplify Your Message, talking about asexuality, what it is, and dispelling the myth that asexuality is a choice – it’s not.

I explain how asexuality has literally transformed my life for the better, forever.  This video is on the bLU Talks channel.

Please give it a watch below or here https://www.youtube.com/live/P0WYUCcWQTc?feature=share My talk starts at 2:14:32.

As always, write soon

Sandra xx

On 8th Of August 2023 I Became A Best Selling Author – Dream Come True Since 2010

On 08/08/2023 a long-awaited dream came true – I became a Best Selling Author – of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life, and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book – which was published in Kindle format in January 2017, and the paperback version was published in July 2017.

It’s been my dream since starting this blog in 2010, to have my own book publishing imprint called Quirky Books and to be a best selling author – I’m pleased to say I’ve now achieved both.

Never give up on your dreams.

On 08/08/2023 – Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life, and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book hit the Best Seller list in Human Sexuality – #51. This was an incredible achievement, not just for me personally, but because it’s a highly competitive category to be a best seller in, as most books in it, are traditional-style sex books, so it’s a huge achievement for an asexual book.

It took me 7 years to be a registered publisher in the UK under Quirky Books (2017) – a dream come true.

And now it’s taken 6 years for Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, under that imprint, to be a best seller – as I published that also in 2017 and now it’s 2023. So 6 years later I got my dream.

Yesterday I was updating my social media – and I shared this achievement on my LinkedIn profile…

And my friend saw it and posted this lovely post and kind words on LinkedIn about my Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories book – they recommended it as a #MustRead

It’s lovely when someone understands the true purpose and meaning behind your literacy work.
Get your copy here https://amzn.to/44j4rdq

See the post here

So however long it takes you…

However many sleepless nights…

Late nights…

However many years…

This is YOUR own journey and YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS.

I’m so thankful to have achieved these 2 dreams of mine.

With much love to you, I’m praying you achieve your dreams too…

What’s next for me??? Well 2 of my biggest dreams I have achieved – and I want to relish that and soak it into the cells of my body to feel the euphoria of a well deserved moment, because too many of us dwell on the negative for so long, that we forget to feel the fun, the laughter. the joy, and the achievements and progress we make – we must bathe in this bliss just as much…

Close your eyes… and feel that moment of bliss over and over again… in your heart and soul. To attract more good things to come your way.

In October I’m going to be speaking live at Oxford University for bLU Talks so I have a lot of prep to do for that, and I’m co-authoring a bLU Talks books, the Foreword of which is by Ken Honda from Mind Valley, and I just revised the edits of my chapter a couple of days ago for that. I also have a virtual stage talk I will be doing for them in the future and I’ve completed the first stage of an initial application to a TedX event next year – the organiser will have a Zoom call with me in January / February 2024, to explain how the process works from that initial application.

So I still have lots to achieve… and tons more to do.

Plus I’m still finishing the final edits of my Asexual Guide To Sex book – a book I’ve been working on for over 4 years now.

AND…. All of this goes towards achieving my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

I’ve also been given 2 High Five rewards #youtubehighfive by YouTube for my original channel https://www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV which only has 172 subs as that was my first channel which also goes with this blog and my book publishing imprint, although it’s no longer my main channel so I haven’t paid much attention to it until I got my first reward – but it feels amazing that my hard work is finally being recognised by YouTube, and I’ve been interviewed on top rated podcasts – more on that in later articles when those interviews go live.

I got 2 cinema codes from YouTube for FREE VUE cinema tickets. One I used to see Gran Turismo – amazing movie and the second one I will be redeeming before 2nd Of September.

Feels good to have been making so much progress this year.

Stay quirky you always…

And write soon…

Sandra xx

bLU Talks Asexual Author Sandra Bellamy Guest Interview About Asexuality

Listen to my talk about asexuality on bLU Talks by clicking through the link below, My talk starts at 2:14:32.

bLU Talks is an inspiring and educational channel and brand, focused on helping people to get ahead in their business and life and connecting souls from all over the universe to share their message to the world and amplify it, in order to spread awareness about a range of topics that matter and make a difference to people’s lives. b = business L = Life U = Universe. (And yes, they use a lower case b.)

In fact, in February 2023, I attended their Experts Bootcamp and I joined the Founder Corey Poirier’s 3 public speaking programmes: Authorpreneurship and Speakerpreneurship Masterclass, The Speaking Program 2023 and the TedX Masterclass 2023. Corey Poirier is a multiple-time TEDx, and sought-after Keynote, Speaker. As well as a multiple-time number 1 best selling Author. I’m going to be a speaker for bLU Talks on 23rd October 2023 at Oxford University and I’m going to be in one of their soon to be published compilation bLU Talks books featuring Ken Honda from Mind Valley. Investing in myself with these programmes was not cheap, in fact if my parents knew how much it was – even though I’m an adult, they would probably be horrified, but it is worth every penny for all the ongoing networking and training we get each month.

Quirky Books is my own book publishing imprint and I’m known to specialise in asexuality, which is a sexual orientation that is the lack of asexual attraction.

On Friday 23rd June 2023, I had the pleasure of being a guest on bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show, talking about asexuality, what it is, and dispelling the myth that asexuality is a choice – it’s not.

I share my own asexual life journey and about my specific asexuality mission; I explain how some asexuals actually feel left out of the LGBT+ community because others there who aren’t asexual, still experience sexual attraction, whereas asexuality is base on a lack of sexual attraction, and so it’s important to get it recognised as a sexual orientation in it’s own right globally too.

I explain how asexuality has literally transformed my life for the better, forever. 

This video is on the bLU Talks channel. Please give it a watch here https://www.youtube.com/live/P0WYUCcWQTc?feature=share and let me know what you think. My talk starts at 2:14:32.

Write soon

Sandra xx