International Bestseller #1 Hot New Releases – Diary Confessions of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life


#1 Hot New Releases And International Bestseller

Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual: 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life (Special Limited Time Offer in Kindle, only 99c / 99p) Get Your Copy Here – https://amzn.to/3We9uLE

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A writer’s and publisher’s dream come true, is when you see your Quirky Books book at the #1 slot both on Amazon.com and Amazon.co.uk in Hot New Releases and a bestseller in multiple categories on both Amazon.com and Amazon.co.uk, so I’m now an International Bestseller with this Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life book.

#1 New Release in Counseling & Psychology eBooks on Human Sexuality

Have you ever had a vision that came true but not in the way you thought it would? Well, that’s what happened to me…

If this were fiction, it would be unbelievable, but as it’s non-fiction, it’s truly unmissable!

Sandra Bellamy, a self-confessed hyper-romantic asexual, believes she has psychic abilities. Frustrated by her own belief in past lives and convinced she has an Indian soulmate from a past life who she’s been trying to find in this one since 2014, Sandra prays to God for him to show her, her soulmate… But all, is not as it seems… He loves tragic love stories and unhappy endings, to go with his bad boy persona. She just wanted the guy of her dreams. Little did she know the horror of her vision becoming a reality, when a chance encounter changes the trajectory of her life forever. However far their worlds seem apart, fate has drawn them together, but why?

Join Sandra, for some incredible real-life asexual adventures, with many twists and turns of fate, where asexy attraction becomes climatic kissing passion, sensuality turns into personal power, and self-love takes on a whole new meaning, as she embarks on a journey of self-discovery, uncovering some deep truths, in the form of life lessons that will ACE your life and set you free, to be your authentic self in all your naked soul glory. Where your personal pain is transformed into your personal power, as you shed societal conditioning and literally stop giving a fuck about what people think of you! If you’ve ever wanted to make your own dreams and fantasies a reality, and get your asexual needs met, Sandra shows you the way, giving a whole new meaning to love, affection, and human connection.

♥️ “This book dives deep into my mind – THE mind – of a hyper-romantic asexual, unlocking the secrets of what truly goes on in my life behind the scenes. Sharing my raw thoughts, feelings, and emotions, during some super tough moments, sad moments, funny moments, OMG moments, but never any dull moments. And all of the fantastic 78 life lessons I learn along the way, I share with you in this book, to help you in your own asexual life. My life is so far out sometimes, that even I think it sounds like fiction – when it’s actual non-fiction fact, with all the drama, the emotional ups and downs, the pains of living a hyper-romantic life, and the joys of being daring enough to make my own dreams a reality, and do things in my life that others could only dream of doing, but never have the courage to try.“ ♥️

Delve into this personal diary book, to be inspired, feel empowered, educated and entertained, in how to overcome asexual struggles, challenges and adversities, and develop a new found resilience and confidence you never knew you’re capable of, to truly ACE your life!

By the time you’ve finished reading my personal diary book, you’ll be equipped with the knowledge and know-how to:

1. Transform your pain into personal power and insights which you can learn from.

2. Overcome difficult and painful situations a lot quicker.

3. Recognise heterosexual and dating red flags.

4. Understand what heterosexual guys say, but actually mean, when what they really want is sex.

5. Understand the effects of childhood trauma, and how to recognise patterns and trauma abuse cycles, so you can stop them.

6. Have sexual pleasure in an asexual way.

7. Recognise, when it’s sensual, romantic, and aesthetic attraction, vs sexual attraction.

8. Be confident in your own body and get your own intimacy and pleasure needs met, in a way that’s right for you.

9. Get your asexual needs met without caring what others think.

10. Help you to see dating, communication, and romance blind spots. So you can sharpen your bullshit detector.

11. Dissect text messages to expose lies.

12. Change your mindset and perceptions to live your best asexual life.

Get #1 Hot New Release And International Best Seller Asexuality Book – Diary Confessions of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life before the price goes up.

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Wherever you live, it’s currently at a special low launch price from your nearest Amazon.

78 Life Lessons Ace book

Amazon.com best seller in 3 categories – Means I’m and International Bestselling Author and Publisher as I publish books under my own book publishing imprint called Quirky Books.

Diary Confessions International Best Seller Amazon.co.uk bestseller in 3 categories.

Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual With 5 Star Rating.

Shop now – and get your copy on Kindle for a Limited Time at just 99p https://amzn.to/49Nh1E or 99c  here https://amzn.to/3We9uLE

Wherever you live, it’s currently at a special low launch price from your nearest Amazon.

As always, stay quirky and write soon,

Sandra xx

P.S. If you like this book, please leave an honest written review on Amazon and share some words about what you thought of the book in order for others to make an informed purchasing decision.

How To Go From Page 2 Stage – FREE Event


Join Wendy Corner, Author, Speaker and Host of Podcast #FromPage2Stage, me and other experts, for the #FromPage2Stage Podcast Launch Party!

Are you ready to witness the extraordinary transformation of powerful ideas from their written origins to their verbal crescendo? We are incredibly excited to invite you to the Launch Party of our brand-new podcast: #FromPage2Stage!

Apr 7 at 5pm PT, 8pm ET/ Apr 8 1am BST/ 8am AWST, and east Asia/ 10am AEST/12noon NZST.

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They will be sharing a tantalizing taste of their journey #FromPage2Stage, revealing how they successfully turned their fears into a formidable force of inspiring speaking engagements, thereby expanding their message and multiplying their impact. Some of them started speaking first so we explore both sides!

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Moreover, this party is not just about listening; it’s about interconnecting with a passionate community, finding support, and embarking on your transformative adventure to elevate your authorial voice. We are creating a FB community to network and share your experiences as you grow in your confidence in sharing your message.

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How To Make Money Podcast Interviewing 6, 7, 8, And 9 Figure Entrepreneurs


Ever wanted to make money podcasting?

But… you don’t know where to start?

Do you want to forge out a career that makes you a trailblazer influencer that other influencers will gladly give up their precious time to support?

… But maybe you don’t have a clue how to be an influencer that influencers other top influencers to be interviewed?

Perhaps you’ve already got a podcast, but you’re not yet seeing any money for your efforts and you’re feeling frustrated?

Don’t worry, it’s not your fault…

If you don’t know the secrets of what the top podcasters are doing to influence 6, 7, 8 and even 9 figure entrepreneurs, to get them on their show, you won’t want to miss this!!!!

On Thursday 28th March at 7pm GMT, I’m doing a live interview on my Make Money Make Cash channel, with podcasting expert RJ Ahmed about how to make money podcast interviewing 6, 7 and 8 figure entrepreneurs like Russell Brunson from ClickFunnels.

Don’t miss this episode if:

You want to make money podcasting.

Are new to podcasting.

You want to expand your own podcast audience reach, or you’re not at the level you want to be.

And you want to make money interviewing 6, 7, 8, and 9 figure entrepreneurs.

Besides Russell Brunson, some of the entrepreneurs RJ has interview on his Interviews With Entrepreneurs include?

  • Chris Van Vliet – 4-time Emmy Award winning TV Host, Entertainment Reporter and Content Creator with more than 15 years of broadcasting experience.
  • Craig Campbell – UK based SEO expert with over 22 years of experience. He Founded Craig Campbell SEO,.
  • Troy Ericson – Owner of Copywriting. org, EmailDeliverability. com, & EmailListManagement. com.
  • Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani – Co-founder of Mindvalley, the world’s most powerful life transformation platform with an ever-growing 20 million-strong following.
  • David Meltzer – Legendary Sports Executive, Entrepreneur, and Investor. David Co-Founded Sports 1 Marketing and formerly served as CEO of the renowned Leigh (“Lee”) Steinberg Sports & Entertainment agency, which was the inspiration for the movie Jerry Maguire.
  • Bill Ottman – Co-founder and CEO of Minds. com, a decentralized social networking app with 6M+ users focused on censorship resistance, global dialogue, privacy, and creator monetization with both traditional payments and cryptocurrency. He is also the co-author of “The Censorship Effect”.
  • Jared Yellin – A parallel entrepreneur commonly known as Non-Technical co-founder who co founded 10x incubator with Grant Cardone.
  • Blake Hutchison – The CEO of Flippa.com, the world’s largest marketplace to buy & sell online businesses.
  • Dan Henry – Wall Street Journal bestselling author of Digital Millionaire Secrets, professional speaker, founder of multiple million-dollar companies including GetClients.com, the CRO and Co-Founder of CloseDeals.com,

And the list goes on…

After creating his own successful Interviews With Entrepreneurs podcast, where he interviews multiple 6, 7, 8 and even 9 figure entrepreneurs about how they became the best in their particular Niches… RJ specialises in helping other entrepreneurs, create, grow, and monetise their business using a High Ticket Show, offering DFY Podcast services.

RJ also has extensive knowledge about how to make money doing affiliate marketing and using sales funnels, so if you don’t have a clue where to start with either of those, you’re in for a treat as we dive deep into how RJ got started with both of those…

Connect with RJ:

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/interviews-with-entrepreneurs/id1525148325

RJ’s YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@RjAhmed

Facebook: facebook.com/therjahmed

FB Group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/AMHOE

Instagram: instagram.com/itsrjahmed

Make sure you click through the YouTube play button below and then click on the “Notify me” button pop-up, to be notified of the live show at 7pm GMT, when we go live. And subscribe to my channel here Make Money Make Cash channel,

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How Entrepreneurship Took Me From Self-loathing To Self-loving – Sandra Bellamy Empowerography Interview


So happy to be featured on Empowerography Podcast telling my personal story of how I went from self-loathing to self-loving through entrepreneurship and what inspires me most about the work I do.

If you’ve ever lacked  purpose, felt like you don’t belong, or you don’t like yourself or your life – I want you to know I’ve been in that position myself for many, many years, since childhood, and it wasn’t until 2012… that everything changed for me and I went from self-loathing to self-loving.

See what I mean by watching this video below – or clicking through this link https://youtu.be/byZgpAY5L88?si=evHmdPpnlyThSm9r

After watching the video, you may have noticed that in order to self-love, you need to:

  • Take notice of all the special qualities you have.
  • How much life experience you have.
  • How much knowledge you have gained, through work and your life.
  • How many skills you have gained, through work and your life.
  • All of which you can use to help others.
  • Which means you are useful, not useless.
  • You are worthy of being in life.
  • You matter.

So think about all of these.

Helping others gives you purpose, meaning, and helps you to heal also. Even if that’s doing some sort of volunteer work – online or offline.

Helping yourself, by seeing your own value and worth, even when you’re not helping others, is important to your own health and wellbeing. 

The more you see yourself as you truly are, not what love ones, family, so called friends and society have conditioned you to believe and think you are, the more you can be your true authentic self and love yourself. You can’t love yourself if others have manipulated and brainwashed you into believing you are this, that, and the other… and you can never change and there is something inherently wrong with you – what’s wrong with you, is the lies of unworthiness other people have fed you, and you believe, if you lack self-love. I hope you can begin to see, if you lack self-love, that you are worth loving and being in life.

Which leads me on to my next point and video clip, just because someone gives you feedback, doesn’t mean you have to take it onboard and accept it, it’s more important for you to be your authentic self, especially in business as that’s when you be become the brand and you’re no longer a commodity. Watch it here https://youtu.be/ygU6BECJOiM or click play on the video below.

There will be people who don’t understand you, who don’t agree with what you do, and will try to give you advice on how to do something in the way they would do it, but they’re not you, and if your audience has known you for a long time, they will know if you are faking things, if you’re not being your true authentic self, and they will feel it. People pleasing someone else to keep the peace when you’re own self-worth, self-esteem and self-brand is at stake, is not a wise move. It take guts to stick up to these people if they are directly in your life on a regular basis, but you have a duty of care to yourself, to do the right thing by you as well as your audience and brand. Never give up being you, because of the tight pigeon hole, someone else wants to put you in, as that suppresses and represses, who you truly are.

I also got asked during this in-depth, empowering interview, what lights me up and inspires me most about the work I do, to which I replied this… watch the video below to find out, or by clicking this link https://youtu.be/wNS3JIUFB9c


When you’re doing work you love and your mission (your why) is so BIG, you will continue to stay motivated to achieve your goals. So always go after what you love, not what other people love and want you to love. Always stay true to you.


Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts here https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/entrepreneurship-took-me-from-self-loathing-to-self/id1471709447?i=1000644155585

Or Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/4dR9miVPX519uTEbVXScc1?si=ZGvMr-aGQ_eUC_AxcJaWUw

Let me know what you think 🤔

Follow Brad Walsh – Empowerography podcast on Instagram here  https://www.instagram.com/empowerographypodcast/

As always, stay quirky and write soon.

Sandra xx


AMPLIFY YOU – ASK THE EXPERT Interview with Sandra Bellamy – How To Be Vulnerable And Brave With Your Message To Grow Your Podcast


I’m so happy and proud to be featured on the podcast – AMPLIFY YOU With Podcasting: Ask The Expert: Be Vulnerable And Brave With Your Message An Asexual Journey With Sandra Bellamy. 

AMPLIFY YOU With Podcasting is a top rated podcast all about how to podcast, grow your audience with podcasting and techniques, tips, advice and guidance on how to build your audience and grow a successful podcast. Although I don’t currently have a “traditional” podcast. I do have a successful YouTube show called Asexualise My Asexual Life which sees consistent growth, with some episodes now featured as a podcast and on YouTube Music as a podcast also. I felt honoured to talk about both my YouTubing expertise and how to grow a successful YouTube channel, by getting out of your comfort zone and share my knowledge of how I do that, so you can do the same, as well as share my personal story and YouTube community growing journey.

If you have ever thought about starting a podcast or YouTube channel – or you have one but are stuck for ideas on how to grow it and do things differently, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

Please listen to the full podcast episode on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/amplify-you-with-podcasting/id1457094134?i=1000642435797

On Google Podcasts here https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5jYXB0aXZhdGUuZm0vYW1wbGlmeW91Lw/episode/YjYwZjI4NjctZjAyMS00YjQ1LTljYWUtMGVkZjFjOTlmYzE1?

On Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/6tAjNVGQxWctBjPpITi1Fz?si=a3de7bc54e6e4b4d

An extraordinary story with a powerful message of fostering understanding and breaking down barriers.

Michelle is diving into a conversation with the remarkable Sandra Bellamy, an inspiring figure wearing multiple hats – advisor, author, speaker, coach – Sandra is best known for her YouTube channel, “Asexualise My Asexual Life.”

Sandra shares her journey as a romantic asexual, emphasising the importance of self-love and creating a safe space for her asexual community.

Get ready for an authentic and empowering conversation that transcends labels, as Sandra takes us on a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the creation of a safe haven for the asexual community.

Join us in celebrating Sandra Bellamy’s impact and commitment to creating a world where no asexual has to live in fear.

Don’t miss:

> The importance of asexual representation and visibility

> Overcoming fear of judgement

> Creating a safe space for asexual community

> Behind the scene with Sandra Bellamy in their content creation

> Sandra’s mission mission is to help asexuals recognise their orientation globally

About Sandra Bellamy:

Sandra Bellamy, aka: The Asexual Entrepreneur, Asexualise, and ACE Fibro Girl, is the Bestselling Author of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex ACElebration of Asexual Diversity; and Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, available from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Blackwell’s, Walmart and more. Asexual Perspectives is also available from Waterstones. Published under her own publishing imprint; Quirky Books. Changing lives from pain to gain, one book at a time.

She’s also contributed to #1 Best Seller the BOOK of WHY (AND HOW) featuring James Redfield: New York Times Bestselling Author, The Celestine Prophecy. Sandra has co-authored bLU Talks Vol 11 book featuring James and Ken Honda which is a #1 International Bestseller. She is a member of bLU Talks ExPeRts Bureau, and a Speaker for bLU Talks – she spoke at Oxford University for them in October 2023.

Sandra’s most famous for her reality-TV-style chat show and vlog, Asexualise My Asexual Life, which has had over half a million views. Educating people about the sexual orientation that is asexuality and inspiring and empowering asexuals to be comfortable and confident as their authentic self, using her own asexual life journey to help others with advice and guidance on love, life, dating, relationships, self-care.

She was a Speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference in London and has been featured in the Daily Mirror, Daily Star and on the Jeremy Vine Show, BBC Radio with Graham Torrington, Apple, Spotify, Channel 4, BBC TV, Femedic, bLU Talks Amplify Your Message and on a variety of podcasts including Lifeology Radio which has over 3 million listeners per episode.

Learn more about Sandra and what she does:

YouTube channel with over 708,000 views: https://www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife

New Asexualise Dating channel: https://www.youtube.com/@asexualisedating

Asexual blog and website with resources: https://www.asexualise.com

Asexual Courses at Asexualise Academy https://www.asexualiseacademy.com

Asexualise Dating https://www.asexualisedating.com

Follow on Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/asexualise

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asexualiseofficial/

LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandrabellamy/

Follow Sandra on her 3 Asexual Facebook Pages:

https://www.facebook.com/acexualise

https://www.facebook.com/AcexualiseAcademy

https://www.facebook.com/acexualisedating

ABOUT AMPLIFY YOU WITH PODCASTING

Amplify You with Podcasting is a Podcast for the Podcasting Entrepreneur with a Big Vision and a Big Message to make a Big Impact with Podcasting.

Behind the Mic episodes share stories of success from Podcasters who are making a difference in their listeners lives and an impact in their business.

To Grow Market, Manage or Monetise your podcast listen in to the Ask the Expert Interviews to give you the tools to make your podcast journey a success.

Host of Amplifyou, Michelle Abraham is an international speaker,  Podcast Producer and voted #14 of the top 50 Moms in Podcasting  in 2020 and 2021 and Entrepreneur of the Year 2021.

Michelle is the Category Director for Kids and Family for Podcast Magazine and is also the host of Blissful Parenting Podcast.

Michelle is the Founder of Amplifyou. Kevin Harrington, the original shark on the hit TV Show Shark tank says Amplifyou is North Americas top Podcast Management Company.

Michelle and her team have launched well over 300 podcasts in the last few years and her team manages about 70 shows on a weekly basis.

Michelle began her work in the Podcast Industry in 2012 after becoming a new mom and falling in love with Podcasting as a loyal listener!

Something unique about Michelle is that she doesn’t just speak about a freedom lifestyle she lives it! Her and her family live off the grid on the boat access side of a lake you’ll find Michelle driving her kids to the school bus by boat or jet ski all while running a 100% online multi 6 figure business!

How to stop believing in lies – so you can achieve all your dreams!


What would you do if you discovered that most of what you believe about yourself is a lie?

Please join me live, TODAY, with my special guest, Joe Vitale’s Zero Limits Star Lisa Friedman Schermerhorn TODAY (5th of February 2024) at 2pm EST, 7pm GMT, on my Make Money Make Cash channel here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vTi5uIBqdI

As we discuss limiting beliefs and the lies we tell ourselves which hold us back from who we are truly born to be and that stop us achieving all our wildest dreams.

Check out Lisa’s best-seller book – In Every Belief In A Lie – here https://amzn.to/3w60QEg

And watch this insightful and riveting interview on YouTube live, today here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vTi5uIBqdI

Or on Facebook here https://www.facebook.com/events/762526619106767

Or on LinkedIn here https://www.linkedin.com/…/stopbelievinginlies…/theater/

Sandra Bellamy interviews Transformational Mindset Coach Lisa Schermerhorn, (who stars in Joe Vitale’s new movie called Zero Limits), about how to change your mindset, to stop believing the lies you’ve been told that are holding you back from living the life of your dreams, so you can make money doing what you truly love.

Change Your Mindset – Stop Believing In Lies – Make Money Doing What You Love With Lisa Schermerhorn.

As a Certified Hypnotherapist and Master Practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Lisa helps entrepreneurs and high performers from where they are to where they want to be much faster than conventional coaches. Lisa is also trained as a Why Coach, helping people discover their Why, based on Simon Sinek’s, “Know Your Why”. Lisa not only helps individuals discover their Why, but she also helps people discover the Why of their business and how to use it in their branding.

Don’t miss this episode if you’re struggling with your mindset and it’s impacting your life and business, if you’re battling low self-worth, limiting beliefs, or you’re stuck not understanding your why and you want to free yourself from yourself, to live the life of your dreams.

Lisa has over 20 years of experience as a transformational leader. She is the author of the bestselling book, “In Every Belief is a Lie” and an expert in the fields of human behaviour, leadership and personal development.  She is an award-winning speaker and has spoken at Harvard and Columbia University as a featured bLU Talks speaker. She also trained in the “Winners Mindset” with Bob Reese, the former head trainer for the NY Jets and helped a professional golfer win Golfer of the Year!

Lisa was V.P. of Business Development for an innovative start-up company using virtual reality to help clients with pain reduction, memory loss and stress reduction.

Go to Lisa’s website here https://lisaschermerhorncoaching.com/

Follow Lisa on YouTube https://youtube.com/@lisaschermerhorncoaching?si=Dqsior4ShCdUMinS

From Self-Loathing To Empowering A Global Community – Humans Of Fuzia Interview With Sandra Bellamy


Thrilled to be featured on Humans of Fuzia, who approached me for an interview, sharing my very personal life story from self-loathing to empowering a global (asexual) community. Check out the article here https://www.humansoffuzia.com/asexuality-unveiled-a-journey-from-self-loathing-to-empowering-a-global-community/

Humans of Fuzia are on a mission with a particular focus of inspiring and empowering their community of over 5 Million+ Women.

Fuzia began with a dream of empowering women and valuing art which goes unvalued. Striving for a better world and hopes of empowering creativity since November 2015, it today is a global and independent online space for every individual who believes in the idea of equal opportunities, women’s rights and women’s empowerment.

What makes Fuzia unique is its belief in the ability of women who are yet to be successful and the idea that the staircase to their success is their happiness in what they like to do. We have over the years, built a solid global community that nurtures the creative abilities of young women- leaders of tomorrow, through the Fu-zion of culture and ideas.

The ‘Superpower’ of Fuzia is the unshakable vow to achieve empowered representations of women, with the possible innovation of providing them with a platform to evolve from wherever they are, whatever their talent is and how ever they wish to pursue it.

I’m so proud to be featured in an article on Humans Of Fuzia website: Asexuality Unveiled: From self-loathing to empowering a global community, and to be able to inspire millions of women, that they can triumph over personal hardships and regain control over their lives to be a leader, and pave the way for a better future, not just for themselves but for others too.

In this article interview, I had to answer questions that were both personal and professional.

Which included:

What was my life like growing up?

What is my initiative and how is it helpful for people?

What was my experience of the Covid-19 pandemic?

What has been the response to my venture? 

How has my life changed since I started my venture?

Who is my support system.

And what change I would like to see in the world, this was my answer:

“I would like the world to accept asexuality and that there are some people who genuinely don’t like, want, or need sex. So we can help prevent sexual abuse situations and make dating and relationships a better experience for all.

And my motivational message:

Always remember, that both personally and professionally, you can achieve great things, be determined, never give up, and always know that your current circumstances don’t dictate your future.

Please give this article a 5 minute read, here https://www.humansoffuzia.com/asexuality-unveiled-a-journey-from-self-loathing-to-empowering-a-global-community/

Stay quirky and write soon,

Sandra xx

How #1 International Bestselling Author Sandra Bellamy Made A CRAZY Amount Of Global Impacts In 2023


There is a saying, “The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.” — Steve Jobs

Call me CRAZY, but I might just have made a CRAZY amount of global impacts in 2023, especially for someone who has 2 hidden disabilities – one being GAD – Generalised Anxiety Disorder – so it’s quite a mental workout to be able to push through my own fears and personal boundaries, to be able to accomplish all the things I did last year – especially to help fulfil my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

Last year I said yes to me:

Yes, to investing in myself with bLU Talks speaker training programs – one has author training too.

Yes, to being more productive and procrastinating less.

Yes, to taking more bold and courageous action – in spite of what others may think.

Yes, to being more of my true authentic self.

Yes, to sticking up for myself

Yes, to believing in myself more.

Yes, to being way out of my comfort zone.

Yes, to new opportunities.

Yes, to doing things I had never tried before.

And how my life has changed as a result, has been phenomenal.

Say I do to you

So now I want to share with you those ultra big achievements I’ve made, that created a global impact in 2023.

Biggest achievement in 2023 – I was on James Miller Lifeology Radio show with over 3 million listeners per episode – That’s 3 million people hearing about my life as an asexual person!

I didn’t pay to be on James’s show, I won the opportunity to pitch to him in front of a live virtual audience at one of bLU Talks Expert’s Bootcamps, and I took advantage of that opportunity and got on his show after going through an official longer-than-expected application process. It was well worth all of the time and effort I spent doing that.

The Life of an Asexual Person | Sandra Bellamy By James Miller Lifeology Interview ORIGINAL VERSION watch here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=hfNPbWNu-bzW51ahc

James Miller interviews Sandra Bellamy

Listen to it on Apple Podcasts here:

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James Milleris the CEO of James Miller | LIFEOLOGY®, LLC and The Executive Producer and Host of LIFEOLOGY® Radio Nationally Broadcast and Syndicated Radio Show www.JamesMillerLifeology.com

(See my show page on James’s site here https://www.jamesmillerlifeology.com/the-life-of-an-asexual-person/)

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    • Milwaukee, WI: FM – 90.3
    • Pittsburgh, PA: FM – 94.7
    • Long Beach, CA: FM – 101.5
    • New Port Richey, FL: FM – 88.3
    • The Villages, FL: FM – 97.7
    • Colorado Springs, CO: FM – 87.9
    • Jacksonville, FL: FM – 90.3
    • Rocky Hill, NC: FM – 89.5

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Check it out on my own channel here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=KjA4tdA-wNKxvpuH and be sure to give it a thumbs up if you like it.

You can also see my reaction video here https://www.youtube.com/live/0GP791VeTeA?si=smftPk6kZ_ly9w5m or by watching the video below:

The Life And Perspectives Of An Asexual 

Listen to it on my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel here https://youtu.be/5XMtAwHT4aI?si=8JRkVr0XJ4jPOfSL

Sandre Bellamy with Shanna Vavra Sense Of Soul Podcast

I was so happy to be featured on Shanna Vavra’s Sense of Soul Podcast, which is a spirituality podcast, talking about asexuality and my spiritual life mission regarding that. She’s had over a million downloads of her show episodes, so it’s in the top % of listened to podcasts – which is great coverage for asexuality.

Shanna Vavra is a very attentive and inclusive interviewer, interviewing me about The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual – on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sense-of-soul/id1468725665?i=1000630467751

It’s also on Shanna’s own Sense of Soul Podcast YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/s1X6oN-q2J4?si=AEe1Vr2PRfFv6GkR

I spoke about asexuality and self-reinvention at Oxford University for bLU Talks

Sandra-Bellamy Speaker At Oxford University
Sandra Bellamy blu Talks Oxford Uni

ASEXUAL SANDRA BELLAMY QUIRKY BOOKS BESTSELLING AUTHOR AND PUBLISHER SPEAKS AT OXFORD UNIVERSITY FOR BLU TALKS – BEHIND THE SCENES HIGHLIGHTS

Watch the playlist of clips from my talk in the video below – or click this link https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6sdIToxIi4eaCyEfXpEj-s0dBqcJ4aaA&si=ojSONXiI7sqYBRMg

My self-reinvention talk included my personal transformational life journey:

From being a shy, lonely, deeply unhappy, introverted girl,

Who was a suicidal depressed mess,

With no purpose…

Averse to touch by strangers…

With huge social anxiety,

And I could only see people on a one-to-one basis…

To being extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative –

Discovering my life purpose… (and living it.)

Being all over social media…

….organising and hosting asexual meetups…

Being able to hug strangers… 

Being able to talk about sex and masturbation, as easily as drinking water… to help asexuals.

Want to know how I achieved all of these transformations and more?

.. And learn the 9 steps to reinventing yourself, to whatever best future version of yourself you want to become?

#1 International Bestselling Author Sandra Bellamy

My talk was based on my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, of Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier is That Speaker Guy, Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder, Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS…

Which became a number 1 international bestseller. See screenshots below:

Number 1 hot new release best selling books
Number 1 Best Seller In Hypnotherapy

See my name, Sandra Bellamy, in the list below of co-authors:

So now I can say I’m a #1 International Best Selling Author.  Get the blueprint to changing your self and your life and become who you truly want to be by buying this book here https://amzn.to/4aO9OWk

Best-Selling Asexual Perspectives Book – Best-Selling Publisher Quirky Books – Speciality Asexuality

Before that, on 08/08/2023, I also became a bestselling author with Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book. And because I publish my own books under my own book publishing imprint of Quirky Books, I became a bestselling publisher too – double WOW! Get your copy here https://amzn.to/48nOe9w

Asexual Perspectives Best Seller book

And I wrote Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life – book, which I am currently proofreading again along with my best friend, who fortunately for me, works in editorial as a job, so he is highly skilled and knowledgable to help me. Although with a diary-style book, it’s meant to have minimal editing done to it, be a casual conversational tone and use colloquial language, so I have to be careful not to overdo the editing, and to keep it very conversational, but I still want to make some final corrections.

This book is very different to any other book I’ve written before as it’s a diary-style book of my inner most thoughts, feelings and emotions, during a difficult hyper-romantic time and all the life lessons I learnt along the way. It’s written very informally. It’s like a behind-the-scenes of my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel – which is also a behind-the-scenes of my life, where I share my own asexual life journey, in order to help you in yours. Talking about things such as dating, relationships, self-love and self-care – which this book also focuses on helping you with. So it’s like an extension of my channel content to help you in your own asexual life – more details on this to follow and it will be at a low launch price when it’s first released, so keep your eyes on my next blog posts for updates about that, so you don’t miss out.

789 Life Lessons To ACE Your LIFE

I was also interviewed by bLU Talks about asexuality on an episode of bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show which was recorded live – and co-hosted that show once too.

Watch Asexuality Interview with Sandra Bellamy ON Blu Talks Amplify your message show, by watching the video below or click this link https://youtu.be/KCdM9jLUbhU?si=I7q_ARrb8ija1U5v

If you want to see the episode I co-hosted, you can see it here https://www.youtube.com/live/yI-PKfV0Rw8?si=GYpmgczR6MI_G_QL

And I was the first keynote speaker at the Be And Become Summit on 14th Of December.

Sandra Bellamy Asexuality Speaker At Be And Become Summit

Here is my full talk in case you missed it:

And here is the full playlist with some of the highlights of that talk:

on 31st of December 2023, I was notified that I’ve been recognised among the 2023 – Iconic 100 Impact Ignitors Worldwide ICONS for making a difference. (Thanks to all you who voted for me into this 100 list of icons.)

Join me in celebrating positive change asexualiseofficial with International Icon Inc. ( @YouAreTheIconOrg ) and the Iconic Speakers Network ( @IconicSpeakersNetwork), led by the founder Antoinette Logan ( @AskMsLogan ).

See the full list of IMPACT IGNITORS here: https://bit.ly/Iconic100ImpactIgnitorOf2023List (I’m included in the special mentions – People who have made special contributions to positive change.)

Sandra Bellamy Special Mention Iconic 100 List
Sandra Bellamy Special Mentions Iconic 100 List

In the video below, I show you my name as a special mention on this list.

And this list has just been featured in The Chicago Journal, here https://thechicagojournal.com/iconic-100-impact-igniters-of-2023-cheers-to-global-changemakers/

And last year I was interviewed by Shilpi Gupta Shah, PR & Digital Marketing Associate at Fuzia | Fuzia Talent, and she gave me a mention in one of her recent new year 2024 LinkedIn posts, as one of the remarkable women leaders she interviewed, which felt fabulous.

Mention on LinkedIn

And the article from that interview has now just gone live on Humans Of Fuzia website, here https://www.humansoffuzia.com/asexuality-unveiled-a-journey-from-self-loathing-to-empowering-a-global-community/ notice that Fuzia have a community of over 5 Million women worldwide – so my global impact continues in 2024.

So please, do yourself a favour, never, ever, give up on your dreams and keep taking action to achieve each one of those. Your future self will thank you for it.

And make sure 2024, is the year you say, “I do” to you:

Say I do to you

With much love ❤😍

As always, stay quirky and write soon.

Sandra xx

CALLING ALL ENTREPRENEURS, BUSINESS LEADERS, AUTHORS AND CREATIVES – FREE TICKET TO BE AND BECOME VIRTUAL SUMMIT


Are you an entrepreneur, business leader, solopreneur, author – or other creative, who struggles with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, that nagging inner critic, and you get pulled away from your calling by the next shiny object?

Or maybe you’re unsure of what your true calling is, because of societal conditioning?

Do you find yourself seeking external validation, battling procrastination, saying yes to other people’s agendas, when you should be saying no to their’s and yes to yours?

If this sounds like you, the Be and Become Virtual Summit is the ideal place to be, from the comfort of your own home, on Thursday 14th and Friday 15th of December 2023 – with the event officially kicking off to a flying start at 6pm ET (Eastern Time) which is 11pm UK TIME – GMT, to help give you crystal clear clarity, direction, and focus, to live your purpose and your best life, on your own terms.

🌟 Let’s rewrite your story. Get your free ticket here – https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

The Be and Become Summit: Is a 2-day transformational journey designed exclusively for people like you. Join a powerhouse lineup of fearless speakers who’ve walked the path from self-doubt to unshakable self-empowerment. They’re ready to share their tales of resilience, growth, and the pivotal moments that turned them into the unstoppable forces they are today.

🌟 What to Expect:

🌈 Day 1: Unleash Your Inner Potential

I’ll be revealing how to reinvent yourself to become your best future self, even if you have some mental health challenges – I’ll be empowering you to get over any hurdle life throws at you, to achieve your dreams – not other people’s. I’ll be sharing my personal life story and a number of self-reinventions that transformed my life from a depressed mess with no purpose, to living on purpose, on point, and achieving my dreams.

Other incredible speakers, will be uncovering the science behind self-doubt and imposter syndrome. Giving you practical tools to silence your inner critic and finally embrace the confidence you deserve.

Learn the art of setting goals that align with your true purpose and passion, and hear from speakers who have made it their mission to inspire others through their journey.

🌻 Day 2: Empower Your Entrepreneurial Spirit

Overcome the need for external validation. Conquer procrastination and find that elusive work-life harmony. Uncover the secret to telling your story authentically and amplifying your impact. Learn how to make decisions with conviction and courage, and witness stories of transformation that will ignite the fire within you.

🚀 Turn Inspiration into Action:

The Be and Become Summit isn’t just about motivation – it’s about actionable strategies you can implement right away. Each session will leave you equipped with practical tools and insights you can apply to your journey immediately.

And that’s not all! Our summit is the gateway to your ultimate transformation – the 12-week Be and Become Coaching Program. This program is designed to help you shed limiting beliefs, heal past traumas, cultivate your dreams, and empower you to take targeted steps towards your purpose-filled life. Craft your personal self-care toolkit and track your progress with guided habit-building techniques.

🎉 Join the Movement:

Don’t let doubt hold you back any longer. It’s time to take the leap, to embrace your potential, and to create a legacy that’s truly yours. Join the Be and Become Summit and discover the untapped power within you.

Date: 14th Dec and 15th Dec 2023, 6pm ET (Eastern Time), which is 11pm GMT.

Location: Virtual, accessible from anywhere.

Ticket: FREE.

Are you ready to step into your personal empowerment journey? Register now and let’s make your dreams a reality!

Register here: https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit 

Remember, it’s not just a summit. It’s the catalyst for your transformation.

Stay quirky, write soon, and see you there.

Sandra xx

Sandra Bellamy Co-Authors A Book With James Redfield And Ken Honda Talking About How To Reinvent Yourself To Become Your Best Future Self


I’m thrilled to be a Co-Author with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier, aka: That Speaker Guy – shown in the photo with me below – who is aMultiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder, Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller – Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS – of the new BLU Talks Presents, Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11 book…

My chapter is titled – 9 Steps To Reinvent Yourself To Become Your Best Future Self – which includes my personal story of the multiple self-reinvention life transformations I’ve made, including since I discovered I’m asexual in sexual orientation in 2014, not heterosexual – which I thought I was for years. SHOCKING – I know!

If you’ve watched me on my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel over the years, you will know that today, it’s like a reality-TV-style chat show and vlog, so you will have seen some of the transformations I’ve made over the years – unfold in front of your very eyes, but do you know how I made the transformations I’ve made?

In this bLU Talks Vol 11 book, I give you the exact 9 step process that I use to reinvent myself, so you can become your best future self – over and over again, and become a happier person within yourself as a result.

Most people don’t give you the HOW so you can repeat this process for yourself… especially not just for a few dollars, they expect you to pay thousands of dollars if you want to truly transform your life – this 9 step blueprint for life is worth thousands of dollars, but instead you’re getting the whole process for just $20 USD or $20CAD, or £19.97 GBP, as well as so much other valuable help, advice and guidance, from a range or authors and experts in their respective industries, so if this is something that interests in you, please invest in yourself and get a copy of this book, here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

If you’ve been stuck wondering how you can do this for yourself, know it’s not your fault – you can’t know what no one told you, and the answer is available in this book and I’m living proof it works, time and time again. You can order your copy here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

Your future self will thank you for it.

When you think that an Individual pizza from Pizza Hut costs £19.99 here https://www.pizzahut.co.uk/restaurants/blog/the-individual and anyone in the world can get this book for $20 USD or $20CAD, or £19.97 here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/ I hope you would agree, it’s a much more valuable choice – and it’s not going to go down the toilet.

I’m not the only Author of this Business, Life, and the Universe book. You’re getting valuable insights, help and advice, from all of these awesome specialists in their respective fields, in the order they are in the book:

Foreword – By James Redfield (Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy)

On Mentorship – By Ken Honda (Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money)

Who Are You When You Are Not What the World Wants You to Be? – By Bhavya Gaur

Hope, Adaptability, and the Human Experience – By Sangeeta Bhatnagar

Consciously Co-creating The New Earth through Hulihia – By Lani Kamauu Yamasaki

Shades of Ethics: A Journey of Trust, Compassion, and Memories – By Sandy Watson

Victory not Victimhood – By Marquita Waters

Revamping Pain Relief Beyond Conventional Wisdom – By Ani Papazyan

The Asexual Entrepreneur: 9 Steps to Reinvent Yourself to Become Your Best Future Self – By Sandra Bellamy (Yes, that’s me)

Happiness in the Pause – By Laura Lake

Don’t Judge a Book by its Cover – By Shelley Rogerson

How to Create an Irresistible Offer for Your Audience and Sell More on Social Media. By Ilona Seddik

Saving Cassidy – By Tiffany Watson

Finding Equilibrium: Journey to Pharma-Free Mental Wellness – By Allison Mones

Finding Joy in the Church Courtyard: Freedom through the Pain of Childlessness – By Beth Rivelli

It’s Okay to Be Okay! – By Diane Quartly

The Art of Transformation: Grief and Growth Through Life Changes – By Sarah Willoughby

How to Shape Your Reality: The Power of Perception – By Masha Maria Pavlova

Boosting Teen Self-Esteem through Better Connection with Yourself – By Renee Sinning

The Whisper of the Soul: Unleashing the Confidence to Fulfil your Soul Purpose – By Helen Hardware

Cracking the Health Code: 3 Keys to Master Your Energy for Optimal Health – By Tiffany Flaten

Love, Loss & Gratitude – By Reena Alise

The Power of Human Connection: “Celebrating identity, culture, diversity and building purposeful partnerships” – By Shannan Stella

What Happened to Her? – By Abigail Teixeira

Healing Visibility – By Marcela Onyx

Unbreakable Spirit: A Memoir of Triumph and Transformation – By Debbie Bryan

ReWrite Reality the Way You Like It – By Carl Hunter & Amy Huentelman

Parenting Today’s Child with Human Design – By Michaela Gaffen Stone

SHIFT – By Michelle Wilson

Beyond Society’s Limits: Discovering Your Unique Path – By Tiffinnea Roberts

Awakening Inner Strength, Steps to Recovery from Toxic Partners – By Tammeron

Get your copy today, now, here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx