7 Steps To Being Successfully Single and Happy Being Single! #ICBSD


International Celebrate Being Single Day - Feb 14th!
International Celebrate Being Single Day – Feb 14th!

International Celebrate Being Single Day is just around the corner (Feb 14th), and having founded this special day for singles to celebrate being single, you may be asking yourself, just what is so great about being single. For those of you who follow me on Twitter, you may have seen my www.Twitter.com/quirkycoaching profile and thought, just what is #powerofone. Power Of One is a powerful online training and coaching programme that I am creating, to show you, just how to be single and be happy being single.

Since being predominantly single from November 5th, 2011, I began to challenge my mind about the way it thinks about being in a relationship and being single. I was in relationships with guys who were no good for me since 15 years of age – until 2011 – about 19 years of my life! With the largest period of being single in that time, just 6 months! 2 relationships I had were long term (not good for me) and lasted years. I wasn’t a happy person back then and had low self-esteem. I did not like being on my own because I felt alone and very lonely, I liked to be needed, wanted and loved, and felt I wanted someone there for me 24/7 as life would be boring on my own. I am also a very romantic person.

It is fine to want to be needed, wanted and loved – but what I have discovered is that you need to get these 3 things from yourself first and foremost; to be at one with your own soul – then you will you be happy and fulfilled as a single person and less likely to get into a relationship that is no good for you because you will not ‘need’ to be in a relationship. In fact, you may fill your own life with so much joy and happiness that being in a relationship no longer appeals to you. Either way,  you will have unleashed your power of one and be on your way to being a super successful single sensation.

Step 1. You need to take stock of your life and realise that you have a problem being single and find out why that is.

Step 2. You need to be willing to have an open mind and accept you need to change in this respect.

Step 3. If you have been in relationships for most of your life, you need to give yourself some time to yourself and vow to do all you can to stay single for a set period of time – mine was a year; so I could have time to stop ‘needing’ someone. If on the other hand you have been single all your life and would like to be in a relationship but don’t know how to go about it, then you have some work to do on yourself to ensure you can be single and be happy – as well as work to do on your dating and relationship skills. You can still enjoy dating as a single person and it is good to see what is on offer from a variety of sources, rather than thinking one person is the only choice you have!

Step 4.You need to explore and find things to build your confidence and self-esteem, as well as discover ways to help you to be happy being single. This could include learning from books, articles, training courses, magazines, blogs, videos, audio books and podcasts, or through coaching and/or being mentored.

Step 5. You need to decide what ways you learn best –  visual, auditory (listen), verbal, written, – so you can pick which learning method is best for you and implement it. If you don’t know which suits you best, try each out until you find which works best for you. Being happy to be single is a skill you need to master and maintain and you need to recognise this and accept it.

Step 6. Take massive action. You need to implement what you have learned, if you are not prepared to do this then you will stay stuck being single and unhappy – everyone has a choice regardless of their circumstances. If you have no money there is free to watch YouTube videos, blog posts and online articles to read. There is no excuse for not changing your life!

Step 7. Evaluate and monitor your progress via each learning method. If something doesn’t work, then try something else until you can honestly say you are happy being single.

If you would like the early bird offer for my new online training/coaching course when it comes out – just fill in the form below and you will also receive a free bi-monthly newsletter with information, inspiration, motivation and advice, about how to be happy being single.

How are you celebrating being single on Feb 14th – International Celebrate Being Single Day?

Please add #ICBSD to any posts and media you post online to show how proud you are to celebrate International Celebrate Being Single Day!!

What struggles do you have being single and what help would you like to overcome them?

Until next time

Stay quirky and write soon

Sandra

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Blue Yeti Pro Mic Sexy Bit Of Kit Unboxing Video – Part 1


Hi everyone, as you know I am off to London in a few hours time for the Business Revolution Success 2015, entrepreneur seminar. Below is the description taken from my www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV channel. Have a great week, if I don’t catch up with you before xx

Blue Yeti Pro Mic Sexy Bit Of Kit Unboxing Video – Part 1 ( Part 2 Coming soon – Unboxing of Auphonix Pop Filter for Blue Yeti Microphone.) In this video I unbox the Blue Yeti Pro Mic in front of you for the first time ever. This microphone is stunning and what some might call a sexy bit of kit. Watch this video to find out how to turn on this Mic and live the life of your speaking dreams. This is the video I am using for my voiceover for my Break Through The Barriers Of Redundancy To Get Back Into Work – An A-Z ‘How To’ Guide book trailer, and to record the audio part of my new digital training courses about social media, in the future for my http://www.quirkyacademy.com.

This video is part one: In this video my IPad gets knocked over at the end when I am trying to plug the cable into my Mac. As the second part is more about the unboxing of the Auphonix Pop Filter for Blue Yeti Microphone, I decide to split the video into two parts. Watch Part 2, coming to a screen near you soon, to find out more.

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Andy Harrington Stand and Deliver – behind the scenes with Sandra Bellamy


I have lots of videos to share with you and I am a bit behind; this is the second video in my Andy Harrington’s Stand and Deliver Speaker Training series. It is short and sweet, and a mix of 4 shorter videos together. It is ideal for those of you who love reading ‘How to’ Style books.

Here is my write up about the video from my http://www.youtube.com/user/quirkybooksTV channel – Check out my new channel header and let me know what you think??

Andy Harrington Stand and Deliver Speaker Training, behind the scenes with Sandra Bellamy from Quirky Books. Sandra Bellamy gives you insight into what she learned from Public Speaking Expert Andy Harrington’s, Passion into Profit book, while networking with other entrepreneurs and business people at Andy Harrington’s Stand and Deliver Speaker Training launch. See guests, mingle with the crowd and feel the excitement!

Write soon and keep embracing your Quirky – Sandra

Halloween Spooktacular


Sandra Bellamy Spooktacular
Sandra Bellamy is ready for a Spooktacular Halloween
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Sandra Bellamy Ready to Halloween Party
Sandra Bellamy Halloween Party
Sandra Bellamy – Frightful!
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Sandra Bellamy – Spooky! Very spooky!
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Sandra Bellamy and friend Debbie at the Halloween party – Where’s my nose gone?
Halloween Casper
Halloween Casper
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Check out the Skull Wallpaper!
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Sandra Bellamy – Looking smiley – not so spooky!

After lots of piggie perils for the last 5 weeks, thankfully Snow is recovering nicely, and Daisy’s lumps are small and not anything to worry about at the moment.

That meant, when my friend invited me to a Halloween party, I jumped at the chance.

How did you celebrate, or not celebrate, Halloween?

Just to announce some fantastic news, I am teaching Blogging for Business Fast Track Masterclasses at the Phoenix Centre in Exeter, on Wednesday 14th of January 2015, and Wednesday 11th of February 2015. Although you are already blogging, you may know some friends who have their own business and want to have a blog up and running in a day, with help on how to grow their community. For more details see my new page: blog-training-for-business-fast-track-masterclass-phone-now-for-your-free-20-minute-consultation

Keep embracing your quirky and write soon.

Sandra

Calling all bloggers – A great opportunity for you – facebook.com/BlogtrainerUK


Hi everyone Sandra Bellamy Blog Trainer UK A huge thanks to all of you who have left comments and stuck with me through these busy times when I haven’t been able to comment or like much lately. I want to thank each and every one of you with this fantastic opportunity. I love blogging and I love bloggers. I want to show you some blogging love: I have a new Facebook page for my Blog Training business. If you have a blog, feel free to share your posts to this page. http://www.facebook.com/BlogtrainerUK The Rules Are – You need to Like this page from your personal profile so that it shows up on the Like counter, before posting your first post, and your like must not be removed. Posts must not be libel, offensive, no swearing or nudity. Any concerns and I shall remove the post. Any questions, please message me before posting, thanks.