I Love The Song All I Want For Christmas Is You! But What About The Very Damaging And Dangerous Message It Gives Out?

All I Want For Christmas Is You, is one of my very favourite Christmas songs! If you take it for the airy fairytale romantic notion, and uber catchy tune it is, it’s a great catchy little number to bop along to, but if you take an in-depth look at the words, they send a very damaging and dangerous message! Watch this video below now from my www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV channel to find out why it’s so damaging, and what you need to do to survive and thrive in this world and make getting into abusive relationships a thing of the past! Make 2020, your best year yet and set the tone now, in 2019, for the best year yet to come!

And if you want a reminder of this song, here is the 2019 edition!

Here are the lyrics xx

Here is a wonderful Christmas song, which is very beautiful for your soul! When you have fun, you attract the one! It all starts with you, and you have fun and laughter regardless!

I wish you a very Happy Christmas Day and Christmas Time, and for all your dreams to come true in 2020!

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

Always Remember Who You Are! #livehack #liveyourbestlife

When the shit hits the fans and you are feeling stressed, it can be hard to remember who you are, but it’s essential to your soul that you do remember who you are. In this video I talk about how to remember who you are, and tips and techniques you can do that will help you how to do just that, and keep yourself in a positive frame of mind.

In this video you will learn:

• The importance of gratitude and things you can be a grateful for.
• About conditioning and how to maintain being you.
• How to self-love.
• How to have maintain a positive mindset.
• And more.

Let me know what tips and techniques from this video you benefitted from the most, by writing in the comments below! I would love to read you.

Don’t forget to subscribe to my #lifehacks channel, if you haven’t already, www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

What is self-dating and why should you make self-dating a must do!!! #lifehacks #liveyourbestlife

In this video I explain why it’s essential to self-date and the benefits of self-dating. If you could do with more self-love in your life, please watch this video and subscribe for more life hacks videos on how to live your best life, be your best self, and live your purpose, at www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV Don’t forget to hit that bell icon so you get notified of every time I go live or post a new video. As always with any live stream, the sound may not be the best, but I hope the content will be so valuable to you, that you will enjoy learning more about self-dating and take a lot of self love from it.

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Lots of love

Sandra xx

 

Here’s How To Love Yourself No Matter What!

This video is one which I published years ago on my www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV channel, which compliments this blog, and I think you will find extremely helpful in loving yourself. It explains how to love yourself no matter what. You can subscribe to this channel www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV for life hacks, about how to live your best life, be your best self, and live your purpose!

My Break Through The Barriers Of Redundancy book that I mention at the end of this video, is published now, and  has a ton of life skills in it. Here is the link https://amzn.to/2WnntBv if you want to grab a copy of it, it should help improve your confidence, your self-esteem, and increase your self love and feel good factor!

Stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

The Most Amazing Person To Be Is Yourself – Inspirational Quote By Sandra Bellamy Quirky Academy

People look externally to get their life to be ‘better’; to have more money, to look a certain way; to get people to believe they are this and that. They often go along with the masses, and react like a chameleon, and lose their sense of self in the process! They end up trying to replicate so many others so often, that they barely recognise themselves and then look for external gratification and reassurance that it is okay to be them (which is actually a made up version of lots of other people) – so who is them? Do they even know? ‘Why are you trying to be someone you are not?’ I think to myself, because when your life has ended, will these superficial people you follow and try to be like even care? Stop wasting your life and start living your own! There is no better person to be than yourself, because nobody does a better job of being you, no one else knows what you like, need, and want, more than you do, so only you have the power to make yourself the happiest being alive, and you don’t need anyone else to do that for you. The best role you can possibly get in your life, is that of being your true authentic self, and all you need is you, to see your life through!

Stay your quirky self my friend, live your life for you and love yourself, every day, just as you are, your whole life through!

Until next time, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

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