What is self-dating and why should you make self-dating a must do!!! #lifehacks #liveyourbestlife

In this video I explain why it’s essential to self-date and the benefits of self-dating. If you could do with more self-love in your life, please watch this video and subscribe for more life hacks videos on how to live your best life, be your best self, and live your purpose, at www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV Don’t forget to hit that bell icon so you get notified of every time I go live or post a new video. As always with any live stream, the sound may not be the best, but I hope the content will be so valuable to you, that you will enjoy learning more about self-dating and take a lot of self love from it.

As always, stay quirky and write soon

Lots of love

Sandra xx


Happy International Celebrate Being Single Day! #ICBSD 5 Reasons To Love Being Single – check this out!

5 Reasons To Love Being Single, with Lewis Howes and Relationship Expert and International Speaker Matthew Hussey. This is an awesome video about 5 Reasons to love being single.

If you are interested in buying Lewis’s book, The School Of Greatness: A Real-World Guide to Living Bigger, Loving Deeper, and Leaving a Lasting Legacy! Here is the link https://amzn.to/2TicOCd And if you are interested in Matthew Hussey’s book, Matthew Hussey: Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve (Hardcover) here is the link, https://amzn.to/2Sipj3K 

In this video, one thing Lewis Howes talks about is self-dating. As you know, I am the Queen of self-dating, I have been doing that for years! I often take myself to the cinema, and out for a meals too, when I have the money. Every February 14th, I celebrate being single on International Celebrate Being Single Day (that’s today), by going out on a self-date, this year however, I am going with a friend to Plymouth Aquarium and out for a meal, so it will be a very different day for me to not be doing that on my own, but it will be great to have some company and celebrate being single together!

How are you celebrating being single today? When was the last time you had a self-date? Please write in the comments below, I love to read you!

Until next time, Happy International Celebrate Being Single Day, lots of love and write soon,

Sandra xx

10 Reasons Why You Should Self-date!

Sandra Bellamy - International Celebrate Being Single Day!
  Me – Sandra Bellamy, going to Bristol on a self-date for International Celebrate Being Single Day.

Self-dating is a must for all single people, and here are 10 Reasons Why It’s Important To Self-Date!

  1. It reconnects you with your soul!
  2. You can get to know yourself even better.
  3. It builds strength of character.
  4. It boosts your confidence.
  5. It improves your self-esteem.
  6. It’s an act of self-love and compassion.
  7. You can do what you want and see what you want and go where you want, without anyone saying anything negative, so you can fully enjoy the moment.
  8. You can eat as much as you want without feeling bad or guilty. And you can buy yourself gifts to make you happy.
  9. It emphasizes that you don’t need anyone else and empowers you to be more happy as a single person.
  10. You know yourself better than anyone and you can create a feeling of joy, happiness and magic, all by yourself. That is super-empowering!

As you can see from these photos, I absolutely loved my self- date for International Celebrate Being Single Day and would totally recommend self-dating at each and every available opportunity! I went to Bristol Zoo, ate 3 meals out (was a bit full, full, full!!) and saw ‘Sing’ and the ‘Batman Lego Movie’ – which was awesome, both films are great!

Butterfly in the butterfly tent at Bristol Zoo.
Butterfly in the butterfly tent at Bristol Zoo.
Blue Frog At Bristol Zoo
Blue frog at Bristol Zoo. #ICBSD
Can you spot the goby?
Can you spot the goby?
Tortoise at Bristol Zoo
Tortoise at Bristol Zoo #ICBSD