So many people spend their whole life looking for external gratification, looking for things to happen to them to make their life better, looking for that miracle, all the while not realising, that they are the miracle and they are the only one who has the power to change their life!
People look externally to get their life to be ‘better’; to have more money, to look a certain way; to get people to believe they are this and that. They often go along with the masses, and react like a chameleon, and lose their sense of self in the process! They end up trying to replicate so many others so often, that they barely recognise themselves and then look for external gratification and reassurance that it is okay to be them (which is actually a made up version of lots of other people) – so who is them? Do they even know? ‘Why are you trying to be someone you are not?’ I think to myself, because when your life has ended, will these superficial people you follow and try to be like even care? Stop wasting your life and start living your own! There is no better person to be than yourself, because nobody does a better job of being you, no one else knows what you like, need, and want, more than you do, so only you have the power to make yourself the happiest being alive, and you don’t need anyone else to do that for you. The best role you can possibly get in your life, is that of being your true authentic self, and all you need is you, to see your life through!
Stay your quirky self my friend, live your life for you and love yourself, every day, just as you are, your whole life through!
I realised I never told you what I got up to on International Celebrate Being Single Day – February 14th, after the day. Well I went to the cinema as planned and saw Black Panther. I love Superhero movies as they motivate and inspire me to keep being my own hero! (There is a quote about that in my new book, “How To Manage Fibromyalgia Like A Superhero Rockstar” and in my new “Ignite Your Happy” online course.) I got a full set of collectors cards when I went to see the movie and thought the film had a very different feel to the other Marvel films as it’s set in Africa. It was a good film, here is the trailer if you are interested in watching it.
I also bought myself those hearts and glitter love sticks, because I love life and myself! And I bought myself those inspirational quotes coasters, but I don’t use them to put my drinks on, I have them on my shelves to motivate and inspire me each day.
Whatever brings you inspiration and motivation, I hope you dose yourself up on it daily!
At the moment I am creating my first ever online training course for my all new Quirky Academy. It is called “Ignite Your Happy – How To Ignite The Happiness Within You, To Be Happy, Live Happy, And Feel Happy, Forever”. It is a comprehensive online video training course teaching you how to be happy and to sustain that happiness forever.
I used to suffer with depression for years since being a kid, but finally overcame that in 2012, and now I want to help you and others to be happy, live happy, and feel happy, forever. In the past I would never have been able to see the good in every day, but now I do. I appreciate living and being alive, and I want to live to be at least 100! What people don’t understand, is besides learning how to be happy, through various methods, techniques, and strategies, because happiness is something that can be learnt and not something you are just born with, you have to keep topped up on happiness in order to sustain it and that is what I teach you in my course. Without this, you are likely to go back into depression or feeling blue on a regular basis. Keep your eyes peeled for further details about this course and a fabulous introductory offer in the future. To add to the quote about, “Every day may not be a good day, but there’s something good in every day” – Which is what makes every day good.