Freedom From Abuse 7 Year Anniversary


Today, marks the 7 Year Anniversary of me being free from abuse, and to celebrate I went on a self-date to the cinema and saw Disney’s The Nutcracker and the Four Realms. Which was an amazing family film. It is very Christmassy, with magic, wonder, beautiful costumes and sets, and some nicely simple special effects that were great for the film. Here is the trailer:

My ex was verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive, and also physically threatening. Fortunately, he was not sexually abusive, and was good to me in that way.

In this video, which is from my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel, and was live streamed, I talk about my past experience of that abuse, and how happy I am now to be free of that abuse, and living as a single, happy person. Whatever problems you are going through, just remember, you are super strong, and you are a survivor who can turn their life around and become a thriver who triumphs over life’s adversities.

Until next time, stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx

VR GAMING – Sneaky Peek Behind The Scenes Of VR Gaming!


On the 8th of September I had an asexual meetup in my city (incidentally none of the people who came lived in my city and 2 stayed in hotels), and 4 of us went VR gaming (Virtual Reality Gaming). This is a sneaky peek behind the scenes of me doing VR Gaming, which I absolutely loved! I went on to achieve the highest score of 9300, and for someone like me, who does not do gaming, I was very proud of myself!

Have you ever done VR Gaming? What was the outcome?

Until next time, stay quirky and write soon!

Sandra xx

CREATE YOUR OWN DESTINY – ASEXUAL DOCUMENTARY STARRING SANDRA BELLAMY – FILM BY LORI NG


THE MOMENT EVERYONE HAS BEEN WAITING FOR – THE PROFESSIONAL ASEXUAL DOCUMENTARY I AM IN – CREATE YOUR OWN DESTINY! A FILM BY LORI NG

I WAS ASKED TO DO THIS FOR LORI NG AS PART OF HER DEGREE.

Enjoy!! Stay quirky

Sandra