Attention Asexuals, Allies, And Asexualise Channel Fans! Want More Asexual Help? Asexual Advice, Live Coaching, Training, A Monthly Meetup, And Inspirational Journal All In One? Join Asexualise Academy Club Now.


What you will learn when you join Asexualise Academy Club

Mental health (Coping techniques/strategies) for anxiety, depression, stress)

In 2012, I freed myself of long-term depression and learned how to self-love. Over the years I have learned a lot about how to manage my anxiety better, so I can pass this knowledge onto you. Within the Asexualise Academy Club, you will learn how to develop new habits that make you feel good and are likely to stick, as we work on our Inspirational Quotes and Questions Journal together, to foster positive emotions, develop a feel good mindset, and grow your self-awareness, so you become a happier, more vibrant and energetic version of YOU, with less emotional pain in your life, which will reduce anxiety and stress, and help alleviate depression. Get extra group coaching, training, and insights, not in the journal, to help you to be more mentally healthy.

Mindset and Motivation (How to maintain a positive mindset, stay motivated)

Most people go along in life, with no real direction. They get up, do the same routines, and wonder why nothing changes to make their life better. Change starts from within. So in order to develop a positive mindset you need to develop more self-awareness. Each of the inspirational quotes and questions in your journal, is designed to inspire you and get you to think more deeply about yourself, your life, and reflect on what changes need to be made, to have a more positive mindset and be motivated to start each new day with renewed hope, confidence, and aliveness. Change can be difficult but with the right support, which you will get in the club, you won’t have to go it alone and you have support there whenever you need it most. Together we can make a change, and be the change others want to see, we can turn our life around and be more happy.

Advice, help, and guidance, about asexuality and related asexual life topics

Feeling lost, alone, or misunderstood, in this highly sexualised world? Trying to make sense of it as your asexual self, can be really tough, but with this kind of club, it will be like we are one big family and there to support each other, rather than living with aliens speaking another language. Worry no more. With my help and your participation, you can feel relieved that I am here to help you to live your best asexual life. Ask me anything you like about asexuality and asexual life related topics in live Q and A sessions within the group. You can post your questions beforehand and I will discuss them in live streams exclusive to group members only, and you can post questions at any time.

Dating and relationship advice (Including healthy friendships and relationships)

Everyone wants sex! At least that’s the way it feels if you’re asexual! Get more personalised help with exclusive members only group coaching on how to grow, develop, maintain and sustain, healthy relationships and friendships, including with yourself – so you stop self-sabotaging. Discover how to spot narcissists and abusers, before they worm their way into your heart, and steal your soul. Learn how to have open, honest, healthy discussions, with those you care about, like and love, so you can be more of your authentic self and lead a happier life. Learn how to put boundaries in places with sexuals and how to understand sexual language more, so you don’t get pulled into things you wish you never had! Learn how to keep yourself safe and happy.

A regular monthly online asexual/ally/channel fan meetup

Are you fed up with not having enough in person support around you? Do you feel like a fish out of water and you are wiggling around clinging to dear life and gasping for air? Do you feel suffocated and repressed among people who don’t understand you, who think you are making it up, or who completely invalidate your asexual identity and feelings? If so, I know how you feel. For years I didn’t know I was asexual, but I have always known I’m different. The relief of discovering I’m asexual in March 2014, and finding an online community of people like me, with similar mindset, beliefs and thinking, was just incredible. But… I was so desperate to meet other asexuals in person, offline, rather than just through forum comments or the occasional PM, to cement my asexual identity and be around people who understood me, and I could develop and strengthen those message only relationships into something real and tangible. So in 2015, I started successfully holding in person asexual meetups and when the pandemic hit in 2020, I did a few online asexual meetups, by Skype, these were popular and asexual people from all around the world came together, but I couldn’t devote enough time to do them regularly. For club members only, we will be having an online meetup, at least once a month, around the first Sunday of the month, scheduled for an hour, using the chat room and video feature, in our exclusive members only Facebook group. This means you don’t have to log out of Facebook and into somewhere else, it’s a lot more convenient, and if we need to get together for a special occasion or just to have extra support, we can do it! This is the next best thing to an in person meetup and it will help your mental health to have regular face-to-face contact with others like you!

Time management and productivity hacks and tips, so get the most out of life

We only have one life, but if we don’t feel we are making any progress in it, we stagnate, procrastinate, and feel down in the dumps. Can you relate? So our life takes a turn for the worse and we feel like giving up. I know, I have been there, and I’m still a work in progress where procrastination is concerned. I don’t pretend to be perfect, but over the years I have learnt many things to help me manage my time better and be productive, so I will be teaching these to you. Once you can manage your time more effectively, you will automatically become more productive, feel like you are making progress, and have greater satisfaction in life by achieving more, making yourself happier in the process.

Life hacks on how to live your best life, tailored to group needs

From where to get tasty allergy free foods, to how to market your own book, make spare cash online, or how to make new friends, it’s your group, so you tell me what knowledge and information you need, and I will do my best to provide you with it. I have been studying personal and professional development since 2012, so I am a walking brain of knowledge and experience that you can utilise to help you live your best life, to love yourself more, to fulfil your goals, ambitions and dreams, and to make your difference in the world, to make it a brighter and more happier place, because you’re in it. You matter, your needs matter, so make this group your own, tell me what you need to know and I will throw in some surprise life hacks along the way, to make your asexual personal life journey, the best one ever.

 
 
 
 
When you click through the link you will be taken to PayPal to subscribe to Asexualise Academy Club monthly subscription service, for a nominal fee of just £25 a month, (that’s less than 84p day) which you can cancel at any time. Don’t have PayPal – click “Check out as guest” (see screenshot below).
 
 
 
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After you have subscribed, email me asexualise@gmail.com with your Facebook profile details, so I can invite you to join the members only club group, where all the training will take place and your FREE monthly journal with be delivered with your FREE unicorn art posters. It’s that simple! Just download your journal and join in the live streams to get extra insights and coaching/training – or watch on replay. Your email will also be added to an exclusive monthly membership newsletter, so I can send you highlights about the groups events, what’s happening, and any special offers, which you can opt out of at any time. So by giving your email you consent to that.
 

Are you asexual and struggling to cope with:

Life – Negative thoughts consume you!

Dating and relationships – everyone wants sex!

A lack of understanding and social support – with only your cat or cuddly toy for comfort?

If you answered yes to any of the above, you’re in the right place! Besides all of the benefits listed at the top of this page, which includes a monthly meetup and dating and relationship advice, included in your monthly membership programme you will also receive, EACH AND EVERY MONTH, for FREE, a new INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES AND QUESTIONS FOR THE SOUL JOURNAL, – pictured at the top of the photo, and a second non-branded/no ace references copy, (shown below it) in case you’re not out as being asexual, or in case you’re an Asexualise channel fan or ally.

 
 
This PREMIUM E-BOOK, took me over 10 hours to create and is also sold separately as a stand alone monthly subscription (more details on that below). WE WILL WORK THROUGH THIS PREMIUM E-BOOK JOURNAL TOGETHER THROUGHOUT EACH DAY OF THE MONTH, to foster positive emotions, get into feel good habits, with additional coaching and training from me on the various topics, TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE your life, in a members only private Facebook social learning group, which is where all content and freebies, will be delivered. This Inspirational Quotes And Questions For The Soul Journal, for every day of the month, has it’s own individual page and space for you to write, with an inspirational quote on it, and a question related to that quote (in some instances you’ll have more than one question) for you to think about, and carefully write your answer/s to underneath. Many pages also have cute thumbnail illustrations, and there’s a bonus 5 extra pages at the back, that you can use to expand more on some of your answers, share what’s on your mind, or just have a general doodle.

This Inspirational Journal will:

  • Help you to feel inspired and enlightened each and every day.
  • Help you to feel motivated each and every day.
  • Foster positive emotions on a daily basis.
  • Activate a more positive mindset, daily.
  • Encourage new and better habits.
  • Help make your life happier, brighter, and feel good!
  • Help you reflect on yourself and your life, to understand yourself better.
  • Give you personal insights.
  • Bring greater self-awareness to give you more personal power.
  • Help you become a better version of yourself.

 

When You Join Asexualise Academy Club Today You Get These Asexual And ACE FREE Gifts

Join Asexualise Academy Club right now, for just £25 a month, (that’s less than 84p a day), or if you prefer to pay weekly, you can do so now for just £6.75 a week, by clicking the link here Asexualise Academy Club Pay Weekly, and get the 4 FREEBIES pictured. So 2 versions of the journal (ACE and Non-ACE branded) and 2 versions of the Digital Art Posters (unframed) – pictured right, for FREE as a bonus gift! The blue I’m A Unicorn Digital Art Poster (unframed) is in case you’re not out as asexual, so is the journal with the blue wording, or in case you are an ally or Asexualise channel fan, but you may use all of them. All FREE!

Journals are in PDF format and the 2 Unicorn Digital Art Posters are 300DPI Print Quality, JPEG digital download, for you to print off yourself and frame yourself.

Click the link below to subscribe via PayPal, then email me asexualise@gmail.com (or contact me in the chat bubble on this site) with your Facebook profile URL – so copy and paste the details from your browser bar of your Facebook profile and email me with it, so I can add you to the Facebook group, where your freebies wait and you start your asexual personal growth and personal development journey and transform into a happier, more acesome version of you.

 
 

What Asexualise Channel Fans Have To Say

I’m so glad you created the Asexual Academy Club. Marissa Clifford

Why Learn From Me?

Sandra Bellamy (Aka Asexualise)

  • Over 5.5 years, helping, educating, and coaching asexuals, on my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel.
  • I was a speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference, in London, in 2018.
  • Published my first non-fiction book, Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, in 2017, and now working hard to finish writing and publishing my second, soon.
  • Over 8 years of personal and professional development experience; training with, and learning from, some of the best coaches in the world.
  • Worked as a Peer Trainer for the NHS, for the recovery of mental ill health, for over 4 years.
  • Done a basic counselling skills course.
  • Done a weekend life coaching course with The Coaching Academy. (Learned some NLP.)
  • Got a Level 4, Higher National Diploma in Information, Advice and Guidance. (IAG) Equivalent to foundation degree level.
  • Got a PTTLS Level 4 Teacher Trainer qualification.
  • Got a Level 4, Higher National Diploma in Administrative Procedures/Personal Assistant qualification. (HDAP) Equivalent to foundation degree level.
  • Done a 14 week SAFE (Stop Abuse For Everyone) course.

When you click through the link you will be taken to PayPal To subscribe to Asexualise Academy Club monthly subscription service, for a nominal fee of just £25 a month (that’s less than 84p a day), which you can cancel at any time. After you have subscribed, email me asexualise@gmail.com with your Facebook profile details, so I can invite you to join the members only club group, where all the training will take place and your monthly journal with be delivered with your FREE unicorn art posters. It’s that simple! Just download your journal and join in with the live streams, to get extra insights, coaching/training, or watch them on replay. Your email will also be added to an exclusive monthly membership newsletter, so I can send you highlights about the groups events, what’s happening, and any special offers, which you can opt out of at any time. So by giving your email you consent to that.

 

IF YOU LOVE JOURNALLING ON YOUR OWN AND YOU ONLY WANT TO RECEIVE A NEW INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES AND QUESTIONS FOR THE SOUL JOURNAL PREMIUM E-BOOK EACH MONTH FOR JUST £5, YOU CAN DO THAT

 

By Subscribing To The Asexualise Academy Inspired Journal Monthly Membership Club

Each month you will receive a new Inspirational Quotes And Questions For The Soul Journal Premium E-Book in 2 versions, the asexual branded one (with purple text on the cover) and the non-asexual branded one, (with the blue text on the cover) in case you are not out as asexual, or you or an ally or channel fan. You can choose which one to use, or both. The contents are the same inside apart from the 5 bonus blank pages at the back, which are either Asexualise Academy branded for the asexual version, or that have small thumbnail illustrations on them for the non-asexual branded version.

These will be delivered to your inbox once each month, with the email address you used to subscribe, within a monthly newsletter explaining how to get the best out of your journal, with insider secrets and help, for how to get the most amazing transformations using the journal, so an email address will be required. And the new version of the journal each month, will be with you by the 28th of each month, after you sign up. (If you sign up on the 28th or later, you will receive the latest journal so you can start journaling right away.)

If you want to use a different email for delivery of your journal, then you will need to contact me either via my chat bubble on www.asexualise.com or by email asexualise@gmail.com If you have any questions about this Asexualise Academy Inspired Journal Membership Club or Asexualise Academy club, also use those.

But Wait… There’s More… If You Want To Have A Regular Monthly ACE-Happy Chat Session Or Monthly Coaching Session, You Get Asexualise Academy Club Subscription Included In The Price – How ACETASTIC Is That?

Choose Your Favourite Subscription Plan Below, Now, To Suit Your Needs, Click Through The Link Now, To Be Taken To PayPal Secure Checkout: Don’t Have PayPal “Checkout as guest”

Plans start here:

Asexualise Academy Inspired Journal Monthly Membership

Think of this journal like your bestest friend, one you can share all your thoughts, feelings, and emotions with, without being judged, and that will comfort you in your hour of need, and make you feel better and good.

Receive a new Inspirational Quotes And Questions For The Soul Journal, Premium E-Book, for just £5 a month, in 2 versions, both the asexual branded one, and the non-asexual branded one, in case you’re not out as asexual, you’re an ally, or channel fan, every month of the year, to help keep your mind motivated, inspired, and focusing on something good. Heck, we ALL need this, with the way the world’s been lately.



Asexualise Academy Club Monthly Membership:

Everthing you get with the Inspired Journal Monthly Membership as the Inspirational Quotes And Questions Journal comes with your Asexualise Academy Club membership. Live group training/coaching in a private Facebook Group, covering all of the topics in the “what you will learn section”, with a strong focused on improving your mindset, motivation, and overall mental health and wellbeing, as we go through the Inspirational Quotes And Questions Journal For The Soul premium E-Book, together each day, with additional coaching and training from me on the various topics, Q&A, and a monthly online meetup. To help you live your best life, and be happy.


Asexualise Academy ACE-happy Monthly Membership.

Includes Asexualise Academy Club monthly membership for however long you stay subscribed. (So excellent value for money)

Each month you will receive a 1 hour one-to-one therapeutic audio or video chat session, via Skype or Facebook Messenger with someone who will listen and understand you. This is not a counselling session, but rather having someone regular to talk to, who has lived experience of mental health, so understands what you are going through, including depression in the past, and anxiety. Who will be that constant in your life, and who you can share your thoughts, feelings, and emotions with, without being judged. So whether you are a person who experiences high levels of anxiety, or you are a secret crossdresser with no one to talk to about it, I am here for you.

Sessions will be billed every 30 days and need to booked at least 2 weeks in advance to secure your time and date within those 30 days, sessions are not rolled over, so if you don’t book your session and use it within those 30 days, you lose it. You will still retain your membership to the Asexualise Academy Club though, and get all of the benefits that go with that, and access, for however long you keep up your subscription, so you will still get the group coaching from me.

As this is one-to-one, I can only take on a limited amount of ACE-happy members, once the membership hits a certain number of members, this plan will not be available any more, and an individual ACE-Happy chat session is currently £45 without the Asexualise Academy Club, or Inspirational Journal that comes with membership, Premium E-Book. So you save £15 a month by getting this plan.


Asexualise Academy Coaching Monthly Membership

Includes Asexualise Academy Club monthly membership for however long you stay subscribed. (So excellent value for money)

Each month you will receive a 1 hour one-to-one coaching session, via Skype or Facebook Messenger, this is not a counselling session, and it’s not the same as a therapeutic ACE-happy chat session, which is more about me being a friendly ear to listen to you, to understand you, and for you to experience the acceptance and validity of your identity, as you are.

A coaching session is where we work on a specific problem you are facing in your life, and we work together to help you overcome that problem so you can move forward in your life. This involves your active participation in wanting to change yourself and your life in some way. So it requires you to actively want to make a change, and admit that not everything is alright and you want to work hard to change it, because the pain you are experiencing is just too much to bear. It requires me to ask you appropriate coaching questions for you to reflect on your life to date and current circumstances in relation to problem, and this will give you new insights that will help to remedy the situation. At least 3 coaching sessions is usually always required to help you with any problem you are facing, as we explore the problem and your current situation in the first session (or more), this is known as the exploring stage, we then dive deep into what’s really going on for you, which is the discovery and insights stage in the second session (or more), and the third session is focuses on creating a plan of action, tailored to you and your specific circumstances, to move forward in your life, which is usually the 3rd session (or more). I say more because in order to really dive deep, we could easily spend a number of sessions on each of the stages, and there may be a number of smaller stages in-between, depending on how self-aware you are and how complex the problem is that you are facing. Some people have coaching for 6 months, or a year, or on-going, to hold themselves accountable for their progress and stop them from getting into bad habits again and going off track from their plan, so that change never happens. There may be homework involved and you may want to book more that one session a month for it. But with the monthly membership, you are guaranteed at least one session a month, to keep you on track.

Sessions will be billed every 30 days and need to booked at least 2 weeks in advance to secure your time and date within those 30 days, sessions are not rolled over, so if you don’t book your session and use it within those 30 days, you lose it. You will still retain your membership to the Asexualise Academy Club though, and get all of the benefits that go with that, and access, for however long you keep up your subscription, so you will still get the group coaching from me.

As this is one-to-one, I can only take on a limited amount of coaching members, once the membership hits a certain number of members, this plan will not be available any more, and an individual coaching session is currently £80 without the Asexualise Academy Club or Inspirational Journal, Premium E-Book. So you save £25 a month by getting this plan.


Unique Unicorn Art Posters

But… I only want the 2 Inspirational Unicorn Art Posters, so can I get those pleassssssseee, pretty please, with unicorn magic on top! As you asked me so nicely, for £7 you can.

Posters are 300DPI A4 Print quality. So you will just need to open the 2 Jpeg files, print them out, and frame them. They look especially acetastic printed on glossy photo paper. Click the button to the right, and have your unicorn posters flown to your inbox as a digital download for you to print off yourself, within 48 hours – the carrier pigeon is in full flight right now, and the unicorn is welcoming all of the new Asexualise Academy Club members! But will be with you soon xx

Sex Is Not What You Think! – Don’t Miss Tonight’s Live Show 7pm UK Time!


You may have thought I had disappeared off planet earth. The fact is, I was never on it in the first place, lol! I was on planet Quirky Books and that is pretty much where I have been and working a lot on my publication of my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, which is now out in both Kindle AND print, as well as writing and working with my asexual interviewees for my second book for Asexuals, which is called Asexual Guide To Sex and will literally be the best book on sex ever written and literally change your understanding of sex as you know it, it will be a MUST read book! I also haven’t been too well and had an infection that I was treated for, as well as low blood pressure. I had to have a blood test yesterday for further investigation of why I kept feeling dizzy, and I have a fear of needles and blood so that was difficult for me to do that.

This week is Asexual Awareness Week in case you didn’t already know, and on my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel I have been doing a series of videos about asexuality to raise awareness and understanding of this sexual orientation that is the lack of sexual attraction. Tonight, at 7pm UK time GMT, I have a live interview with my Asexual best friend who identifies as Non-binary. So I will be talking to them about how they first discovered they are asexual and about gender identity, particularly what is means to be non-binary! Make sure you subscribe to my channel www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife and hit the bell icon so you get notified of every time I go live or post a new video on my Asexualise channel. I try to live stream every day usually after 11pm at night and you can catch up with it afterwards if you miss an episode. Tonight’s episode is at the much earlier time of 7pm. Even if you are not asexual, supporters and those taking a genuine interest in what asexuality is, are always welcome to join in the live chat.

If you are questioning as to whether you may be asexual or you want to know more about asexuality, please watch this video!

 

If you have any questions about asexuality after watching these videos, please comment below!

I am with my Asexual best friend from today for 5 days in total and doing lots of fun stuff, including going to the Disney on Ice show on Saturday and it’s their birthday on Monday, so we are having a pre-birthday asexual group meetup on Sunday and going to Plymouth Aquarium on Monday, to see the new Terminator movie and eating in Nandos. In effect it’s 5 days of birthday fun for them and me, because I feel like it’s my birthday too! They are one of the bestest friends I have ever had in my life! So pleased I met them, they make the world a more special and precious place, just by being in it!

If you want to read more about asexuality, you can get a copy of my first book for asexuals, ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES: 47 Asexual Stories: LOVE, LIFE and SEX, ACElebration of ASEXUAL DIVERSITY, here https://amzn.to/31OkTlA

Until next time, always stay quirky and write soon.

Lots of love

Sandra xx

VR GAMING – Sneaky Peek Behind The Scenes Of VR Gaming!


On the 8th of September I had an asexual meetup in my city (incidentally none of the people who came lived in my city and 2 stayed in hotels), and 4 of us went VR gaming (Virtual Reality Gaming). This is a sneaky peek behind the scenes of me doing VR Gaming, which I absolutely loved! I went on to achieve the highest score of 9300, and for someone like me, who does not do gaming, I was very proud of myself!

Have you ever done VR Gaming? What was the outcome?

Until next time, stay quirky and write soon!

Sandra xx