Asexuality Know Better _ Asexual Perspectives Asexual Author Interview


There is nothing more exciting and rewarding for a writer/published Author, than changing people’s lives through your own written words. But being interviewed about your non-fiction author journey and book, is just the icing on the cake.

I am so proud to be featured in Loud and Out magazine, about my Asexual Perspectives book, and Author/asexual journey. Check out the article here https://loudandout.com/asexuality/?fbclid=IwAR0cvSXnB5wfFMV_n4yTUdImJBYxizPC7hLvegR3wkMew5QYLNb_-jKPXu4

Stay quirky and write soon xx

Sandra xx

Do You Want More Passion, Sensuality And Satisfaction, In Your Dating And Relationships?


Do You Want More Passion, Sensuality And Satisfaction, In Your Dating And Relationships? If yes, then Erogenousity is for you! Watch the video above to discover the 3 needs you must know, for more passion, sensuality and satisfaction, in your dating and relationships! And subscribe for more practical dating and relationship advice!

Are you fed up of being dateless? Are you confused by today’s technology and how to successfully date in today’s online world? Is your relationship stale and passionless?

If you are struggling with dating in today’s modern times, if you are fed up of feeling alone – even if you are in a relationship, or getting people who are just mismatched and no good for you, Erogenousity is for you!

Erogenousity, is all about being erogenously generous with your partner or date. It takes a holistic and practical approach to dating and relationships, and takes into account, body, mind, soul, and the senses, for ultimate match success.

Erogenousity is my new YouTube show for men and women who want more passion, sensuality and satisfaction, in their dating and relationships. Who are fed up with all the mind games and manipulation techniques being shoved down their throat by other dating and relationship coaches, and who are looking for guidance from a modern 21st century dating and relationship coach, that can show you how to have loving, healthy, happy, dating and relationships.

Many of you know that I help asexuals, those who lack sexual attraction, on my reality TV chat show for asexuals www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife and as you know, I am asexual myself. After 5 years of coaching asexuals in how to have loving, healthy, and happy, dating and relationships on that channel, and being approached by more and more sexuals for dating and relationship advice, I decided I need to help more people. I also discovered through my own asexual life journey, that although I don’t experience any sexual attraction, I still have a hugely erogenous side to my nature, especially with a guy’s upper body, and I have had sex in the past, so can help a lot more people than I’m currently helping.

So if you are struggling with dating or your current relationship, or a relationship or date, is non-existent for you, be sure to subscribe to Erogenousity here https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOSRlMro_YXCDRQuW96S7Ig 

I would love to know what you think of the new channel and this video? Please leave your comments either here, or below the video on YouTube!

I am so happy Erogenousity is now live and officially launched. Website to follow.

Until next time, stay quirky and write soon,

Sandra xx

Attention! Course Creators, Coaches, Trainers, Writers, Content Creators! Don’t Miss This Amazing Opportunity That Will Save You Hundreds Or Thousands Of Dollars And Time!


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UPDATE!!!!!! Please note, that while I still love the Invanto platform and still have courses and other digital products on there, it’s with a heavy heart that as of 13/1/2021, I am currently NOT recommending Invanto at the moment and for the foreseeable future, until, and if, Invanto survive the current economic climate that has unfortunately lead their business decline. It’s no longer a stable platform to use for newbies because their current outlook is not good. I believe in being transparent with you. I created a sales funnel using Invanto and sadly this didn’t work for technical reasons that I can’t fix myself so I missed out on launching it for Black Friday and it currently looks like this is not an issue that is going to be fixed by the Invanto team. I found out a few days ago, that other member of the platform had the same problem not long ago and they have already moved over to another platform. I have sent emails and messages to no avail. It’s a shame, because this platform it very easy for me to use and I like the platform itself, but obviously you can’t run a business like this. So it means copying my products and uploading them to another platform which takes a ton of time. I already copied 3 courses to another platform and worked hard on that but still have some more things to finish in regard to that, finishing the profile and publishing etc. Students can still access the courses they paid for on Invanto.

Right now, I am focusing on my passion and life purpose, which is writing books that change lives. This is the most consistent way I have found to make money online, and impact the world significantly. And I will continue to do so, one book at a time. So my current book I am aiming to get finished and ready for Kindle by the end of this month, is Asexual Guide To Sex. I have been working on this book since June 2019 – here is a sneaky peek of what’s to come…

In this book… revealed… THE NAKED TRUTH ABOUT SEX, The good, the bad, and the fugly (fuck ugly) truth about sex, as you have NEVER SEEN IT BEFORE, as 18 asexuals explain in great detail what happened when they first lost their virginity and what it really feels like to have sex if you are asexual.

Uncensored. Raw. Real. Authentic. What they don’t want you to know… coming soon to an Amazon store near you!

Here is my first book for asexuals, which I published in 2017, https://amzn.to/2N2JzVW

Even if you aren’t asexual, believe me, this new book I am finishing – will blow your mind!!! If you think you know everything there is to know about sex? Think again… watch this blog for further updates! And don’t forget to start saving your pennies, because you will want this book!

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You’re smart. You know investing in the right software and hosting, can make and save you hundreds or thousands of dollars, while you sleep. Whereas those $400 trainers are still wrapped up in your friend’s wardrobe, and saved for that special occasion. 

But… investing in software or hosting for your online courses or membership sites, is no easy task!

I have been stung before and I get it! Proceeding with caution has become ingrained into me through these bad experiences.

But as you and I both know, festering on past mistakes, doesn’t solve the problem. You still need somewhere to host your courses and memberships sites, and the sooner you get the right software and hosting, the sooner those mistakes become your greatest gains, as you get a better deal by going with a more reputable company. Saving yourself hundreds or thousands of hours and dollars, trying to go it alone.

We both know what a headache trying to go it alone, is:

  • You have to pay for website hosting
  • Buy a domain name/s
  • Buy WordPress themes that break, or never work in the first place
  • Use plugins that conflict with others and result in the white screen of death
  • Integrate a shopping cart and take payments
  • You have to pay an email company just to send out a thank you email
  • Pay hundreds or even thousands of dollars to hire a web developer
  • Hire someone who specialises in maintaining your e-commerce store – WooCommerce!
  • You website gets constantly hacked and you have to pay at least $300 per hack to fix it!
  • Or you waste hundreds and thousands of hours of your precious time, learning these skills for yourself
  • You lose opportunities as a result
  • You lose money
  • You feel stressed

Does this sound familiar? You want to host your courses, but you find yourself tearing your hair out with all the ‘helpful advice’ out there, claiming to be the best hosting company there is.

You’ve done your research. You’ve tried to host courses directly on WordPress, probably using a theme with a plugin like LearnPress, only to realise the theme usually breaks, the plugin conflicts with others, resulting in the dreaded white screen of death, and your WordPress site keeps getting hacked. To be honest, you don’t have any confidence in what you are using to host your courses or membership sites, and that’s why you’re not promoting them like you know you should be…

You have done your research: Thinkific. Teachable. ClickFunnels. But they are either super expensive, or with restrictions that only the much higher priced monthly plans, can resolve. They take fees out of your hard earned cash. They have limits on the number of users you can have before you have to pay more. Or they just don’t feel right.

And often, you have to host your courses on one platform, and your membership sites on another, which gets even more costly.

Or, you can only have one school, with multiple courses, per paid plan, instead of multiple schools, with multiple courses.

Sooner or later, you realise that entrepreneur dream and freedom lifestyle, is just that, a dream! It’s going to cost you more in time and money, than you get in return. So you give up!

But… There’s A Cost To Giving Up!

You come to the end of your life, and you look back at your life, full of regrets… And what’s worse, is your best other best friend is now a multi-millionaire and you feel so sad, that’s not you! If you even made a fraction of that you would have been happy! But alas… it’s too late.

And you remember that girl who wrote a blog post, and gave you access to your future wealth lifeline that you never took…

This is what I don’t want for you!

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In October 2017, I was made redundant (laid-off you call it in the USA), from my full-time ‘day job’ after 5 years. I was working in a large retail store and was the one and only fitted bedroom specialist there. I wanted to leave. But not that soon. As I wasn’t in profit with my side businesses. In fact, far from it.

Since 2012, I had used my employed money, to invest hundreds and thousands of pounds in personal and professional development of me! I knew the smart thing was always to invest in yourself first. So you up your worth! Then you have more value to offer others. And consequently can charge more money for others to access your knowledge and skills. You are your best asset.

So I was given redundancy pay! As I was paid 5 years redundancy. It was a good payout in one lump sum, but I still had to go on benefits to keep a roof over my head and food in my belly long-term, and that money ran out fast!

My parents were horrified. Not because of my redundancy… well, they were surprised by that. But not so much, since I had predicted it the year before it happened! But… because I spent at least a third of my money on my businesses, that I will remind you, were not in profit! They honestly thought I had lost the plot… I bought lots of email marketing and chat bubble lifetime deals, with addons. I bought 15 licenses of Thrive Architect (with an extra lifetime deal at the time) – which I spent 3 years researching for use as an alternative funnel builder, and that sadly doesn’t work to this day! Yes, you heard right, it doesn’t work! And support didn’t sort it out for me within the first year. After that you lose support and have to pay for it! But paying for support you didn’t get in the first place, leaves a bad taste in my mouth! So I moved on. If I ever get it to work, I will let you know what I think! But right now, my opinion is nope! Don’t bother!

But… in November 2017, I bought access to Invanto. Which hosts both online courses and memberships sites, and even more now… It was the best decision I ever made!

Now I can:

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  • Easily build membership sites at the click of button
  • Build sales funnels with upsells and downsells, and bonuses
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  • Wasting hundreds of hours trying to learn everything myself
  • Having to hire an expensive designer – I tried to go it alone…
  • Worrying about being hacked (I was hacked a lot)
  • Having to piece things together from various sources and ending up with nothing to show for it
  • Buying themes that never work or break my site
  • Plugins that slowed my site down so it was crawling like a snail
  • Worrying about shopping cart management
  • Worry about taking payments in an insecure environment
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Invanto has completely change my life. Because now I can focus on creating great content and products, without worrying about the techy side of things.

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Write soon

Sandra xx

A Happy Life Without Sex – Sexuality Misconceptions Busted! Asexuality Interview With Asexual Coach Sandra Bellamy


 

A Happy Life Without Sex – Sexuality Misconceptions Busted! Asexuality Interview With Asexual Coach and Asexual Author Sandra Bellamy.

A writer’s dream is to have people contact you, and ask to interview you and share your book to the world. This is what happened when Diane Délina, ADHD/Relationship & Sex Coach approached me, to ask to interview me on her sexuality misconceptions show. I jumped at the chance. Any opportunity to raise awareness for my very specialist topic – asexuality, is a dream come true. Watch the video now, to find out what was discussed! I think you will be surprised!

If you want to know more about asexuality, subscribe to my channel www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife and shop for Asexual Perspectives, 47 Asexual Stories, now! Here is the link https://amzn.to/33la1QO

If you are a writer struggling to know if you are doing the right thing by writing books, you are. They completely change people’s lives! Never give up. To my mind, the written word is one of the most powerful ways to change lives. I know it’s my lasting legacy, for generations to come. And there is no reason why it can’t be yours too.

As always, stay positive and write soon

Sandra xx

I’m Cringing Writing This Because I Have A Shit Hot Embrassing Confession To Make!


I’m cringing writing this because I have a shit hot embarrassing confession to make. I am sharing something so personal with you and a few thousand other followers too, that I never thought I would talk about publicly, ever. But if it helps just one person, like you, it’s worth sharing, even on my blogs!
 
When you are sick, it sucks. There is no doubt about that. Extra pain on top of pain, can hurt like hell!
 
(If you didn’t know I have been having a lot of pelvic pain due to an infection, I had to have antibiotics for this, which ended yesterday. I also went to the Doctor’s yesterday and have two creams, 1 for inflammation and another for ringworm on my arm!!!
Hence why I haven’t been streaming on my Asexualise channel for almost a week .)
 
But… when you are right about something and something is working, you shouldn’t try to fix something that isn’t broken.
 
However, sometimes you want to test the waters, and you break things, in order to improve other things, in theory!
 
But… sometimes the reality is, you were succeeding and doing so well. You changed something and then you see a decline in your health in more ways than 1.
 
I recently removed 2 food items, one that I eat almost daily and one that I eat at least 3 times a week, but haven’t done so for the last week. Result is poor skin, poor bowel movements… to add to my infection problem. I instantly added 1 back when I thought about what I changed, result, literally back to normal bowel movement, instead of straining on the toilet for 20 minutes, feeling like you are about to give birth! Only what pops out, or doesn’t and you have to help it, is pretty yucky to the eye!
 
The other 1 key ingredient to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and providing less pain and more body flexibility, I go back to eating this tonight… If you have read my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, you will know what this key ingredients is. Here is the link. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain like I was last night https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn 
 
And yes, I recommend to eat this every day, or at least every other day, 4th day without this, and your health is a goner! This hasn’t happened before as far as I can remember, unless I am on holiday and can’t get this ingredient! I have never actively chosen to not eat this, since 2014. It wasn’t that I intended to not ever eat it again, I just wanted to have a change! Sometimes change can be a good thing, in this case, not… it’s what can happen if you don’t take this…
 
I admit I give great advice in my books, which sometimes even I don’t always take every bit of, for myself, consistently. My friends who buy my books end up quoting my own wise words back to me. I need to re-read them to give myself a refresher! Which I do! I am not perfect and I cock-up every now and then. This has been a major cock-up for my health, but I have learned so much from this experience… and a good lesson to learn. Remove one variable at a time and you get shit, or not – as was the case with the first food, before I added it back.
 
I never planned to do a health experiment. But what I have learned once again, is to always, always, trust your own judgement, and when something is right, even though it may not be doing what the majority do, keep it! And if others want to be helped too by it, then that’s great! At least you know that you are 100% right, and it works crazily well and can help others if they want it to.
 
By now I guess you are wondering what luscious food I eat to maintain regular bowel movement and stop yourself from blocking up. So the big reveal… Hazelnut+Cacao Paleo Bars, which you can get here https://amzn.to/3erQksx  They are made of fruits and nuts only, cold pressed, no crap, just good food to feed your body! And better than eating chocolate. Also suitable for vegetarians and gluten free.
 
If you want to know the other food ingredient, to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and provide less pain and more body flexibility, get a copy of my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook. Why get the book? Because it also has a whole holistic plan, for managing Fibromyalgia, so if you have a chronic pain condition although you need this essential food, you also need it as part of a holistic health regime I go through in each chapter of the book, to have less pain, more energy, feel happier, and not just eat this and do nothing else. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain with no remedy to get your life back on track. Here is the link https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn 
 
I know you are probably thinking why can’t I just tell you the ingredient. But I made the mistake of telling one person about the ingredient without them getting the overall holistic plan which is provided by each chapter of the book, which includes foods not to eat that are killing your energy. So they don’t improve their life and can’t live it to the full, and still have a lack of energy because of what they eat, and now I feel bad. So I won’t share it again out of context. Amazon usually refund you as per their policy, if you don’t feel you learn anything from the book and aren’t happy for any reason with it, so you have nothing to lose anyway.
 
Even if you don’t have Fibro, it can still help to reduce your pain and give you more energy, so you feel happier, https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn 
Until next time, stay positive, healthy and happy.
Sandra xx

I Have To Admit This Is Embarrassing!


Embarrassing event

I have to admit this is embarrassing to write, because I am sharing something so personal with you, which I never thought I would ever talk about publicly. But if it helps just one person, like you, it’s worth sharing!

When you are sick, it sucks. There is no doubt about that. Extra pain on top of pain, can hurt like hell!

(If you didn’t know I have been having a lot of pelvic pain due to an infection, I had to have antibiotics for this, which ended yesterday. I also went to the Doctor’s yesterday and have two creams, 1 for inflammation and another for ringworm on my arm!!!)

But… when you are right about something and something is working, you shouldn’t try to fix something that isn’t broken.

However, sometimes you want to test the waters, and you break things, in order to improve other things, in theory!

But… sometimes the reality is, you were succeeding and doing so well. You changed something and then you see a decline in your health in more ways than 1.

I recently removed 2 food items, one that I eat almost daily and one that I eat at least 3 times a week, but haven’t done so for the last week. Result is poor skin, poor bowel movements… to add to my infection problem. I instantly added 1 back when I thought about what I changed, result, literally back to normal bowel movement, instead of straining on the toilet for 20 minutes, feeling like you are about to give birth! Only what pops out, or doesn’t and you have to help it, is pretty yucky to the eye!

The other 1 key ingredient to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and providing less pain and more body flexibility, I go back to eating this tonight… If you have read my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, you will know what this key ingredients is. Here is the link. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain like I was last night https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn

And yes, I recommend to eat this every day, or at least every other day, 4th day without this, and your health is a goner! This hasn’t happened before as far as I can remember, unless I am on holiday and can’t get this ingredient! I have never actively chosen to not eat this, since 2014. It wasn’t that I intended to not ever eat it again, I just wanted to have a change! Sometimes change can be a good thing, in this case, not… it’s what can happen if you don’t take this…

I admit I give great advice in my books, which sometimes even I don’t always take every bit of, for myself, consistently. My friends who buy my books end up quoting my own wise words back to me. I need to re-read them to give myself a refresher! Which I do! I am not perfect and I cock-up every now and then. This has been a major cock-up for my health, but I have learned so much from this experience… and a good lesson to learn. Remove one variable at a time and you get shit, or not – as was the case with the first food, before I added it back.

I never planned to do a health experiment. But what I have learned once again, is to always, always, trust your own judgement, and when something is right, even though it may not be doing what the majority do, keep it! And if others want to be helped too by it, then that’s great! At least you know that you are 100% right, and it works crazily well and can help others if they want it to.

By now I guess you are wondering what luscious food I eat to maintain regular bowel movement and stop yourself from blocking up. So the big reveal… Hazelnut+Cacao Paleo Bars, which you can get here https://amzn.to/3erQksx They are made of fruits and nuts only, cold pressed, no crap, just good food to feed your body! And better than eating chocolate. Also suitable for vegetarians and gluten free.

If you want to know the other food ingredient, to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and provide less pain and more body flexibility, get a copy of my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook. Why get the book? Because it also has a whole holistic plan, for managing Fibromyalgia, so if you have a chronic pain condition although you need this essential food, you also need it as part of a holistic health regime I go through in each chapter of the book, to have less pain, more energy, feel happier, and not just eat this and do nothing else. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain with no remedy to get your life back on track. Here is the link https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn

Even if you don’t have Fibro, it can still help to reduce your pain and give you more energy, so you feel happier, https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn

Until next time, stay quirky and write soon.

Sandra xx

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Stay quirky and write soon

Sandra xx